If you know me, or are currently dealing with me - please read this [serious thread]

4.5 years????????????????

Dude, marriages wont last that long here in ny.

Fuck relationships too! Single 4 life, thats what im going to do.

you know it man

now i'm going out... everyone wish me luck.. hopefully my game isn't so rusty that i trip when approaching a girl and fall on my face

Well I was able to buy an 35K car paid in cash when I was just 18.
Thanks mainly to topbucks

It takes courage to be vulnerable. Good for you. And good luck to you in your next chapter.

sonofsam - I haven't read the responses other than your initial post. Good luck to you I hope you find your equilibrium again. Gotta enjoy a bit of this life to remember what you're fighting for! Good Luck and I can't wait to start seeing your toons again

SoS.... sharing this here is fine no matter what others may say.

Buying the bike... don't do it. Seriously.

Breakups suck badly. Airing out your laundry here can actually help with that, as I'm sure you've experienced. 4.5 years... that's going to take some time to get over. I went through something very similar, but had a son with her. I lay curled up in a ball on the floor of my office for a few weeks. It was horrible. I don't envy what you've experienced or will experience in the near future. I'll chat with you too, if you'd like. Talking can help. Being alone can help also. Depends on the day. Good luck.

Looking good!

gospel and truth.

That is damn right. It does take courage, especially for a male.

Mike, sorry to hear about your breakup, bro. Things happen for a reason and as long as you keep learning and keep positive, I see nothing but brighter days ahead for ya.

SOS good luck to you and I am sure, as hard as it is to believe now, this ex girlfriend will soon be a distant memory. Especially when you do meet Mrs. Right. In the meantime I think the advice to have fun is good, but don't forget who you are and what you want meaning dont go lay everyone in site because you think it will help you get over the other. It often only makes you feel worse imo. Again, good luck to you in the future.

Ah who gives a shit where he posted it. Don't kill yourself on the bike SoS, I'd hold off on that one too. Perhaps a go-kart to get you by?

Nice to know you.

Here is some advice from someone who is like you (work ethic) but is 10 years older then you. I can give you a little preview of the future.

Don't ever compromise your goals for anyone, GF, wife, friends anything. Not when it comes to your financial freedom. If you give in and slack for a women and then 5 years from now she leaves you, what do you ahve to show for it, she just cost you 5 years of your life that you could have been using building towards YOUR future. If those close to you can not understand what is important to you and be supportive then they are not worth giving up anything for. I can see a GF getting pissed " Why don't you spend more time with me, etc..." you are not married to this person so honestly, you may be doing it for them too, but until it is half theirs (lol get a prenup) they wont feel like you are doing it for them too. Shit, even then wives have a hard time understanding that we do all of our hard work for them too. What they don't understand is that we do not really enjoy this, work is work, so not only do we not get to spend time with them (which sucks for us too) we are also working a lot. From their end, they don;t get to spend that much time with us either but shit at least they don't have to work like 100 hours a week. They seem to think they have it sooo hard being with us.... oh i never get to see him, well bitch it sucks for me too that i dont get to see you AND i am the one working my ass off, so cut me some slack....

Anyway, friends are important. I lost most of mine because I started about 7 years ago working my ass off while everyone else was partying. Although i keep close with a few that are still my business partners today. My suggestions, associate with people who have the same goals as you (likely other people in this industry) and let the be your friends. You can still make time for your old friends but don't feel like you are missing out on anything, you can still make a little time to do stuff with them. Trust me, in 10 - 20 years when they are still working pay check to pay check and you are retired sitting on the bitch they will WISHED that they had been more like you. They will miss out on the rest of their lives, you will be living yours. My moto, I would rather work my ass off for 10 years and retire and enjoy live for the next 50 years, instead of working 9 - 5 and trying to make ends met for the next 50 years just to retire on social security and live poor for the last 10 years of my life. So you might sacrafice going out and partying, so you might only go out 1 time a week instead of 5.... look at the big picture and thing about your whole life, not the next couple years. People say live for today, and enjoy it. I tell them they sound like they are betting they are going to die young with that attitude, if they live for today and don't die young they will be wishing their were dead when they are 70 and still working at walmart.

Don't compromise your goals, people should understand, if they don;t it;s not your problem and don;t feel bad moving on without them. Also keep in mind if you aren;t making that much and/or blowing your money then all of what you are doing is for nothing as well. If you are saving, and re-investing, and working towards financial freedom, then stay the course... when you are 19 all the GF's seem like they are the one, etc... the world gets a lot clearer after you go through that a few times, and possibly a few marriages too. It's not the end of the world, you will find the one in the future... and if you never do then you will be able to buy all the good looking ass you want with all the money you have made ;)

take it easy and keep doing what you are doing. I like your attitude, if you need any help let me know.

Joesho you're a brainless fucktard, pathetic is acting the bigshot on a chatboard. Useless keyboard warrior.

Hey SOS,

You're one person I will never worry about being successful, you have all the tools required to make it big. Stay focussed and driven and you'll be retired by 30.

And be careful on the bike bro, Juicy is right, those things are death on wheels, thats why I got rid of my R6

Spoken with class, as always.

And utterly true.

Forget the girl and the bike, get out and have some fun, you will meet another girl, just make sure you tell her you're working hours upfront, oh fuck that let me know ill fix a chick for ya

keep yer head up sos

you know i'll love you forever bro!

much <3

take it from someone who has been down many roads and still travelin

work hard make your money and learn how to just take care of number one because you can't control anyone or anyhting else around you but yourself.

once you figure that out just live life and the right girl will follow. until then just have fun and bang them all casue life is to short..

I dont care what anyone says money makes things better in many ways. so stay focused and dont give up

FYI I'm fighting my ex in court right now so I can visit my daughter and its costing over 50k already just because of the nature of the business i'm in.
life is a bitch but you do what you have too.
If I didnt have the money the system would win so it my go to the supreme court.
thats just what I'm dealing with this week and I have a 1000 situations from my past as I'm sure many others do as well..

make your money,work hard and only trust yourself and the rest will follow..
Most of us dont care for drama or have time for it.

Good luck I'm sure you will be fine.

and the best way to get over a girl is to get under another

Go hard mate - and enjoy yourself.

Hit me up when the dust settles some and let's see if I can;t help getting you some traffic.

Admire your style, ESPECIALLY for a 19 year old and ESPECIALLY for this industry.

You'll go far.

Take care and good luck.

;-)

http://www.blowmeuptom.com/

Boys night out on the right... I suggest you podcast this shit daily bro...

19yo is to young to have a girlfriend! And this is why!

As for fun and all and hermitizing yourself... It only takes about 2 years and you are making a lot of money and you can slow down... but trying to get into the business at a slow pace makes it more like 5 or 6...

dont let gfy worm eat your brain cells

dude be careful on that bike and enjoy

Hey Mike,

good post, took courage and balls to come here and talk open

Fuck the haters, some of these responses show alot more than the words actually written.

As you also see many people have been there and will get to where you are now, relationships and life are like that.

You have your heart on the right spot and the courage and drive to get thru whatever happens just fine, all it takes is some time.

Keep on working hard and do what you have to do to treat yourself from time to time, you'll be fine faster than you know what happend.

You'll always have my support, simply cause you're a guy that deserves nothing less.

Keep your head up and your feet on the ground bro, you'll be fine in no time

Steve

hm... I won't comment on anything.... and just say - good luck

thanks to everyone for your comments in this thread... i really do appreciate it.

i just got home... it's 5:47am.. and i'm drunk and numb...

it feels good to be going out again though... tonight i watched one of my good friends fight with his gf to the point of where she tried to jump out of a moving car while we were going to a party... and seeing that kind of drama, really opened my eyes..... cause i've been in the same situation before myself..

i am 19 years old... i have my entire life ahead of me and shouldn't be stressing out so much... i had a blast tonight, and reminded me of how i used to be before i got obsessed with workin so much..

cheers to everyone and goodnight

p.s. i love you all... seriously

We all love you too man, in a physical kind of way. Keep on rockin' in the free world

Hey SOS ....I wish you all the best and you know i will still be here if you need anything....

I don't know if you know what i have been going through but it is also a VERY tough situation....and hard for me to be around my computer atm also...

I know you have the proper motivation and drive to succeed..but sometimes it also has to be the right time....

So be sure to hit me up if you need anything .....

I think this thread needs a cartoon........

sos, this is the most emo thing i ever read in my entire life.

love you - from juice

So how drunk were you when you wrote this dude?

Summary of the original post:

Sorry for being an ass to some people.

(Bunch of shit no one cares about but some will pretend they do just to be nice)

I'm opening 10 new sites.

End Summary

10 paysites at once?

they can't be THAT good if you have managed to produce 10 at once.

Son of Sam is honest and real.

A lot more than I can say about other people on GFY.

Good luck to you, youngster, and keep going out and having fun and doing your thing and don't listen to what a few fucktards on GFY tell you.

This is just a message board. Whoop ti freaking do.

Have fun and best of luck in everything you do. I hope SexFeeder becomes a huge success and all the people who hate on you will be kissing your ass to do business with you

this thread is proof of why you don't do business with kids

1.) Even though it would be a stupid financial move for me right now... i'm going to buy this.... i need it for my mental health.. need to treat myself to something right now. I've worked too fucking long and don't really have shit to show for it... so i'm going to get this and ride the fucking hell out of it, cause i'm that type of person who just loves driving

*** I drive almoset everyday, started when I was a kid with motorcycles at 12, rode for over 33 years . . now it's a corvette c5 . . try and do a litttle everyday even if it's just crusing the 101 > 405 >118 > 5 and back to the 101 and home at about 4 am, at least it's something . . .today I was in filmore, got a flat and came back, gonna split into the mountains and look at snow a little later . .

regards, bmb

Man your are doing good for a 19 years old

I am 20 and far behind you.

Good luck with everything.

My best to you, my friend. You're a smart cookie, you'll make it.

100% sober

I have no problem sharing what's on my mind

Cheers to ya' SoS for puttin' out an honest post. Too bad about the GF, but as you said...you're 19. Still plenty 'o fish in the sea.

Take it from a 40-somethin' yr. old - 19's way too young to consider buckling down to a serious relationship. You got a LOT of years ahead to enjoy that.

Myself, I never married until I was in my thirties - and don't regret waiting one iota. Gave me a chance to party my face off, enjoy the company of good buddies, see the world a little...and kill off a few liver cells. Sure, there were many GF's back then - but they weren't a priority. Now they're just fond memories.

I'll join the chorus of sayin' avoid gettin' the bike, though. I'm a biker at heart, but those crotch rockets are just trouble waitin' to happen.

Crank out a few cartoons. They're missed.

kuniiiiiiiii

Dont really know ya bro, but you showed me that you are one of the kindest most generous people I know. I still hear from them how appreciative they are. That in my book says ALOT about a man. You're top notch. Far as the GF thing goes, dont sweat it. I know its painful. But hell youre 19. Goddamn I wish I was and could change a few things. That said, you cant change anything either other than your self. So take it all in stride and make your life better. Just takes time

all the best, you seem like a good guy