I think I am right. 50.
My friends husband abandoned her!!!
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so quick to pass judgement? we've only heard 1 side of the storyOriginally posted by StallionThats pretty fucked up on his part.. What a loser..
Not that I really care to hear the other side, I'm an asshole and dont give a fuck what happens to either one of them
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she needs to do the opposite of what she was doing before..Originally posted by TurboAngelThey were married for 7 years, she was good to him, she cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.
He actually called her names, and even hit her at times. Finally, he talked her into selling their home, and he kept all the $...gave her 15% of what she was supposed to get. His family was very nosy, imposed a lot, and he told her he needed 10 months to 2 years to think if he wants to be with her!
Now she is out in the world, trying to live, asking him to give her a divorce and what by law is hers and he is just ignoring her. Lat email he sent her said "he paid for her college (which he didn't he paid 3 semesters) and he helped her out for 7 years so he has to cut the umbilical cord!!!
When she met him she was 19, full scholarship to a good college, gave it up for him, went everywhere the military sent him, and supported him as a wife.
What do you guys think she should do?
He is living it up in relatives homes while she has to survive on her own.
They both post here but I haven't seen them on so she asked me to post and ask what you all think.Comment
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Loryn posted the best advice, pretty much what I would have said if I wasnt too lazy to type all of that for someone I dont know. Living well is the best revenge. And showing someone that you dont need them or give a fuck if they live or die, is a good feeling (for me, anyway)Comment
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some men are not designed for marriageComment
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TOM LEYKISOriginally posted by TurboAngelThey were married for 7 years, she was good to him, she cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.
He actually called her names, and even hit her at times. Finally, he talked her into selling their home, and he kept all the $...gave her 15% of what she was supposed to get. His family was very nosy, imposed a lot, and he told her he needed 10 months to 2 years to think if he wants to be with her!
Now she is out in the world, trying to live, asking him to give her a divorce and what by law is hers and he is just ignoring her. Lat email he sent her said "he paid for her college (which he didn't he paid 3 semesters) and he helped her out for 7 years so he has to cut the umbilical cord!!!
When she met him she was 19, full scholarship to a good college, gave it up for him, went everywhere the military sent him, and supported him as a wife.
What do you guys think she should do?
He is living it up in relatives homes while she has to survive on her own.
They both post here but I haven't seen them on so she asked me to post and ask what you all think.ICQ:268731675Comment
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Not defending the guy in this scenario, but it seems some women are not designed for marriage either. I mean, the woman in question gave up a promising future, a scholarship, and who knows what else at the age of 19 to marry and move around with some dude. This is not a very bright idea if you ask me. Then again I always get a kick out of people that get married so young. Plus, keep in mind, we have not heard both sides of the story.Originally posted by WMEsome men are not designed for marriage
The issue presented could be true. Then again, it could be the dude split after coming home from work early to find some dudes cock in his wife's mouth. I'm not saying this happened, but you never know in these cases. It's easy to take sides when you only hear one side and don't know the facts.
Who really knows what happened. However, I agree with a few others. What good is posting this shit here going to do? Get advice from a bunch of arm chair lawyers and people who have no idea how to deal with relationships? I would like to think that if my friend asked me to post something like this, as thier friend, I would explain to them why this would not be a good idea. Then as thier friend I would try to help them figure things out on a personal level. I don't think I'd ask for advice from a board called "Go Fuck Yourself" that's for sure.
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There are always two sides to every story. My advice applies to any and all women.
1. If he lays a hand on your, leave.
2. Never give up your independance or your future for anyone.
3. Making it on your own just takes determination and hard work, it IS Possible.
On a personal note it appears your friend is in the adult business, there is no reason why she can't make a living doing it. You can't make someone love you nor can you make them want to be with you. If they don't want to love you or be with you GOOD...that means they are not the person for you and move on.Comment
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Originally posted by MrPheerso quick to pass judgement? we've only heard 1 side of the story
Not that I really care to hear the other side, I'm an asshole and dont give a fuck what happens to either one of them
If he was hitting her then he is a loser. Reguardless of what else he did. In my book you are scum of the earth if you hit your wife or girlfriend.Comment
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Sounds like she should have left him a long time ago..she will find someone better..hopefully the courts will give her what's owed to herComment
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Hit me up on ICQ. I have a suggestion.Originally posted by TurboAngelWhat do you guys think she should do?Earn up to $.03 per Visitor -> No Click Monetization!"Because the World Wide Web is all about two things: horrifyingly stupid psychodrama, and naked chicks."
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i would like to hear his side of the storyOriginally posted by TurboAngelshe cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.
i hope this is not off topic but cooking, cleaning, laundry, and never denying sex is a women job but the stupid fatass feminist changed all that if i see a feminist i would headbutt themLast edited by Alphonso; 01-31-2006, 06:31 PM.MEOWWWWWComment
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So, are you goin to name names or what? If not, why not simply leave it as a friend of yours as opposed to stating that she's part of the GFY community?
Something tells me she wasn't exactly the peach you're making her out to be. You basically described a robot. But hey, if she is in fact made of wires, please send her to me. Got lots of work that needs to be done over here. Thanks."Every man think that his burden is the heaviest"
"Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it"
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Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.comGo back to school and start over. Fuck him who cares about it. She obviously saw red flags if he called her names and hit her and she chose to ignore them. The best revenge is to forget. Tell her to move to a new town, start a new life. If she was capable of taking care of a grown child and his abuse she is strong enough to start over. Key thing I would do is hit the gym. Make it my new religion. It will relieve stress, give her more energy and make her feel better. Then go back to school and work hard. If she enjoys school and finds a job she likes then she will enjoy school and work and have fun while doing both. The gym is a big thing. It helps increase positive thoughts and will help her keep her energy level up.
Life is too short! She, from you said, has already given up part of her life to him, why give the rest to him by fighting and chasing. MOVE AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK. That means no calls no nothing. BYE BYE SAILOR!
Don't care whether married or good friends - ya never shit on your partner or your friends. And you sure as hell don't steal from them. If there's a problem - you work it out whether you like it or not and, if possible, continue as friends.
Only thing I'd add to your post - dump the baggage. It may not be easy, but don't carry that forward in future life. We all got only one life - so make the most of it.XXX TLD's - Another mosquito to swat.Comment
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Jeffrey RossOriginally posted by LittleCGet a laywer, screw his best friend, drive him over with your car and if he still stands - hehe drive backwarts !
I miss her sometimes...
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Sorry I don't know them so no I'm not talking about them. I have no clue who Kyle Hoppes is.Originally posted by NismoThe couple in question is xlogger and Kyle Hoppes. They are breaking up.Comment
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She asked me to post this, I hope you read it now that we have a long thread.
I didn't make turboangel write this for pithy, I did it for advice because I have no one in my life.
I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money.
I need to work on my masters.
I got a job and I still can't make ends meet.
I have skills, but apparently I need a masters to do what i studied for.
I have learned, I don't want to go back, I just want what is mine by law.Comment
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Thanks for the update.... sounds like she is on the right trackOriginally posted by TurboAngelShe asked me to post this, I hope you read it now that we have a long thread.
I didn't make turboangel write this for pithy, I did it for advice because I have no one in my life.
I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money.
I need to work on my masters.
I got a job and I still can't make ends meet.
I have skills, but apparently I need a masters to do what i studied for.
I have learned, I don't want to go back, I just want what is mine by law.
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I think she is allso but I don't think she'll be able to get any of the $$ from the sale of the house.
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You should still go talk to a lawyer. Most lawyers won't charge you for an initial consultation. Many lawyers will take on cases without an upfront fee, in exchange for a portion of the winnings.Originally posted by TurboAngelI have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money."Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."
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Originally posted by TeenGodFatherSo she cheated on him?
Hell no she has been only with him, she was only 19 when they got together.Comment
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Originally posted by aicoNot having a friend post her personal shit on an adult webmaster forum would be my first suggestion.
No class.
hey Aico, this is not related to this thread but I sent ya an email.
Holla back....
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Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?"Every man think that his burden is the heaviest"
"Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it"
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Sorry no, I don't know them. She'll post in this thread in the next few day's, she doesn't have a pc or internet right now.Originally posted by Eservices2k3Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?Comment
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They're not breaking up; and they've just celebrated their first wedding anniversary.Originally posted by Eservices2k3Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?
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Good deal, was just a guess. Congrats to Mr. & Mrs. Lenny."Every man think that his burden is the heaviest"
"Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it"
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