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  • BradM
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    • Dec 2003
    • 3397

    #51
    I think I am right. 50.

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    • Mr Pheer
      So Fucking Banned
      • Dec 2002
      • 22082

      #52
      Originally posted by Stallion
      Thats pretty fucked up on his part.. What a loser..
      so quick to pass judgement? we've only heard 1 side of the story

      Not that I really care to hear the other side, I'm an asshole and dont give a fuck what happens to either one of them

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      • dbavaria
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        • Nov 2005
        • 404

        #53
        Girls, don't ditch your dreams for him.

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        • reginaldo
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          • Jan 2006
          • 610

          #54
          Originally posted by TurboAngel
          They were married for 7 years, she was good to him, she cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.
          He actually called her names, and even hit her at times. Finally, he talked her into selling their home, and he kept all the $...gave her 15% of what she was supposed to get. His family was very nosy, imposed a lot, and he told her he needed 10 months to 2 years to think if he wants to be with her!
          Now she is out in the world, trying to live, asking him to give her a divorce and what by law is hers and he is just ignoring her. Lat email he sent her said "he paid for her college (which he didn't he paid 3 semesters) and he helped her out for 7 years so he has to cut the umbilical cord!!!
          When she met him she was 19, full scholarship to a good college, gave it up for him, went everywhere the military sent him, and supported him as a wife.

          What do you guys think she should do?
          He is living it up in relatives homes while she has to survive on her own.

          They both post here but I haven't seen them on so she asked me to post and ask what you all think.
          she needs to do the opposite of what she was doing before..

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          • Mr Pheer
            So Fucking Banned
            • Dec 2002
            • 22082

            #55
            Loryn posted the best advice, pretty much what I would have said if I wasnt too lazy to type all of that for someone I dont know. Living well is the best revenge. And showing someone that you dont need them or give a fuck if they live or die, is a good feeling (for me, anyway)

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            • xxxdesign-net
              My hips don't lie
              • Nov 2002
              • 10129

              #56
              What's his nick ?

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              • WME
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                • May 2004
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                #57
                some men are not designed for marriage
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                • Bird
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                  • Jan 2005
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                  #58
                  Originally posted by TurboAngel
                  They were married for 7 years, she was good to him, she cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.
                  He actually called her names, and even hit her at times. Finally, he talked her into selling their home, and he kept all the $...gave her 15% of what she was supposed to get. His family was very nosy, imposed a lot, and he told her he needed 10 months to 2 years to think if he wants to be with her!
                  Now she is out in the world, trying to live, asking him to give her a divorce and what by law is hers and he is just ignoring her. Lat email he sent her said "he paid for her college (which he didn't he paid 3 semesters) and he helped her out for 7 years so he has to cut the umbilical cord!!!
                  When she met him she was 19, full scholarship to a good college, gave it up for him, went everywhere the military sent him, and supported him as a wife.

                  What do you guys think she should do?
                  He is living it up in relatives homes while she has to survive on her own.

                  They both post here but I haven't seen them on so she asked me to post and ask what you all think.
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                  • Hue G. Pness
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                    • Jun 2003
                    • 1237

                    #59
                    Originally posted by WME
                    some men are not designed for marriage
                    Not defending the guy in this scenario, but it seems some women are not designed for marriage either. I mean, the woman in question gave up a promising future, a scholarship, and who knows what else at the age of 19 to marry and move around with some dude. This is not a very bright idea if you ask me. Then again I always get a kick out of people that get married so young. Plus, keep in mind, we have not heard both sides of the story.

                    The issue presented could be true. Then again, it could be the dude split after coming home from work early to find some dudes cock in his wife's mouth. I'm not saying this happened, but you never know in these cases. It's easy to take sides when you only hear one side and don't know the facts.

                    Who really knows what happened. However, I agree with a few others. What good is posting this shit here going to do? Get advice from a bunch of arm chair lawyers and people who have no idea how to deal with relationships? I would like to think that if my friend asked me to post something like this, as thier friend, I would explain to them why this would not be a good idea. Then as thier friend I would try to help them figure things out on a personal level. I don't think I'd ask for advice from a board called "Go Fuck Yourself" that's for sure.
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                    • Nismo
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                      • May 2002
                      • 4977

                      #60
                      The couple in question is xlogger and Kyle Hoppes. They are breaking up.
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                      • wyldblyss
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                        • Nov 2003
                        • 5779

                        #61
                        There are always two sides to every story. My advice applies to any and all women.

                        1. If he lays a hand on your, leave.
                        2. Never give up your independance or your future for anyone.
                        3. Making it on your own just takes determination and hard work, it IS Possible.

                        On a personal note it appears your friend is in the adult business, there is no reason why she can't make a living doing it. You can't make someone love you nor can you make them want to be with you. If they don't want to love you or be with you GOOD...that means they are not the person for you and move on.

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                        • Cat for cash
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                          • Jan 2006
                          • 11

                          #62
                          Yep, have her fuck his best friend and/or brother. Then, set fire to his clothes.

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                          • Stallion
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                            • Jan 2001
                            • 6632

                            #63
                            Originally posted by MrPheer
                            so quick to pass judgement? we've only heard 1 side of the story

                            Not that I really care to hear the other side, I'm an asshole and dont give a fuck what happens to either one of them

                            If he was hitting her then he is a loser. Reguardless of what else he did. In my book you are scum of the earth if you hit your wife or girlfriend.
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                            • EdgeXXX
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                              • Oct 2005
                              • 5816

                              #64
                              Originally posted by Bird
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                              • Big Red Machine
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                                • Jan 2005
                                • 9586

                                #65
                                I'd like to hear his side of the story. Alot of guys get bashed by bitter ex's.
                                She sounds like a catch, coming from a biased friend. I mean no disrespect by this just would need all sides to decide

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                                • adultchica
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                                  • Sep 2005
                                  • 5141

                                  #66
                                  If the guy hit her, she's better off, period.

                                  She will find someone better down the road

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                                  • Spunky
                                    I need a beer
                                    • Jun 2002
                                    • 133978

                                    #67
                                    Sounds like she should have left him a long time ago..she will find someone better..hopefully the courts will give her what's owed to her

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                                    • fr0gman
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                                      • Feb 2005
                                      • 2093

                                      #68
                                      Originally posted by TurboAngel
                                      What do you guys think she should do?
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                                      • Anal Hobbit
                                        So Fucking Banned
                                        • Aug 2001
                                        • 2308

                                        #69
                                        Is she hot??????

                                        Pics.....

                                        She could come shack up with the Hobbit.

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                                        • aico
                                          Moo Moo Cow
                                          • Mar 2004
                                          • 14748

                                          #70
                                          Originally posted by TurboAngel
                                          She ASKED me to post this, please read hun.
                                          My friends ask me to do thing all the time, and when it's a bad idea, I tell them, and don't do it. They do the same for me...

                                          I know how to read hun

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                                          • Alphonso
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Dec 2005
                                            • 544

                                            #71
                                            Originally posted by TurboAngel
                                            she cooked, clean, laundry, ran his errands, paid the bills, managed finances, made galleries, fed his rotating scripts, never denied him sex, she was a good wife.
                                            i would like to hear his side of the story

                                            i hope this is not off topic but cooking, cleaning, laundry, and never denying sex is a women job but the stupid fatass feminist changed all that if i see a feminist i would headbutt them
                                            Last edited by Alphonso; 01-31-2006, 06:31 PM.
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                                            • iwantchixx
                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                              • Oct 2002
                                              • 12860

                                              #72
                                              SO who paid for the house though?

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                                              • Pornwolf
                                                Drunk and Unruly
                                                • Jan 2002
                                                • 22712

                                                #73
                                                I can only think of a few couples in that age bracket that post here.
                                                I've trusted my sites to them for over a decade...

                                                Webair, bitches.

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                                                • Eservices2k3
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                                                  • Apr 2003
                                                  • 361

                                                  #74
                                                  So, are you goin to name names or what? If not, why not simply leave it as a friend of yours as opposed to stating that she's part of the GFY community?

                                                  Something tells me she wasn't exactly the peach you're making her out to be. You basically described a robot. But hey, if she is in fact made of wires, please send her to me. Got lots of work that needs to be done over here. Thanks.
                                                  "Every man think that his burden is the heaviest"
                                                  "Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it"
                                                  -Bob Marley

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                                                  • Webby
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                                                    • Oct 2002
                                                    • 14956

                                                    #75
                                                    Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                                                    Go back to school and start over. Fuck him who cares about it. She obviously saw red flags if he called her names and hit her and she chose to ignore them. The best revenge is to forget. Tell her to move to a new town, start a new life. If she was capable of taking care of a grown child and his abuse she is strong enough to start over. Key thing I would do is hit the gym. Make it my new religion. It will relieve stress, give her more energy and make her feel better. Then go back to school and work hard. If she enjoys school and finds a job she likes then she will enjoy school and work and have fun while doing both. The gym is a big thing. It helps increase positive thoughts and will help her keep her energy level up.

                                                    Life is too short! She, from you said, has already given up part of her life to him, why give the rest to him by fighting and chasing. MOVE AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK. That means no calls no nothing. BYE BYE SAILOR!



                                                    Don't care whether married or good friends - ya never shit on your partner or your friends. And you sure as hell don't steal from them. If there's a problem - you work it out whether you like it or not and, if possible, continue as friends.

                                                    Only thing I'd add to your post - dump the baggage. It may not be easy, but don't carry that forward in future life. We all got only one life - so make the most of it.
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                                                    • uno
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                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                      • 18450

                                                      #76
                                                      Originally posted by LittleC
                                                      Get a laywer, screw his best friend, drive him over with your car and if he still stands - hehe drive backwarts !
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                                                      • TurboAngel
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                                                        • Jun 2003
                                                        • 30122

                                                        #77
                                                        Originally posted by Nismo
                                                        The couple in question is xlogger and Kyle Hoppes. They are breaking up.
                                                        Sorry I don't know them so no I'm not talking about them. I have no clue who Kyle Hoppes is.

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                                                        • TurboAngel
                                                          H.B.I.C.
                                                          • Jun 2003
                                                          • 30122

                                                          #78
                                                          She asked me to post this, I hope you read it now that we have a long thread.

                                                          I didn't make turboangel write this for pithy, I did it for advice because I have no one in my life.
                                                          I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money.
                                                          I need to work on my masters.
                                                          I got a job and I still can't make ends meet.
                                                          I have skills, but apparently I need a masters to do what i studied for.
                                                          I have learned, I don't want to go back, I just want what is mine by law.

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                                                          • Ice
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                                                            • Nov 2002
                                                            • 26053

                                                            #79
                                                            Originally posted by TurboAngel
                                                            She asked me to post this, I hope you read it now that we have a long thread.

                                                            I didn't make turboangel write this for pithy, I did it for advice because I have no one in my life.
                                                            I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money.
                                                            I need to work on my masters.
                                                            I got a job and I still can't make ends meet.
                                                            I have skills, but apparently I need a masters to do what i studied for.
                                                            I have learned, I don't want to go back, I just want what is mine by law.
                                                            Thanks for the update.... sounds like she is on the right track
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                                                            • TurboAngel
                                                              H.B.I.C.
                                                              • Jun 2003
                                                              • 30122

                                                              #80
                                                              I think she is allso but I don't think she'll be able to get any of the $$ from the sale of the house.


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                                                              • NetRodent
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                                                                • Jan 2002
                                                                • 3985

                                                                #81
                                                                Originally posted by TurboAngel
                                                                I have no money for a lawyer while he sits on all the money.
                                                                You should still go talk to a lawyer. Most lawyers won't charge you for an initial consultation. Many lawyers will take on cases without an upfront fee, in exchange for a portion of the winnings.
                                                                "Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."
                                                                --H.L. Mencken

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                                                                • Tom_PM
                                                                  Porn Meister
                                                                  • Feb 2005
                                                                  • 16443

                                                                  #82
                                                                  Yeah I'd say STILL go see a lawyer about suing for the divorce, plus whatever else. If it's a strong case, they'll be paid if they win anyway right? Let THEM decide if you can afford them or not.
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                                                                  • Jakke PNG
                                                                    ex-TeenGodFather
                                                                    • Nov 2001
                                                                    • 20306

                                                                    #83
                                                                    So she cheated on him?
                                                                    ..and I'm off.

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                                                                    • jennym
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                                                                      • May 2003
                                                                      • 1622

                                                                      #84
                                                                      They are married....he can't just take what he wants and leave. She definitely needs to see a lawyer.

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                                                                      • TurboAngel
                                                                        H.B.I.C.
                                                                        • Jun 2003
                                                                        • 30122

                                                                        #85
                                                                        Originally posted by TeenGodFather
                                                                        So she cheated on him?

                                                                        Hell no she has been only with him, she was only 19 when they got together.

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                                                                        • Jakke PNG
                                                                          ex-TeenGodFather
                                                                          • Nov 2001
                                                                          • 20306

                                                                          #86
                                                                          Originally posted by TurboAngel
                                                                          Hell no she has been only with him, she was only 19.
                                                                          Well, everyone else assumed something.. I figured I might as well.
                                                                          ..and I'm off.

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                                                                          • TurboAngel
                                                                            H.B.I.C.
                                                                            • Jun 2003
                                                                            • 30122

                                                                            #87
                                                                            You know what they say about assuming.


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                                                                            • Jakke PNG
                                                                              ex-TeenGodFather
                                                                              • Nov 2001
                                                                              • 20306

                                                                              #88
                                                                              Originally posted by TurboAngel
                                                                              You know what they say about assuming.


                                                                              It's good for the soul?
                                                                              ..and I'm off.

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                                                                              • TurboAngel
                                                                                H.B.I.C.
                                                                                • Jun 2003
                                                                                • 30122

                                                                                #89
                                                                                Yea, LMFAO! I love you now I just had a good laugh.


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                                                                                • Big Red Machine
                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                  • Jan 2005
                                                                                  • 9586

                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  So she's only 26.... goto a lawyer get her fair share. Then put it behind her she has her whole life ahead of her, and avoid controlling ,domineering men.
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                                                                                  • Nightnday
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                                                                                    • Jul 2004
                                                                                    • 339

                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    Originally posted by TurboAngel

                                                                                    What do you guys think she should do?
                                                                                    He is living it up in relatives homes while she has to survive on her own.
                                                                                    A contract killer maybe?
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                                                                                    • O MARINA
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                                                                                      • Mar 2003
                                                                                      • 13794

                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      Originally posted by aico
                                                                                      Not having a friend post her personal shit on an adult webmaster forum would be my first suggestion.

                                                                                      No class.



                                                                                      hey Aico, this is not related to this thread but I sent ya an email.
                                                                                      Holla back....

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                                                                                      • Eservices2k3
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                                                                                        • Apr 2003
                                                                                        • 361

                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?
                                                                                        "Every man think that his burden is the heaviest"
                                                                                        "Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it"
                                                                                        -Bob Marley

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                                                                                        • TurboAngel
                                                                                          H.B.I.C.
                                                                                          • Jun 2003
                                                                                          • 30122

                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          Originally posted by Eservices2k3
                                                                                          Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?
                                                                                          Sorry no, I don't know them. She'll post in this thread in the next few day's, she doesn't have a pc or internet right now.

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                                                                                          • Quagmire
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                                                                                            • Jul 2005
                                                                                            • 6490

                                                                                            #95
                                                                                            I dunno whats wrong with that dude. getting laid, getting fed, getting laundry done. What else do you need?

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                                                                                            • chase
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                                                                                              • Jul 2004
                                                                                              • 6019

                                                                                              #96
                                                                                              Originally posted by Eservices2k3
                                                                                              Mr. and Mrs. Lenny?
                                                                                              They're not breaking up; and they've just celebrated their first wedding anniversary.
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                                                                                              • Eservices2k3
                                                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                                                • Apr 2003
                                                                                                • 361

                                                                                                #97
                                                                                                Good deal, was just a guess. Congrats to Mr. & Mrs. Lenny.
                                                                                                "Every man think that his burden is the heaviest"
                                                                                                "Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it"
                                                                                                -Bob Marley

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                                                                                                • everestcash
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                                                                                                  • Apr 2002
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                                                                                                  #98
                                                                                                  guy is a jerk

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                                                                                                  • Wiggles
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                                                                                                    • May 2004
                                                                                                    • 14423

                                                                                                    #99
                                                                                                    whats his side of the story?
                                                                                                    no sig

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                                                                                                    • reynold
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                                                                                                      • Oct 2002
                                                                                                      • 51271

                                                                                                      #100
                                                                                                      It's time to hire the lawyer, go to a Family Court, and file for a civila action/petition to divorce.

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