Originally Posted by georgeyw

You're never ever going to get the closure you think you need. I know it's hard and feels impossible, but just stay away from her completely.

There is absolutely nothing anyone can say or do to make you feel better. It just takes time to get over these things. It's natural to feel upset and miss someone who you have spent so much time with and more importantly loved.

So don't contact her, don't make snide comments to friends about her, just get on with your life. Maybe make some changes in your life such as eat better, get fit what ever. Just keep your mind busy with friends and in a few months you will find that you feel a whole lot better.