Originally Posted by baddog

How old are you? Under 25? Then send her some flowers and say "thank you." Best favor she ever did you.

Oh, and getting laid is a good way to forget about her, but do yourself a favor and make sure it is with multiple chicks.

Originally Posted by RevengeBucks_Monica

You need to work really really hard to convince yourself that you WANT to move on, that you NEED to get over her, and that you will do anything to be ready for the new miss right when it's time.

I had a bad breakup once, and convinced myself that I was going to do everything I could to get over it as fast as possible. How I did it was completely avoiding any contact with my ex whatsoever. No phonecalls, NO emails, no internet messaging, NOTHING, absolutely no personal contact.

Next, I went out and began doing all the things I thought I couldn't do in the past because of him. I started taking classes, going dancing, being social, and just having a good time. I also started spending lots of time working.

Sometimes, I had to just be sad and take care of myself... read in bed, take a hot bath, cry a bit. Then I would stop wallowing and get up and move forward again.

It takes time, as you know.. but one day, you'll be over her, and believe it or not, you'll even feel glad you aren't with her.

Originally Posted by knew

At least she didn't leave you for someone she was playing WoW with. But at least she had the ovaries to do it in person with you... not in a email or a txt message.

Wow that sucks, SecAudit ... what a dumb bitch.

Good idea to go out in the East/ABC village I love that place. Just chill out with the boys, go out, have fun, and meet new people(girls)