RevengeBucks_Monica

You need to work really really hard to convince yourself that you WANT to move on, that you NEED to get over her, and that you will do anything to be ready for the new miss right when it's time.

I had a bad breakup once, and convinced myself that I was going to do everything I could to get over it as fast as possible. How I did it was completely avoiding any contact with my ex whatsoever. No phonecalls, NO emails, no internet messaging, NOTHING, absolutely no personal contact.

Next, I went out and began doing all the things I thought I couldn't do in the past because of him. I started taking classes, going dancing, being social, and just having a good time. I also started spending lots of time working.

Sometimes, I had to just be sad and take care of myself... read in bed, take a hot bath, cry a bit. Then I would stop wallowing and get up and move forward again.

It takes time, as you know.. but one day, you'll be over her, and believe it or not, you'll even feel glad you aren't with her.

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