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Originally Posted by media
Rays post was the best.. Take it from someone who's marriage ended this year.. I wish I could have gone back and done more of the little things... Work the issues out that turn into bricks that end up breaking the back of the marriage... it will pay off in the long run.. I wish my ex would have been willing to take the steps I was in the end to make things right, but sometimes it becomes sour milk if you don't put in the effort on even small things..
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Media, sorry to hear about the marriage. Usually by the time we realize there's a real problem it's too late. Try to take something from it and hopefully you can prevent your next relationship from getting too far gone before you correct it.
I am on marriage number two! The first one sure taught me a lesson or two, and I really think that it was that painful experience that helped me to save this one (for now anyways) and see my own flaws. So far I'm ten years in, and considering my first one lasted only four years, I'm optimistic that I learned something from it. Funny thing is that we don't even think about our relationship ending or take action to keep it solid until it is already damaged and usually too late.
"The closer we get to death,
the more we fear it. It's a cruel prank" - Steve O