No, you're right, $400 a month isn't unreasonable at all so long as the kids aren't suffering and the mom is out bowling. If the kids are suffering and mom is out bowling, somebody somewhere isn't taking their "job" as a parent seriously. Can you disagree with that?
Don't disagree with it at all...but seriously man 99.9% of the time I see this argument iit's more anger than anything at all.
My dad used to belong to Texas Father's for Equal Rights and the funny pattern was that they all bitched that their wives new husbands were spending that child support on beer...LOL.
Yeah like I said some people's views are skewed, and some people live above their means...$50K a year would be sufficient if you lived within your means. I've made it work for far less...but god damn man it gets tiring when you have those lean times and there is an abled bodied father out there who just won't help out..and so gator doesn't blow a gasket...Mothers too.
I don't doubt that. I have a lot of respect for what you have done with your nieces. They're family and you always do what you have to do, but so many people these days wouldn't.
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I know women who get child support and don't pay no where near that amount themselves in supporting the kids. Many get on welfare. Well that means I( the taxpayer ) is supporting the kids not her.
Sorry any parent getting child support and complains it's not enough but has enough money to buy cigs and beer, well sorry they don't get my sympathy.
They don't get my sympathy either...this is coming from the son of a woman who gave my sister powdered milk instead of real milk so she could buy cigarettes.
Yeah I love my mother, but damn it was a chore...LOL
[QUOTE=aico]No you still don't get it, it's called "CHILD SUPPORT" the money is to go to the child, you are not paying to support the mother, you are paying to support the child. If I pay "Car Issurance" I expect all that money to go to insuring my car.
The mother is not suppose to say "well, I paid $400 this month on my kid, and here is my $400 child support check, so I will spend that on myself, since Wow, you've got some kind of weird math going here.
First off, $400 a month isn't enough to pay for half a kids expenses and it's borderline on whether or not it'll pay for a pair of shoes at Nordstrom's, much less buy a pedicure and all that other shit to go with it.
No you still don't get it, it's called "CHILD SUPPORT" the money is to go to the child, you are not paying to support the mother, you are paying to support the child. If I pay "Car Issurance" I expect all that money to go to insuring my car.
The mother is not suppose to say "well, I paid $400 this month on my kid, and here is my $400 child support check, so I will spend that on myself, since Wow, you've got some kind of weird math going here.
First off, $400 a month isn't enough to pay for half a kids expenses and it's borderline on whether or not it'll pay for a pair of shoes at Nordstrom's, much less buy a pedicure and all that other shit to go with it.
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So add a fucking Zero to the end of the $400 if it makes you feel better, because as I said, it was only used as an example and is not a figure from any payment I know of.
My point is, that the Child support is not going to pay for the child in the particular cases (the 3 girls I know). It is going to pay for their own personsal needs. There is no other point other than that.
LOL that's the most retarded thing I have ever heard...sorry but not surprising coming from you. I become less and less impressed with your "wisdom" each day.
I dont post so you can be impressed , i post to post and sometimes you may agree with me sometimes you dont thats cool , i dont expect anyone/everyone to agree with me
I dont post so you can be impressed , i post to post and sometimes you may agree with me sometimes you dont thats cool , i dont expect anyone/everyone to agree with me
Sure a lot different compared to when my old man left.He didn't pay shit to my mom who had 3 babies..My mom sure struggled,I sure have a lot of admiration for her
You'd be surprised at how many dads refuse to pay for a very good reason. They know the kids will never see any benefit from the money and know that it's like jumping through hoops just to see the child
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