What attributes do you look for in a girlfriend?

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I look for a nice dumpa -- #100

Honestly & trust is definitely the most important.. Once if the worst feelings (to me) is wondering if she's out fucking around.

-Intellegent
-Funny
-Dependable
-Trustworthy
-Creative
-Strong
-Independent
-Forward Thinking
-Has her own social circle
-Good relationship with parents
-Could live without you, but chooses to be with you

Nice hands and feet, after that, in no particular order..

Funny and entertaining.
Intelligent.
Open minded.
Will toss your salad.
Wants kids (eventually).
Goal driven, and motivated.
Decent self esteem, and self worth.
Respectful.
Trustworthy.
Would make a good mother.
Can be my "better half".

None of the following..

No gold diggers need apply.
No gossip mongers. I do not care what your coworkers said about your shoes.
No drama queens.
No low self esteem, give me attention 24/7, the sky is falling chicken littles.
No crack whores, druggies, drunks, meth heads, club hoes, etc.

loyality is HUGE - i'm capable of a swinging realtionship but I'm not capable of sharing the woman that I choose to love heart with another man. Nor would I share mine.

What I am looking for in a man:

Intelligence-I love to talk to my guy...pillow talk is the best. I want someone who can keep up with me intellectually or I will be bored and look for that stimulation elsewhere, and even if it's a non-physical intimacy, it's one I prefer to keep for my partner.

Independence-Don't get clingy. I have a life of my own, and if I CHOOSE to share it with you, be happy for where you fit in and don't try to worm your way into every little corner. I need some for me, and I expect you to have parts of your life that I don't participate in too. It's healthy, mmmkay?

Responsibility-You know what you need to do, so just do it. I don't want to have to remind you to take out the trash and pick up your socks; or support your ass because you are too lazy to work. Nagging is not my style. Just do it your damn self, and I'll take care of my own shit, too, and then we're all happy.

Integrity-This one wraps honesty, loyalty, and a whole bunch of other desirable qualities up in one package. I want to know I can trust you...trust you to not betray my trust, be it with other women, or just not repeating things I've said in confidence. I don't want to have to have a second thought about how you are behaving when I'm not there to remind you of me. *grin*

Open-minded-I am a bit of a freak. I like other chicks..and I am not jealous at all as long as I know where I stand with you, so I have no problems including other women in our sex life. But, though I have yet to exercise the option while in a relationship, if I find myself wanting to be with another man, don't get all insecure and spooked. It doesn't mean I don't want you, and it doesn't mean I am looking for something "better" any more that it means you are when you find yourself attracted to another women. We are all adults here, and if you love me, you will only be making love to me, and either of us with anyone else is just sex. However, ANY sex outside the relationship MUST be with BOTH partners' consent, or else what's the point..just break up and fuck whoever you want, lol.

Funny-Ask anyone who has spent more than five minutes with me, and they'll tell you, I LOVE to laugh. I love guys who can be silly and sarcastic all at the same time. I want someone who can laugh at themselves, and who can laugh at me without making me feel stupid, lol. Sometimes all you have left is your sense of humor, so give it a great workout every day so you know it'll carry you through when you need it.

Attractive-Well, you know, I've been attracted to ALL different kinds of guys. I don't really have a type...and sometimes I'm attracted to someone I wouldn't think I would be, just because they are that cool of a person. Likewise, sometimes someone I find physically HAWT is just revolting to me because they have such shitty attitudes. Chemistry can't be faked, can't be predicted, and can't be denied, lolol.

Passionate-About what? About his career, about his hobbies, abot his friends, about me. Someone who thoroughly enjoys life is intoxicating to be around, and makes everything more intense. That's the sort of person I want to share my life with.

I know that's a lot to ask. But I also know I deserve it.

wow chase - that's a LOT

Bored? lol

#111 mean anything? LOL I like mine Slutty!

I look for everything on a woman...a thread wouldnt be enought to say all I look on a GF...

Must not be a trannie

Blonde, nice ass, nice legs, blue eyes, not too tall - around 5' 6" is cool, sexy body, non smoker, nice dress sense and smart.

That pretty much sums up my girlfriend.

1.) a bank account
2.) a job
3.) a place to live (not mom's or someones couch)
4.) a clean car
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without those 4 things . . . . c-ya . . -bmb

It's usually when you're not actively "LOOKING" that the person falls into your lap, you just have to be willing to see opportunities for what they are. Don't worry so much about finding someone or seeking somene, because when the time is right, the person is right, it will fall into place. I've seen it so many times.. people spend years looking, but once they stop looking and just concentrate on living, the rest just comes together.

Yeah, it is, lol.

After the last six months I've had, though, I just want a stable life myself, screw adding anyone else into the mix, lol.

2hp

Have you run into that much?

This is pretty much describing my actual GF, but there's a reason I'm in a relationship with her where so many had come and gone before.

I like girls who are happy. There's nothing more annoying than having to put up with emo bullshit all the time. Feelings and emotions are all well and fine, and I can understand people get upset at shit, but overly-sensitive chicks annoy the shit out of me. I'm not the type to say "i'm sorry baby!" all the goddamn time, it just isn't going to work out.

Secondly, I like girls with talent / ability. Girls who are successful in their own right. My GF, as an example, is a pianist. A really, really, really good one. Her aim is to be an international concert pianist, and according to her teachers, there's no reason she won't be if she keeps practicing. I don't think I could ever really respect a girl whose highest station of achievement was to get a job at the local supermarket and then come home and complain about the customers being assholes. I'm a pretty talented I.T. engineer, it's something I've worked many years at, and I want to see the same sort of dedication / ability in a woman. Is that so much to ask?

Thirdly, I just adore cuteness. There's not really any way to accurately finger exactly what makes a girl cute, but wearing pink a lot and giggling helps. Big eyes and small boobs do it for me :D

Believe it or not, Mr. Romance actually has a girlfreind...What i looked for is completely different from the past Romance in my life...but here it is.



1. Personality is key as well as mutual attraction.

2. No drinking or drugs.

3. Appreciative.


Mr. Romance

1. Must have lots of things in common. You can shag your brains out for a month after you get together. But eventually it gets tiring if you don't have anything to talk about.

2. Intelligence - If they can't hold down a conversation then thanks but no thanks.

3. Nice ass.

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