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  • NoCarrier
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    • Mar 2002
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    #1

    Need Advice. Caught my girlfriend cheating on me today

    I can't believe this shit..

    This is the classic situation.. Got back from shopping earlier than expected and caught my girlfriend getting fucked by my best friend. I was so pissed that I kicked both of them almost naked outside of the house and it's winter time in Montreal. They left with his car in a hurry and now I am with my little 3 year old girl asking me where mom is.

    I am driking Jack Daniels thinking what is the next move I should do..

    Any suggestions!?
  • echo465
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    #2
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    • candyflip
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      • Jul 2002
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      #3
      Was she screwing around on you with your kid in the house?

      Spend you some brain.
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      • freeadultcontent
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        • Oct 2002
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        #4
        Well you have a new ex best friend to destory.

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        • Sly_RJ
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          #5
          Get rid of her and cross him off your best friend list.
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          • stocktrader23
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            #6
            Originally posted by echo465
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            • AOLGuy
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              • Oct 2002
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              #7
              You need to find some girl who looks just like her, and screw her, then dump her, man...

              Sorry, couldn't resist paraphrasing one of the better lines from Say Anything....

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              • nocostporn
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                • Mar 2002
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                #8
                be depressed for the next 6 months but DON'T take her back... don't worry about revenge and don't fall into something where she has you apologizing and asking her back... good luck bro,I've experienced the same shit...
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                • 12clicks
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                  • Jan 2001
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                  #9
                  become more competent in bed?
                  I'm not a dinosaur, I'm a crocodile. I've seen dinosaurs come and go and I'm left unimpressed.

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                  • Gary
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                    • Aug 2001
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                    #10
                    Violence is the answer you seek

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                    • echo465
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by stocktrader23

                      Dude, that's just wrong...
                      Sorry, couldn't help it.
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                      • NoCarrier
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                        • Mar 2002
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                        #12
                        Originally posted by candyflip
                        Was she screwing around on you with your kid in the house?
                        Nah, I had to go get my little girl from daycare. I have been suspicious about this shit for a couple of weeks..

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                        • GTS Mark
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                          • Jan 2001
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                          #13
                          Don't make any hasty decisions, stop drinking and call a good friend right away. Sorry to hear about this...

                          DH

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                          Last edited by GTS Mark; 01-31-2003, 06:22 PM.

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                          • Dax
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                            • Apr 2002
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                            #14
                            Soap Opera anyone?

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                            • Gary
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by 12clicks
                              become more competent in bed?
                              That could probably help me also

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                              • Sly_RJ
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                                • Feb 2002
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by DrinkingHard
                                Don't make any hasty decisions, stop drinking and call a good friend right away. Sorry to hear about this...

                                DH
                                Apparently "good friends" aren't the answer.
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                                • AOLGuy
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                                  • Oct 2002
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                                  #17
                                  If you really want to get back at her, there are a few things you can do to feel better.

                                  If she is still into you, and is the jealous type, I recommend finding the type of girls she is intimidated by the most and booking about 5 shoots with various ones...

                                  Film it, shoot some reality-Max Hardcore style shit, and send her the tapes... or, do some hardcore anal with the girls, then don't wash before seeing your soon to be ex.

                                  Tell her you want makeup sex, and get her to go down on you...

                                  Then smile secretly inside, finish, and contemplate your next move...

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                                  • NoCarrier
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                                    • Mar 2002
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by 12clicks
                                    become more competent in bed?
                                    Well, if there was any sexual problems in our relationship, she was one of the best acting bitch in the world. Trust me, I've been there, and it wasn't about fucking. Jesus Christ, what the fuck is wrong with women..

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                                    • <IMX>
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                                      • Jun 2002
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                                      #19
                                      Fuck her one last time, and the end the relationship.
                                      That way you will feel better bro.
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                                      • Pipecrew
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by 12clicks
                                        become more competent in bed?
                                        when was the last time you had sex?



                                        exactly

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                                        • FATPad
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                                          • Oct 2001
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                                          #21
                                          Put your kid to bed.

                                          Get all her shit and throw it out in the front lawn.

                                          Close door, turn out lights, go back to drinking quietly in the dark for the rest of the night. Don't answer phone, don't answer door.
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                                          • tony299
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                                            #22
                                            You have to let her go, Stop drinking ! You have a little girl to be strong for.

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                                            • Spunky
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                                              • Jun 2002
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                                              #23
                                              Is the daughter from this relationship? I say get the brass Knucks and go abeating.Watch the look on her face as you knock some teeth out.Drink some more liquid courage and go kick this turds ass.No way I would let this shit go by without some beatings.

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                                              • p!mpd0g
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                                                • Jan 2003
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                                                #24
                                                Destroy all of the things that mean the most to her IE clothes, shoes makup pictures etc..

                                                kill her plants, put meat in her underwear drawer so it rots in a few days and ruins all her undies.

                                                Call her mom and dad and break the news to them what their little slut bitch daughter has done to the family.

                                                tell your EX bestfriend she has herpies.

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                                                • Gary
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                                                  #25
                                                  Violence is easier

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                                                  • jhen
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                                                    #26
                                                    You set the custody rules and never look back.....you have a great story to get a new squeeze.

                                                    " I was being a good Dad getting my little girl and she was off fucking myy friends like a whore blowing truckers"

                                                    You will get the awwwwww poor thing......trust me you can spin this to work in your favor the best revenge is happiness......say as oiften as you can that this really turned out for the best ad that you had not realized how much you missed your life without her.....
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                                                    • notjoe
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                                                      • May 2002
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                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by NoCarrier


                                                      Well, if there was any sexual problems in our relationship, she was one of the best acting bitch in the world. Trust me, I've been there, and it wasn't about fucking. Jesus Christ, what the fuck is wrong with women..
                                                      They're women, that is what is wrong with them..

                                                      Fucking buncha no good sluts.


                                                      This is what i would do.. Get someone over to watch your kid... get really fucking drunk and go to your x-bestfriend's house and kick the shit out of them both.

                                                      Make sure you're drunk enough that you'll pass out once they bring you into the cop shop, it makes time go by faster!

                                                      Hell, I'll take a trip out to montreal to beat the fuck out of him for ya (just cover my expenses) ;)
                                                      Last edited by notjoe; 01-31-2003, 06:28 PM.

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                                                      • FATPad
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by Gary
                                                        Violence is easier
                                                        He missed the opportunity. Could have killed them both when he walked in. Act of passion. Could have gotten off completely or gotten a lighter sentence.

                                                        Now it'd be premeditated and he'd go to jail for life.

                                                        What's the lesson? If someone does something to you, kill them instantly!
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                                                        • Exxxotica
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                                                          #29
                                                          a savage beatdown is in order


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                                                          • Spunky
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                                                            • Jun 2002
                                                            • 133986

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by notjoe


                                                            They're women, that is what is wrong with them..

                                                            Fucking buncha no good sluts.
                                                            Yea what he said..*Grumble* dam whores all of them! *shakes fist in air*

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                                                            • freeadultcontent
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                                                              • Oct 2002
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                                                              #31
                                                              He has a kid this aint revenge time, nor drinkin time really sorry to say.

                                                              Is this your kid, her kid or both yours?

                                                              If its both yours, better start calling lawyers ASAP, get a consultation with every single lawyer in the area and surrounding areas. That will kind of hinder her ability to aquire one to try to get the kid.

                                                              Dont blow up in front of the kid. If she happens to call dont get into it with kid around, if she wants to talk to the kid let her but listen in.

                                                              Call locksmith and change the locks.

                                                              Then think about the daycare, do you want her picking the kid up?

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                                                              • Kiko_Wu
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                                                                #32
                                                                One of th fucked up things about all this is when women screw around other women still feel sorry for them! Like somehow it's still the guys fault. At least guys when they screw around have the good grace to admit their scum and come crawling back. All the women I've ever known who screwed around had a list of excuses why it wasn't their fault. When people can't even truthfully admit they fucked up it makes fixing things pretty hard.
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                                                                • Gary
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by FATPad
                                                                  He missed the opportunity. Could have killed them both when he walked in. Act of passion. Could have gotten off completely or gotten a lighter sentence.

                                                                  Now it'd be premeditated and he'd go to jail for life.

                                                                  What's the lesson? If someone does something to you, kill them instantly!
                                                                  Very good point. you are a wise man

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                                                                  • C_U_Next_Tuesday
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                                                                    • Oct 2002
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    If children were not involved i would say kick the shit out of both of them and toss her shit to the curb...but you have to remember your actions will be seen and remembered by your daughter..break up and split up , but custody is hard to get as a single dad, adultery does not make one a bad parent in the courts eyes..good luck, it sucks

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                                                                    • AOLGuy
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Not to be all reasonable and end the crazy chick-bashing fun (which I do enjoy on occasion)...

                                                                      But what do you think was the real cause? Were you and your girl good friends? How was the communication?

                                                                      Sometimes, it is easy to draw the map to how this shit happens...

                                                                      It sucks, but at least learn from it and move on.

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                                                                      • iroc409
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        axe the bitch.
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                                                                        • asuna
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Dnot' drink around your daughter please

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                                                                          • Exxxotica
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by asuna
                                                                            Dnot' drink around your daughter please

                                                                            ....unless you give her some too.


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                                                                            • NoCarrier
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by jhen
                                                                              You set the custody rules and never look back.....you have a great story to get a new squeeze.

                                                                              " I was being a good Dad getting my little girl and she was off fucking myy friends like a whore blowing truckers"

                                                                              You will get the awwwwww poor thing......trust me you can spin this to work in your favor the best revenge is happiness......say as oiften as you can that this really turned out for the best ad that you had not realized how much you missed your life without her.....
                                                                              Well, the thing is, We are not married, and yes, she's the mom. If we go in court and battle for custody, she knows what I am doing, and believe me, in front of a jury, the porn webmaster will get his ass kicked whatever the situation is, and that's what worrying me now. I don't care about the relationship, I only want my little girl.

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                                                                              • drops
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                                                                                • Feb 2002
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                wow.. that sucks..

                                                                                violence wont work well with the kid and all..

                                                                                Try to be the cool one in this situation, it's your way or the highway.. but don't be a asshole about it.


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                                                                                • freeadultcontent
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Well, the thing is, We are not married, and yes, she's the mom. If we go in court and battle for custody, she knows what I am doing, and believe me, in front of a jury, the porn webmaster will get his ass kicked whatever the situation is, and that's what worrying me now. I don't care about the relationship, I only want my little girl.
                                                                                  Like i said get a consultation with every lawyer anywhere close to you. It is very hard to get custody if she does not have one and you do.

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                                                                                  • NoCarrier
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                                                                                    • Mar 2002
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by AKFK
                                                                                    Not to be all reasonable and end the crazy chick-bashing fun (which I do enjoy on occasion)...

                                                                                    But what do you think was the real cause? Were you and your girl good friends? How was the communication?

                                                                                    Sometimes, it is easy to draw the map to how this shit happens...

                                                                                    It sucks, but at least learn from it and move on.
                                                                                    Well you know what's funny, is that I believed our relationship was based on communication and trust. I guess it's all bullshit right now. I can't resume 6 years of relationship in 4-5 lines, all i can say right now, is that I believe in my Jack Daniels bottles and the funny replies about how I should kick the shit outta both of them.

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                                                                                    • Warden
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by NoCarrier
                                                                                      I can't believe this shit..

                                                                                      This is the classic situation.. Got back from shopping earlier than expected and caught my girlfriend getting fucked by my best friend. I was so pissed that I kicked both of them almost naked outside of the house and it's winter time in Montreal. They left with his car in a hurry and now I am with my little 3 year old girl asking me where mom is.

                                                                                      I am driking Jack Daniels thinking what is the next move I should do..

                                                                                      Any suggestions!?

                                                                                      Once a cheater always a cheater. There is a very good chance that this has happened plenty of times before and this is just the first time you caught here. She was obviously comfortable enough to do it in your home while you were on errands and while your daughter was under the same roof. Your girlfriend is a seasoned vet in the infidelity field. If you caught her in some complex scheme to cheat on you, then there would still be hope. My advice is to let your ex-best friend have the girl, he deserves here. The right thing to do is rarely the easiest thing to do. Just my . Good luck man

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                                                                                      • iroc409
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                                                                                        • Jan 2003
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        yeah, it sucked, i was dating this girl for a really long time, and it was great. thought i was going to marry the bitch. then, find out she had a second boyfriend for an unknown amount of time, and during the time she was dating us both (well into our relationship), she was chasing other guys too. 2 guys just weren't enough.

                                                                                        and to think, she was usually so honest and sweet and perfect.

                                                                                        fuck 'em.



                                                                                        oh yeah, she claimed she never slept with any other guys, but the evidence i had was pretty hard to refute.
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                                                                                        • KRL
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Its the best four letters in the alphabet!

                                                                                          N E X T

                                                                                          Don't even get pissed, vindictive or let it get you.
                                                                                          Kick her ass out and get another GF.

                                                                                          PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T GET PISSED GFY GIRLS with the remarks I'm going to make now, because this only applies to 90% of women out there and I know the ones here are not like this.

                                                                                          Anyway, its sad to say and I hate saying it, cause I love women
                                                                                          like crazy, but after 30 years of relationships going back to all the women in my life since my teen years, I've come to
                                                                                          the absolute undeniable conclusion 90% of women are not to be trusted and will use men to no end.

                                                                                          Lies. Lies. Lies. Expect nothing less.

                                                                                          Professional bullshiters. They spend your money with a lusty smile to keep you going. That's the scam.

                                                                                          And yes there are some true blue honest ones out there I'm sure. But I sure as hell haven't found a single one yet. Hopefully before I die, one will come my way.
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                                                                                          • iroc409
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by KRL
                                                                                            Its the best four letters in the alphabet!

                                                                                            N E X T

                                                                                            Don't even get pissed, vindictive or let it get you.
                                                                                            Kick her ass out and get another GF.

                                                                                            PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T GET PISSED GFY GIRLS with the remarks I'm going to make now, because this only applies to 90% of women out there and I know the ones here are not like this.

                                                                                            Anyway, its sad to say and I hate saying it, cause I love women
                                                                                            like crazy, but after 30 years of relationships going back to all the women in my life since my teen years, I've come to
                                                                                            the absolute undeniable conclusion 90% of women are not to be trusted and will use men to no end.

                                                                                            Lies. Lies. Lies. Expect nothing less.

                                                                                            Professional bullshiters. They spend your money with a lusty smile to keep you going. That's the scam.

                                                                                            And yes there are some true blue honest ones out there I'm sure. But I sure as hell haven't found a single one yet. Hopefully before I die, one will come my way.
                                                                                            so true... been so hard to find someone to truly be able to trust.

                                                                                            sucks man, be calm, hope you get it figured out. good luck with the custody. get a damn good lawyer.
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                                                                                            • NoCarrier
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                                                                                              • Mar 2002
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Anyway guys, I don't know why I even created that thread wich is so about my personnal life and no one ever noticed me here before. LOL! But I want to thank everyone for the support so far, going to go to sleep with my little girl still asking me where mom is..Hope the night will give me advice..

                                                                                              Thanks guys.. good night.
                                                                                              Last edited by NoCarrier; 01-31-2003, 06:53 PM.

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                                                                                              • Spoonie Luv
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by echo465
                                                                                                pics?
                                                                                                that is fucked up, yo! funny but fucked up.

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                                                                                                • Spunky
                                                                                                  I need a beer
                                                                                                  • Jun 2002
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Keep Your Head Up Bro..Good Luck with your daughter custody thing.It hurts only for a short time and you are better off without that tramp. I'd still kick that fuckers ass ..One day when he doesnt suspect it ...Whack a bat to the knees

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                                                                                                  • Dildozer
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Well why ask?
                                                                                                    You're a separatist!
                                                                                                    There's your answer
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