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Originally Posted by bausch
Now here is advice for the women :
AVOID the guys that try and pick you up because most likely to them it IS a numbers game (like some of the guys have substantiated in this thread) , so it really IS NOT an honor to get hit on.
Most likely he has hit on 10 girls right before you, and will hit on 10 girls after you, so what's in it for the girl?? She hit #15 during the course of the night, since it's nothing but a numbers game for the guys.
This is why smart girls KNOW not to EVER go for guys that try and pick you up, ESPECIALLY in a bar or club, because the guy tries it with EVERYONE, and he will try it with a bunch of girls AFTER you, regardless of whether you were interested/friendly/nice/give him your number or not.
What smart female wants to be prey #10 for the night. It shows a total lack of sincerity on the guy's part. A smart girl will know that it's nothing but a numbers game to you.
Therefore, why should women even respond nicely to you? You're just going to hit on 10 more girls for the rest of the night? Why should she give you her number when all you are doing is trying to get as many numbers and fuck as many girls as possible? Do you think that's actually flattering to a woman? That she's the #10 chick u hit on so far?
What woman would want to date/give her number out to a guy who's just out to fuck and wants to get as many as possible phone numbers for their egos??? All the good ones DONT.
These type of guys are just hoes and want to get as many numbers/pussy as possible. Avoid these guys.
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Not every guy is out to just fuck the girl! There are some of us who genuinely approach to get to know the person because we have an attraction. Not every guy goes up to every girl in the club with strictly sex on there mind. & when you think that way, chances are you just might be blowing off someone that could've loved you like no other.
Give a chance, to the guys that approach you at a club/bar, library, street wherever! Because at least he had the balls to come up and try to get to know you. You can usually tell the bullshitters from the genuine guys,and if the time comes where he starts putting you in a sexual situation you always have the choice to back down and leave.
If you walk around thinking every guy that approaches you is just trying to get in your pants then you will never find someone to love you, because you don't give anyone a chance.