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  • ElvisManson
    Looking California
    • Feb 2001
    • 5476

    #101
    Originally posted by adultchica
    No one replied to my idea. I know women and even men also who become widows/widowers especially with young children can collect social security survivor benefits.

    Does Canada have anything like that at all?
    yes...not sure how the fact that it was a suicide affetcs her eligibility though.

    http://www.hrsdc.gc.ca/asp/gateway.a...s.shtml&hs=fzf

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    • Ecksent
      Confirmed User
      • Nov 2004
      • 1415

      #102
      Originally posted by adultchica
      No one replied to my idea. I know women and even men also who become widows/widowers especially with young children can collect social security survivor benefits.

      Does Canada have anything like that at all?
      I don't know if they do. I've been looking all day for ways to help her, trust me. We are heading to the Welfare office in a few minutes as soon as my girlfriend get home so she can watch her kids for a bit. We will ask....

      Elvis just tossed me a link. So I will be looking into that for her as well.
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      • SuckOnThis
        So Fucking Banned
        • Oct 2003
        • 6844

        #103
        Originally posted by WarChild
        Wow, you're a master at reading people. I stand in awe.



        Whats funny is you think you are impressing somebody.

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        • adultchica
          Confirmed User
          • Sep 2005
          • 5141

          #104
          I hope she can get them! I personally know a MAN who lost his wife and got social security survivor benefits and you get extra for the kids too. His wife's income was a big part of their livelihood too so it really really helped them out.

          I hope she can get it even though it was a suicide that is SO not her fault. It would be wrong to deny her.

          I respect you for helping her..that is more than most people would do. A lot of people would just turn their head and look the other way.

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          • WarChild
            Let slip the dogs of war.
            • Jan 2003
            • 17263

            #105
            Originally posted by SuckOnThis


            Whats funny is you think you are impressing somebody.
            You couldn't possibly know what I think.
            .

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            • Ecksent
              Confirmed User
              • Nov 2004
              • 1415

              #106
              Originally posted by adultchica
              I hope she can get them! I personally know a MAN who lost his wife and got social security survivor benefits and you get extra for the kids too. His wife's income was a big part of their livelihood too so it really really helped them out.

              I hope she can get it even though it was a suicide that is SO not her fault. It would be wrong to deny her.

              I respect you for helping her..that is more than most people would do. A lot of people would just turn their head and look the other way.

              Yeah that's the major question. I have been through a loss like that before. Granted I was a lot younger, but I saw what my mother and her whole family went through. So, it kinda hits home.
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              • SilentKnight
                Megan Fox's fluffer
                • Oct 2005
                • 24812

                #107
                Ecksent said there's already a Paypal account set up. I must've missed it in the thread. Anyone know it?

                We're short ourselves this Christmas, but we'd like to send a bit to a fellow Canadian in need. Its not like she's a pornstar who fell off her horse. This situation sounds like it has genuine merit.

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                • Ecksent
                  Confirmed User
                  • Nov 2004
                  • 1415

                  #108
                  Originally posted by SilentKnight
                  Ecksent said there's already a Paypal account set up. I must've missed it in the thread. Anyone know it?

                  We're short ourselves this Christmas, but we'd like to send a bit to a fellow Canadian in need. Its not like she's a pornstar who fell off her horse. This situation sounds like it has genuine merit.
                  Hey Silent I do have a Paypal. [email protected] I do appericate anything you can do. Thank you.
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                  • Diego
                    Confirmed User
                    • Sep 2005
                    • 250

                    #109
                    Surely there are organizations in your area to help. Also, you could encourage a local tv station or newspaper to do a special interest story on her...with her permission of course.

                    My best wishes to her and her kids.

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                    • Ecksent
                      Confirmed User
                      • Nov 2004
                      • 1415

                      #110
                      Originally posted by Diego
                      Surely there are organizations in your area to help. Also, you could encourage a local tv station or newspaper to do a special interest story on her...with her permission of course.

                      My best wishes to her and her kids.
                      Yes trust me man. I have been on the phone all day with people trying to get her some help. We just got back from the Welfare office. They will "take a look at her application" and "see what they can do." What a bunch of garbage! So, who knows what will happen there.
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                      • Ecksent
                        Confirmed User
                        • Nov 2004
                        • 1415

                        #111
                        Bump for a good cause.
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                        • nico-t
                          emperor of my world
                          • Aug 2004
                          • 29901

                          #112
                          its cool youre doing this, although its the families' own fault. Western countries have jobs, birth control pills, etc. Its their fault they let it end up like this. Anyway gluck with it.

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                          • Ecksent
                            Confirmed User
                            • Nov 2004
                            • 1415

                            #113
                            Originally posted by nico-t
                            its cool youre doing this, although its the families' own fault. Western countries have jobs, birth control pills, etc. Its their fault they let it end up like this. Anyway gluck with it.

                            It's the family's own fault the head of the family. the sole bread winner, went off and took his own life?? Hmmmm. I know I'd want my wife to stay home and raise my kids, since I can make ends meet by myself. It's not HER fault. Yes it is the most selfish thing a person can do taking their own life. I understand that. But she didn't ask for it to happen.
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                            • Trixxxia
                              Confirmed User
                              • Aug 2004
                              • 5600

                              #114
                              Ecksent, to my knowledge, other than a food bank, she won't be getting any 'welfare' money until her case is looked into - which means, she'll need his death certificate (could take another week to get the official one), she'll need bank statements for the past 2 years (in case they were/are hiding money) <-- that can take the bank another month to pull out. Before any welfare or widow/child benefit pensions are received, it will take at least 2-3 months & that's being optimistic considering there will be holidays and everyone's on slow-mo.

                              Anyhow, don't know if you have epassporte - if you do, I'd like to send something. Best of luck to her - keep reminding her she has to be strong for her kids.

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                              • Ecksent
                                Confirmed User
                                • Nov 2004
                                • 1415

                                #115
                                I don't have Epassporte. If you get a hold of Elvis from eariler posts, he has one and will be delivering the money directly to me in person. Thanks so much for your help.
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                                • Ecksent
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Nov 2004
                                  • 1415

                                  #116
                                  Originally posted by ElvisManson
                                  I have someone going by Ecksents house tomorrow to drop off cash.

                                  Anyone else want to pitch in can icq me at 92533759 or e-mail me at [email protected]

                                  Here ya go. Not sure he's around now being it's 12:30am his time, but if you drop him an e-mail, I'm sure he'll get a hold of me tomorrow morning.
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                                  • MetroPornTour
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Apr 2005
                                    • 1043

                                    #117
                                    Originally posted by Ecksent
                                    Alright guys, I know most of you don't know me, but I encountered a VERY bad thing yesterday evening.


                                    Coming home from buying clothes and toys for my girlfriend's office's Christmas family they sponsor every year, I saw my next door neighbor (who live in a basement sutie) crying. I put my things inside and came over to see if ther was anything I could do. She replied "bring my husband back."

                                    Turns out (after talking to her for the whole night) her husband and her were having some money problems, as most people do at some point. He decided to take his entire paycheck and take it to the casino. I assume he didn't win anything, since he drove his car to a remote place and ended his life.

                                    This women has no car now (as it is in police custody as evidence). She has 3 children under the age of 10, and 0 income. I personally went to the grocery store this morning and filled her cabinets and fridge to the tune of $300.

                                    If there is any way you could find a way to help this woman out for the holiday season, it would be greatly appericated. I would love to Help take the edge off by giving her a check in her time of need. She has no money in the bank, and no collateral for a loan of anything. She is going to file for welfare until she can find a job, but that could take up to two weeks for a first appointment.

                                    Please let me know if you can help out. I do have PayPal, and 100% of the money will go to her. I know most of you have a heart out there, so please let's help this woman out.

                                    Ecks
                                    (Ryan)
                                    Oh lord that sucks!

                                    If you post a postal address and the ages of the children I'll mail out some christmas gifts on monday.
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                                    • SilentKnight
                                      Megan Fox's fluffer
                                      • Oct 2005
                                      • 24812

                                      #118
                                      Originally posted by Ecksent
                                      Yes trust me man. I have been on the phone all day with people trying to get her some help. We just got back from the Welfare office. They will "take a look at her application" and "see what they can do." What a bunch of garbage! So, who knows what will happen there.
                                      Try getting hold of your local MPP, explain the situation fully...and see if they can interject and help speed up the process a little. With elections just around the corner, you might find them a little more willing to do whatever it takes to help out a constituent.

                                      At least it wouldn't hurt to try.

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                                      • Trixxxia
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Aug 2004
                                        • 5600

                                        #119
                                        Originally posted by Ecksent
                                        I don't have Epassporte. If you get a hold of Elvis from eariler posts, he has one and will be delivering the money directly to me in person. Thanks so much for your help.
                                        Sent it through paypal - I won't be around much and I don't want it to slip my mind.

                                        Good luck to her.

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                                        • Ecksent
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Nov 2004
                                          • 1415

                                          #120
                                          Bump for the After Thanksgiving Crowd!
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                                          • Ecksent
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Nov 2004
                                            • 1415

                                            #121
                                            I guess I'll bump this one last time. If you can help, please do. And THANK YOU to everyone who has helped already.
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                                            • MrJackMeHoff
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Mar 2004
                                              • 4569

                                              #122
                                              Tell her to lick your balls for cash

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                                              • Ecksent
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Nov 2004
                                                • 1415

                                                #123
                                                Originally posted by MrJackMeHoff
                                                Tell her to lick your balls for cash
                                                Real fuckin' classy fucktard!
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                                                • spacedog
                                                  Yes that IS me. Bitch.
                                                  • Nov 2001
                                                  • 14149

                                                  #124
                                                  I feel bad for the kids the most. Sad that they have to deal with the loss of a parent. Even greater sad that the loss was by suicide & that will have almost a permanent scar on these kids emotionally as the children may suffer wondering things such as "Why did daddy leave us" & there will be times when they wonder why he didnt love them enough to stay alive.

                                                  This family is going to be in great need of grief counseling, particularly the children. Christmas is around the corner & these kids are going to be so damn sad thinking about christmas past when their dad was around.
                                                  I'd like to send the kids some toys.

                                                  Where can I send them, or should I icq you or elvis?

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                                                  • Violetta
                                                    Affiliate
                                                    • Jul 2004
                                                    • 28735

                                                    #125
                                                    Originally posted by ElvisManson
                                                    Someone who lives in the same town was going to wire me money tomorrow. I can get him to go by and drop off money in person.

                                                    Just need to get the address etc...
                                                    Yo have my vote for the nicest man on the board!
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                                                    • Diego
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • Sep 2005
                                                      • 250

                                                      #126
                                                      Originally posted by MetroPornTour
                                                      Oh lord that sucks!

                                                      If you post a postal address and the ages of the children I'll mail out some christmas gifts on monday.

                                                      That is so totally cool of you. What a heart. I may do the same.....

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                                                      • Ecksent
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • Nov 2004
                                                        • 1415

                                                        #127
                                                        If you want, send me an e-mail, and I'll give you all the info there. ecksent [at] gmail [dot] com.
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                                                        • TurboAngel
                                                          H.B.I.C.
                                                          • Jun 2003
                                                          • 30122

                                                          #128
                                                          Boy what's up with all the hate? Kiss and make up bump.

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                                                          • Furious_Male
                                                            Doing the grind since 99
                                                            • Oct 2003
                                                            • 16884

                                                            #129
                                                            Originally posted by Rockatansky
                                                            Yo have my vote for the nicest man on the board!
                                                            Brents a great guy.
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                                                            • Ecksent
                                                              Confirmed User
                                                              • Nov 2004
                                                              • 1415

                                                              #130
                                                              I'm going to bump this just for an update.


                                                              She is going to get help from the goverment when it comes to services for her late husband. Though police are still investigating the situation, turns out he never owned a gun, so they are trying to find out whether this was a suicide or a murder.

                                                              If you still want to help, please contact me via ICQ or email.
                                                              222-549-540 or ecksent[at]gmail[dot]com.

                                                              Thank you for all your help once again.
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                                                              • Phoenix
                                                                BACON BACON BACON
                                                                • Nov 2002
                                                                • 35475

                                                                #131
                                                                good stuff..did she get the first batch of money? i hope it helped a bit
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                                                                • crowkid
                                                                  o.g. spammer
                                                                  • Jan 2003
                                                                  • 1240

                                                                  #132
                                                                  If this kind of thing was acceptible on boards, I'm sure we'd see plenty of "Please Help" threads along with the Paypal email.. There's simply no way to verify the validity of this and if you are naive enough to send money to some random person's paypal email, then this will not be the first time you will be taken advantage of during these holidays


                                                                  You want to help? Those of you living in a city, next time you go downtown, don't give a beggar money, they will only most likely go and buy alcohol and drugs..Instead take them to go get a hot meal, and pay for a night or two at a motel... That's my two

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                                                                  • Ice
                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                    • Nov 2002
                                                                    • 26053

                                                                    #133
                                                                    Originally posted by Ecksent
                                                                    I'm going to bump this just for an update.


                                                                    She is going to get help from the goverment when it comes to services for her late husband. Though police are still investigating the situation, turns out he never owned a gun, so they are trying to find out whether this was a suicide or a murder.

                                                                    If you still want to help, please contact me via ICQ or email.
                                                                    222-549-540 or ecksent[at]gmail[dot]com.

                                                                    Thank you for all your help once again.
                                                                    Thanks for the update man
                                                                    icq 1904905

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                                                                    • phonesex
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • Mar 2005
                                                                      • 3437

                                                                      #134
                                                                      fucked up.

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                                                                      • Sam Granger
                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                        • Dec 2004
                                                                        • 3958

                                                                        #135
                                                                        Originally posted by MetroPornTour
                                                                        Oh lord that sucks!

                                                                        If you post a postal address and the ages of the children I'll mail out some christmas gifts on monday.
                                                                        Bump to that. I'll send some stuff over too.

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                                                                        • Sam Granger
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                                                                          • Dec 2004
                                                                          • 3958

                                                                          #136
                                                                          Oh, and also include which one is a boy/girl.

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                                                                          • ElvisManson
                                                                            Looking California
                                                                            • Feb 2001
                                                                            • 5476

                                                                            #137
                                                                            Originally posted by Phoenix
                                                                            good stuff..did she get the first batch of money? i hope it helped a bit
                                                                            yes she did. My friend went by On fri aft and dropped it off.

                                                                            Thanks to Phoenix and everyone else that helped out.

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                                                                            • Ecksent
                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                              • Nov 2004
                                                                              • 1415

                                                                              #138
                                                                              Originally posted by ElvisManson
                                                                              yes she did. My friend went by On fri aft and dropped it off.

                                                                              Thanks to Phoenix and everyone else that helped out.

                                                                              My ICQ is being retarted (go figure). Just wanted to personally thank you for hooking up with Mike and arranging things. We talked for a bit about the situation and connected on a personal level. Thank you again.
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