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11-24-2005, 10:16 AM

Alright guys, I know most of you don't know me, but I encountered a VERY bad thing yesterday evening.

Coming home from buying clothes and toys for my girlfriend's office's Christmas family they sponsor every year, I saw my next door neighbor (who live in a basement sutie) crying. I put my things inside and came over to see if ther was anything I could do. She replied "bring my husband back."

Turns out (after talking to her for the whole night) her husband and her were having some money problems, as most people do at some point. He decided to take his entire paycheck and take it to the casino. I assume he didn't win anything, since he drove his car to a remote place and ended his life.

This women has no car now (as it is in police custody as evidence). She has 3 children under the age of 10, and 0 income. I personally went to the grocery store this morning and filled her cabinets and fridge to the tune of $300.

If there is any way you could find a way to help this woman out for the holiday season, it would be greatly appericated. I would love to Help take the edge off by giving her a check in her time of need. She has no money in the bank, and no collateral for a loan of anything. She is going to file for welfare until she can find a job, but that could take up to two weeks for a first appointment.

Please let me know if you can help out. I do have PayPal, and 100% of the money will go to her. I know most of you have a heart out there, so please let's help this woman out.

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11-24-2005, 10:19 AM

That sucks. Money troubles are nothing to end your life over, and I feel so sorry for that lady and her kids.

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11-24-2005, 10:22 AM

This should be a long one...
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11-24-2005, 10:24 AM

What do you say to someone who seems like they have no hope? You search for comforting words, but deos that really even help?

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11-24-2005, 10:25 AM

I'd normally donate something but I have many personal friends locally that are practically homeless and starving with their children due to men that are selfish and mentally unstable...

My best wishes for her though.
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11-24-2005, 10:25 AM

This will be a long one filled with flame. Get ready. there are just so many people lately asking.

The sad thing is, that they guys that have been bragging about new 100k cars, and 500k homes dont have a dime to give.

I will say that I feel bad for your neighbor, but I would rather help out someone in our industry instead.

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11-24-2005, 10:25 AM

Sorry, I gave at the office.
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11-24-2005, 10:26 AM

Wow that is a sad story

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11-24-2005, 10:28 AM

Wow that sucks...

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11-24-2005, 10:29 AM

She needs to get on public assistance right now..it will help till she can get her shit together. She also may be able to recieve social security for her and her children if her dumbass dead spouse worked and paid taxes.
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11-24-2005, 10:32 AM

Originally posted by pornguy

This will be a long one filled with flame. Get ready. there are just so many people lately asking.

The sad thing is, that they guys that have been bragging about new 100k cars, and 500k homes dont have a dime to give.

I will say that I feel bad for your neighbor, but I would rather help out someone in our industry instead.

I could give a flying fuck about flamming. I'm not asking for myself like some people. I helped out where I could, and I thought since a lote of us make good money, yes the ones that brag about 100k cars and getting tickets in them, 500k homes and the flat screens they out in them, or maybe the ones who brag about bottles of Cristal, or Petron shots might be willing to help out a woman who needs help reguardless of what "industry" they are in. Oh wait, she doesn't have a job.

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11-24-2005, 10:32 AM

where abouts in BC are you?
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11-24-2005, 10:34 AM

Originally posted by ElvisManson

where abouts in BC are you?

Outside Vancouver..Abby

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11-24-2005, 10:47 AM

Originally posted by Ecksent

Outside Vancouver..Abby

I have friends there...I might be able to get someone to stop by with some cash.

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11-24-2005, 10:48 AM

oh man that's so sad

I literally shed a tear. How could someone end their life like that and leave an obvious loving wife and kids behind?

SO selfish
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11-24-2005, 10:50 AM

Originally posted by ElvisManson

I have friends there...I might be able to get someone to stop by with some cash.

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11-24-2005, 10:51 AM

Originally posted by iwantchixx

oh man that's so sad

I literally shed a tear. How could someone end their life like that and leave an obvious loving wife and kids behind?

SO selfish

I don't get it either, life must've really been unbearable.

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11-24-2005, 10:54 AM

Originally posted by mrthumbs

Ill chip in if you have someone going there.. icq 160272407 !

Someone who lives in the same town was going to wire me money tomorrow. I can get him to go by and drop off money in person.

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11-24-2005, 10:55 AM

My maid in this third world country keeps asking to borrow $100 so she can get some pain meds for her kid with some sort of cancer.

What does my maid and your neighbor have in common? Neither of them should be asking me for money.

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11-24-2005, 10:56 AM

Damn that really does suck. But, you know she might be able to get working right now at say McDonalds, a gas station, etc.. I am sure she is still able to get a job.

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11-24-2005, 10:58 AM

Wait a second .. She's in Canada? Go whine to the liberal crooks that run that country for her portion of the hand outs. Even better if she can do it in French.

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11-24-2005, 11:01 AM

Originally posted by WarChild

Wait a second .. She's in Canada? Go whine to the liberal crooks that run that country for her portion of the hand outs. Even better if she can do it in French.

you're a real man eh?

Elvis did he give you the address? If it's real, he will, and I might kick in a little something.
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11-24-2005, 11:03 AM

awww that is so sad
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11-24-2005, 11:04 AM

Originally posted by dig420

you're a real man eh?

Elvis did he give you the address? If it's real, he will, and I might kick in a little something.

It has nothing to do with being a real man or not.

There are literally hundreds of millions of people in need in this World. This isn't a charity board.

If you want to pay for my maid's kid's cancer drugs, you can do that too.

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11-24-2005, 11:06 AM

Canada has food banks, shelters and emergency welfare systems. If she goes to welfare today, she'll have a check tomorrow. Save your money.

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11-24-2005, 11:07 AM

Originally posted by WarChild

It has nothing to do with being a real man or not.

There are literally hundreds of millions of people in need in this World. This isn't a charity board.

If you want to pay for my maid's kid's cancer drugs, you can do that too.

no you are. real rough and rugged. I'm so impressed with how tough you are.
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11-24-2005, 11:07 AM

she doesn't have family who can help her out....

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11-24-2005, 11:08 AM

Originally posted by WarChild

It has nothing to do with being a real man or not.

There are literally hundreds of millions of people in need in this World. This isn't a charity board.

If you want to pay for my maid's kid's cancer drugs, you can do that too.

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11-24-2005, 11:10 AM

Originally posted by dig420

no you are. real rough and rugged. I'm so impressed with how tough you are.

Haven't heard from him yet. if/when I do I'll hit you up. what's your icq?..I can't seem to find you.
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11-24-2005, 11:10 AM

Originally posted by dig420

no you are. real rough and rugged. I'm so impressed with how tough you are.

You'd be surprised how little I care what impresses you or not.

I do howerver think it's funny people come crying to GFY "My Aunt's paperboy's sister has aids, and they're poor, pay up suckers.". There's all kinds of organizations, associations and what-not set up for dealing with this sort of shit. GFY isn't one of those places.

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11-24-2005, 11:11 AM

Originally posted by ElvisManson

Haven't heard from him yet. if/when I do I'll hit you up. what's your icq?..I can't seem to find you.

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11-24-2005, 11:14 AM

- 852 million people across the world are hungry, up from 842 million a year ago. 10

- Every day, more than 16,000 children die from hunger-related causes--one child every five seconds.

I read a post once where you said you made somewhere around $50,000 a week on one site! Surely you could help feed some of these poor children that die every 5 seconds? Oh wait, nobody posted a desperate plea on GFY for help.

Good thing you're going to help the one family in a liberal country loaded with bail outs for the poor and stupid. Do you feel like a good person because of it?

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11-24-2005, 11:17 AM

Originally posted by dig420

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Going to eat some turkey, but I'll be back this evening.

In the hour it takes you to eat your turkey dinner, somewhere around 1200 children will die from starvation.

Do you feel like a rugged, rough and tough guy now?

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11-24-2005, 11:17 AM

Originally posted by WarChild

You'd be surprised how little I care what impresses you or not.

I do howerver think it's funny people come crying to GFY "My Aunt's paperboy's sister has aids, and they're poor, pay up suckers.". There's all kinds of organizations, associations and what-not set up for dealing with this sort of shit. GFY isn't one of those places.

You're just a cold heartless bastard.

WHat's wrong with someoen wanting to help someone? Obviously it's not all that wrong when half the board helps them regardless.

I'm so godamn sick of your negativity and heartlessness when it comes to people in need. Why don't you just go hang yourself. The world doesn't need you nor wants you. You're a complete useless piece of flesh.

I'd love to pound that fucking smile off your face..
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11-24-2005, 11:19 AM

Originally posted by WarChild

In the hour it takes you to eat your turkey dinner, somewhere around 1200 children will die from starvation.

Do you feel like a rugged, rough and tough guy now?

SO because thousands are suffering it's not ok to help one?

I don't understand the logic.

One is better than none right?

Oh I forgot,, you're a lonely bitter man who thinks everyone with no money should just die.

Must suck to be you.

I wouldn't want to be in your shoes. I heard hell is a pretty hot place.
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11-24-2005, 11:21 AM

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I'd love to pound that fucking smile off your face..

I'd love you to do this too. Go on with your bad self, lumpy.

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11-24-2005, 11:21 AM

Originally posted by WarChild

- 852 million people across the world are hungry, up from 842 million a year ago. 10

- Every day, more than 16,000 children die from hunger-related causes--one child every five seconds.

I read a post once where you said you made somewhere around $50,000 a week on one site! Surely you could help feed some of these poor children that die every 5 seconds? Oh wait, nobody posted a desperate plea on GFY for help.

Good thing you're going to help the one family in a liberal country loaded with bail outs for the poor and stupid. Do you feel like a good person because of it?

so if your neighbor was starving and had no mental composure to get work right away after her HUSBAND killed himself you'd just say "go to welfare bitch!" ????

or would you try to do something to help her?
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11-24-2005, 11:23 AM

Originally posted by iwantchixx

so if your neighbor was starving and had no mental composure to get work right away after her HUSBAND killed himself you'd just say "go to welfare bitch!" ????

or would you try to do something to help her?

In Canada, I'd send her to welfare, where there's systems in place to help people like her in exactly this kind of situation. It's part of what makes taxes so god awful high in Canada

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11-24-2005, 11:24 AM

its her own damn fault, live and learn, better luck next time.
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11-24-2005, 11:24 AM

I'm so sorry to hear that, I hope things get better for her soon.
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11-24-2005, 11:30 AM

Originally posted by iwantchixx

I wouldn't want to be in your shoes. I heard hell is a pretty hot place.

Oh no, I'm going to hell and or Karma is going to come get me!

Better watch it being mean like this on a message board, Santa will put you on his bad boy list and not bring you any toys.

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11-24-2005, 11:34 AM

Another money begging thread on GFY...

I am sorry for her, but more people should take their own responsibilities, in stead of going straight to GFY and ask for donations...

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11-24-2005, 11:35 AM

Soo...

What if her husband just decided to leave her? What was her backup plan?

Luckily in Canada for people with no backup plan we have buckets of money, food and services at their disposal, the trick is you have to go get it.

You want donations?

I donated $33,996.75 (as of today) so far this year.

It's kind of like the Hurricane Katrina scenario. Why does the richest country in the world that's spending hundreds of billions of dollars shooting unemployed Arabs need donations to help their own people?
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11-24-2005, 11:48 AM

That's a sad situation if its true. My condolences.

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11-24-2005, 11:51 AM

Blah blah. WarChild I know you are from BC. You know excatly how the goverment works up here. They take forever just to get you in. Then they have to "approve" you. I'm not begging for money at all. I thought maybe some people would have a heart on here. I didn't expect you to, since you know you are a big pimp and all.

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11-24-2005, 11:52 AM

Originally posted by WarChild

Oh no, I'm going to hell and or Karma is going to come get me!

I don't believe in hell, but I do believe we get what we deserve eventually. You will reap what you sow in the long run.

I just think it's so cool how you conservatives always say it's up to the community and church to help out someone in need, but you're also the first to turn your back on someone who actually needs help. You're just ugly, small-minded people. I don't think you can help it though, because you don't possess the intelligence or empathy it takes to put yourself in someone else's position. It's beyond your ability.

Hey isn't it great the way Reagan threw all the mentally ill people out on the streets and then did NOTHING for them? That'll teach them to be sick.
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11-24-2005, 11:58 AM

Originally posted by Ecksent

Blah blah. WarChild I know you are from BC. You know excatly how the goverment works up here. They take forever just to get you in. Then they have to "approve" you. I'm not begging for money at all. I thought maybe some people would have a heart on here. I didn't expect you to, since you know you are a big pimp and all.

Actually, there's emergency welfare for just this type of thing. It's not like going to apply for welfare because you can't find a job, they don't take forever to approve you and etc. There's a lot of good programs to help her out in BC.

I'm not a big pimp, I just live comfortably, that's all.

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11-24-2005, 11:58 AM

Originally posted by Ecksent

Blah blah. WarChild I know you are from BC. You know excatly how the goverment works up here. They take forever just to get you in. Then they have to "approve" you. I'm not begging for money at all. I thought maybe some people would have a heart on here. I didn't expect you to, since you know you are a big pimp and all.

Several offered, give the guy her address so he can have some money brought to her and forget about the retard known as Warchild.

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11-24-2005, 11:59 AM

Originally posted by chadglni

Several offered, give the guy her address so he can have some money brought to her and forget about the retard known as Warchild.

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11-24-2005, 12:00 PM

Originally posted by dig420

I don't believe in hell, but I do believe we get what we deserve eventually. You will reap what you sow in the long run.

I just think it's so cool how you conservatives always say it's up to the community and church to help out someone in need, but you're also the first to turn your back on someone who actually needs help. You're just ugly, small-minded people. I don't think you can help it though, because you don't possess the intelligence or empathy it takes to put yourself in someone else's position. It's beyond your ability.

Hey isn't it great the way Reagan threw all the mentally ill people out on the streets and then did NOTHING for them? That'll teach them to be sick.

You keep calling me a conservative like it makes it easier for you to classify me or something. I know you're smarter than that, so come on, enough already.

As for empathy for the poor? You know what. I came from poverty. I grew up poor living with a single mom who worked her ass off to struggle by. Everything I and my family have now came from hard work. You know what we didn't need to do though? Ask for hand outs.

You think throwing money at someone that just lost their husband is going to solve anything? Seriously, if you want to be charitable and feel good about yourself, then give your money to somebody who really does need it. Your example of the mentally ill is a good one.

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