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it all really depends on the people... not the black people...the people in general, I have a black friend that we throw remarks back and forth... when were verbally horsing around anyway... I dont just nigga thia jigga that to em, just the same as he dosnt whitey and honky me... (same goes with my mexican american votos)
Check out the thread Redshoe let rip last week... his shopping cart ghetto rigged video opp.... Thats My Nigga!!
I wouldnt run down to my local thug hangout to find out.... but i sure as fuck wouldnt tip toe around the subject if it came up...
I used to use the whole Derogatory term ALL THE TIME... but heres how I felt about it... I used it in a sense of a bad word... such as fuck or shit... I said nigra... but I stopped because i dont want to have to explain myself to people when they are offended or dont understand ... and i dont mean the black people, I NEVER said it around them... but that also made me think... even though Im not using it and meaning it in such a term... iF everyone thinks it and I dont say it around the offending party, then its really no better and im basicly saying black people are bad... same as the word gay....
I stopped saying that in a bad sense too since I have quite a few lesbian and homo friends... Ill say something is gay and they look at me like, "What, thats bad??"
so... just find a different word ... homie
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