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Originally Posted by badmunchkin
no it's not true - Dr Drew spreads a bunch of bullshit propaganda on his show - he also thinks every girl who WANTS sex for the sake of sex was sexually abused as a child - the guy is old-fashioned and too enamored of his own opinions - there are no hard and fast rules to life - everyone's different and making blanket stereotyped statements about every woman, man or couple is retarded  |
I'm sure a guy like Dr. Drew who has spent years and years working with people who have addiction and emotional problems really doesn't know what he is talking about.
You are right, we are all individuals, but in the end most people are just part of the herd. I don't mean that in a bad way (so to speak) I just mean that there are certain things that are true most of the time with people. For example they will have someone call in who has chaos in their life and can't stay in a relationship and almost every time that person suffered some kinds of abuse. After a while patterns emerge. When Dr. Drew says something about someone it is because the evidence points to that being the case. It is the old " if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a duck" idea. There are some cases where these blanket statements don't apply, but for the most part he is almost always right.
As for the threesomes. I would say there is about a 95% chance it will end your relationship. There are a very small number of people who can separate sex from emotion, but not very many. In the end there will be questioning and jealousy and it will lead to a demise in the relationship.