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My Girlfriends Ex Wants Back With Her

11-10-2005, 02:28 PM

He keeps texting, and calling her, asking her to take him back.

They broke up about and year ago, and i've been with her since. She keeps telling me she'd never take him back, and wouldn't leave me.

I believe her, but he is seriously pissing me off.

He doesn't stay anywhere close to me, so i never really get to see him at all. I don't even know where he stays exactly, and she won't tell me.
What would you do ? What actions would you take ?

Should i just leave it be, and tell her to ignore him untill he gets the message, or do i try take it further, and deal with it myself ??

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11-10-2005, 02:30 PM

Has she told him straight up that she doesn't want anything to do with him? either that or just have her change her number - thats how I get rid of annoying ex's.
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11-10-2005, 02:30 PM

She wont tell you where he lives because she is fucking him and staying at his house half the time.
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11-10-2005, 02:31 PM

Originally posted by wdsguy

Has she told him straight up that she doesn't want anything to do with him? either that or just have her change her number - thats how I get rid of annoying ex's.

also.. is she replying to his texts/calls
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11-10-2005, 02:34 PM

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She wont tell you where he lives because she is fucking him and staying at his house half the time.

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11-10-2005, 02:35 PM

She is replying to his texts, just telling him though that she wants nothing to do with him again, and that she is happy with me.

If it carries on much longer, she says she will just change her number. But i still think he's a complete asshat, and she shouldn't even have to be forced to do that...

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11-10-2005, 02:35 PM

Originally posted by detoxed

She wont tell you where he lives because she is fucking him and staying at his house half the time.

She stays with me so, no...

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11-10-2005, 02:36 PM

block his number
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11-10-2005, 02:36 PM

Originally posted by Scott McD

She is replying to his texts, just telling him though that she wants nothing to do with him again, and that she is happy with me.

If it carries on much longer, she says she will just change her number. But i still think he's a complete asshat, and she shouldn't even have to be forced to do that...

Can she have his number(s) blocked.
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11-10-2005, 02:38 PM

Shit happens. My gf has a 33 year old stalker who calls her 5 times a day. She's only 22.

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11-10-2005, 02:38 PM

Have her call him and tell him to go fuck himself and that he never even came close to pleasing her in bed like you do now. And as he tries to talk to her have her repeat your a loser your a loser over and over laughing at him all the time she is on the phone. IF he doesn't get the message then maybe they where meant to be together

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11-10-2005, 02:40 PM

Originally posted by Nismo

Shit happens. My gf has a 33 year old stalker who calls her 5 times a day. She's only 22.

I am 30 and I only call 4 times a day

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11-10-2005, 02:40 PM

I would re-check it with your g/f , if this guy keeps on calling , then he feels he got some chance ?

anyhow , if it's not the case , call him and meet him , explain him politelly that he ain't her boyfriend anymore , it's all over and that this girlie with ya since then.

If he won't understand that , do that violence way.
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11-10-2005, 03:18 PM

Sorry man, you might be fucked.

You might be her rebound relationship from that, she most likely still has feelings for this guy, if he broke up with her, there is even a stronger chance he gets her back.. I'd say keep a close eye.
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11-10-2005, 03:21 PM

send him flowers with a note "we both want you back". that'll get him.
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11-10-2005, 03:21 PM

Originally posted by Pipecrew

Sorry man, you might be fucked.

You might be her rebound relationship from that, she most likely still has feelings for this guy, if he broke up with her, there is even a stronger chance he gets her back.. I'd say keep a close eye.

I have to agree, if she keeps answering him not a good sign.
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11-10-2005, 03:24 PM

Scott MCD, does she talk to him in any way what so ever? If so, she has not shut him out. My would he keep on calling her if she did not give him any type of indication she would go back with him.

If she's not able to let go of the past and move on, then you should reconsider your position with her.

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11-10-2005, 03:32 PM

Originally posted by pushpills

send him flowers with a note "we both want you back". that'll get him.

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11-10-2005, 03:35 PM

Think to yourself how long this has been going on for, he should have got the point after the 2nd day if he keeps calling all the time. So now, if she keeps on replying to him or talking to him, it seems like she's holding on to something. Otherwise she would have either blocked the number or not replied anymore.

Tell her to tell the guy calling to fuck off... see what her reaction is and shit.

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11-10-2005, 03:36 PM

... Don't let her reply back and forth with the guy, cause if thats the case, you know she's got other intentions.

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11-10-2005, 03:37 PM

Originally posted by Pipecrew

You might be her rebound relationship from that, she most likely still has feelings for this guy, if he broke up with her, there is even a stronger chance he gets her back.. I'd say keep a close eye.

She broke up with him.

We've been going out for over a year now. Rebound relationships are usually over pretty quick. I believe her when she says she's happy with me. She's not the problem, of this i'm sure...

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11-10-2005, 03:39 PM

Originally posted by DirtyRider

Think to yourself how long this has been going on for, he should have got the point after the 2nd day if he keeps calling all the time. So now, if she keeps on replying to him or talking to him, it seems like she's holding on to something. Otherwise she would have either blocked the number or not replied anymore.

Tell her to tell the guy calling to fuck off... see what her reaction is and shit.

Yeah, i will get it across to her that it is affecting me that she is even talking to him, and that she has to cut off contact with him altogether...

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11-10-2005, 03:46 PM

Don't blame him for it. Your girlfriend is in control at this point, and she must want something from him if she keeps picking up the phone.
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11-10-2005, 03:49 PM

Originally posted by Scott McD

She broke up with him.

We've been going out for over a year now. Rebound relationships are usually over pretty quick. I believe her when she says she's happy with me. She's not the problem, of this i'm sure...

How long? Statistics show that it takes 50% of the relationship time to truly get over each other, regardless of who broke up with who.. If they had been going out for 2 years, then it's still in that zone.
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11-10-2005, 03:53 PM

Originally posted by Pipecrew

How long? Statistics show that it takes 50% of the relationship time to truly get over each other, regardless of who broke up with who.. If they had been going out for 2 years, then it's still in that zone.

They were going out for just over 2 years.

I don't believe in statistics though...

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11-10-2005, 03:56 PM

if he ever calls from a land line do a reverse lookup and go tell him yourself to stop calling

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11-10-2005, 04:15 PM

I don't think that will be a problem if you do trust your girlfriend.

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11-10-2005, 04:15 PM

leave it be......
ignore him and everything about him, she will pick up on it and ignore him too. you give him attention, she will give more attention to the situation, and thus more attention to him.
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11-10-2005, 04:16 PM

Originally posted by Biggy2

leave it be......
ignore him and everything about him, she will pick up on it and ignore him too. you give him attention, she will give more attention to the situation, and thus more attention to him.

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11-10-2005, 04:18 PM

tell the fucker to stay away
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11-10-2005, 04:21 PM

Or you could hire a bunch of guys to go round to his house and sort him out, warm him never to call her ever again or else.....

I only recommend this if it's really REALLY pissing you off and its starting to seriously interfere with your relationship with your girlfriend
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11-10-2005, 04:23 PM

If you know his full name it's surprising how easy it is to find out where he lives
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11-10-2005, 04:27 PM

she'll never admit it but probably likes the attention. why reply otherwise? she should tell him hes not interested and she isn't going to respond anymore.

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11-10-2005, 05:36 PM

Look, you're girlfriend is testing you... if you fail this one, she'll walk all over you!

She wants to see if she can let bullshit happen right under your nose and how long you'll put up with it. Once she knows she has you under her thumb, she'll start playing lots more silly games like this.

Make her choose between you and him -- now and for good! Tell her that as a guy, you can tell when someone's sniffing around trying to steal your woman! That's exactly what he's doing, and that's exactly what her encouragement (by responding to him) tells him and YOU!

This is one of the first signs of a potential cheater -- if she gets away with this now, she'll be fucking somebody else soon enough!

Believe me... I used to pull the same shit... and it worked every time!

Go on the offensive, don't back down... be a big meanie about this issue! If you don't show her who's top dog, she'll start shopping for one!
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11-10-2005, 05:40 PM

Just take her word for it and treat her well..Ex's always come back in the picture

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11-10-2005, 06:29 PM

Why can't she just ignore the fucking twirp? I'm sorry to say it man, but things aren't sounding too good if she has you worried about the situation.

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If she really does not want to be with him, she'll blow him off - its not really anything for you to "worry" about.

Originally posted by Scott McD

She is replying to his texts, just telling him though that she wants nothing to do with him again, and that she is happy with me.

If it carries on much longer, she says she will just change her number. But i still think he's a complete asshat, and she shouldn't even have to be forced to do that...

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11-10-2005, 06:33 PM

your lucky she dumped him, if it was the other way around it wouldn't be good
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11-10-2005, 06:33 PM

She shouldn't be answering his messages. In his twisted mind he's taking it as a sign that she still likes him and there may be a chance. But really, she needs to stop answering his messages and he'll eventually go away.

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11-10-2005, 06:35 PM

good advice, if she is answering it's not good. It's just going to give him more hope.
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11-10-2005, 06:35 PM

Just make sure to confront her and make HER do something about it ... just get rid of the fucking problem ASAP...

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11-10-2005, 06:37 PM

you hit it sly.
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11-10-2005, 06:40 PM

Thing is ... if you trust her, it shouldn't bother you much... BUT it still does. No matter what, it will ... so just fucking ask her to get rid of the problem ;)

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11-10-2005, 06:41 PM

Originally posted by Sly

She shouldn't be answering his messages. In his twisted mind he's taking it as a sign that she still likes him and there may be a chance. But really, she needs to stop answering his messages and he'll eventually go away.

I have a friend who had this exact same problem with 2 girls. They were practically obsessed. Seriously, the one was crazy. Neither one of them left him alone until he completely ignored them.

This guy is still crazy about your girlfriend. Your girlfriend needs to force him to hate her. She needs to make him think she's a bitch. He needs to get to the point where he says to himself "why was I ever with that bitch?"

Once he gets there, you're home free.

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11-10-2005, 06:59 PM

here is a good ADVICE buy at least 1/4 chilli pepper and cotton at least a fistfull then get a thick palstic, munnch those pepper to the cotton let all the pepper fluids be suck by the cotton, when this cotton absorbs all the peppers fluids it will turn the cotton a bit orange in color, take the cotton out of the plastic and let it dry for 3 days when the cotton is 100% dried look where that sick ex of your girlfiend lives maybe call the mobile company to verify his location or address, once you know where he lives go there when he is asleep light up the cotton (don't worry it wont burn) it will just smoke like a cigarette but make sure don't inhale the fumes from that cotton or else you will be a victim of your own plot once the cotton starts smoking better leave the place and a note LEAVE HER ALONE! he will be sick for a week with a swollen eye and a very bad throat, no voice at all and a traumatizing experience, don't worry he can't die with this, but if you want him dead i have a few more advice

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11-10-2005, 07:33 PM

hire a professional dont leave any traces
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11-10-2005, 08:21 PM

my big black buddy actually manged to make this a business. For $100 he finds the guy and makes a bunch of threats like a real street nigga saying she's his girlfriend now and all that and they almost always leave him alone haha its great
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11-10-2005, 08:23 PM

Same thing with my girl... been a year now and the guy still calls. She's considering changing her phone number cause it's pissing her off. If he didn't live 1500KM away I'd consider a chat with the guy, but whatever, the loser will give up eventually and I don't worry about it.

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11-10-2005, 08:24 PM

Beat his ass, Scotty!
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11-10-2005, 08:26 PM

alright just kick his ass

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11-10-2005, 09:56 PM

Guess where she is going once you guys have a fight? Right to his bed!
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