What is also funny is I am sitting here after getting back from the gym..which I do despite my weight and meanwhile a thread full of people where most can't remember when the last time they went to the gym are calling people like me lazy. I also love the less highly functioning. Just be glad I am fat then because I can't imagine at what level I - and many other smart fat women - would function at if we were thin.
There is a fine ass line between fat and a few extra pounds. I don't like my girls with more than 25 extra lbs on them. Anything more than 25lbs overweight is truly not caring about yourself and how you look. I'm 30lbs overweight! 2 people that do not really care just would not work out in a relationship...
a) proposed WAY too early and thus seemed desperate, you want a man, not another boy to mother.
b) You dont want to get hurt, again.
c) They want hundreds of babies to show off, you want a man.
d) "Comfort zone"
e) Those guys were too caught up in their own ego's to look at if you were really interested in them on that level or not.
There are hundreds of reasons why I don't want to get married again It's been 21 years since I've been divorced. The longer I live w/o being married the less I want to get married again In this day and age there's just no reason for a legal marriage IMHO, unless you want kids.
My parents have been divorced for over 30 years and neither has remarried. We learn from our mistakes
My parents have been divorced for over 30 years !hahahaha We learn from our mistakes.
I bet those ..hundred reasons.. get thrown out the door the second you meet someone worthy of filling the role. That... or you're the only american female that isn't sucked in by oprah
My parents have been divorced for over 30 years !hahahaha We learn from our mistakes.
I bet those ..hundred reasons.. get thrown out the door the second you meet someone worthy of filling the role. That... or you're the only american female that isn't sucked in by oprah
that meant to say 'does not equal' ..not haha, haha
What is also funny is I am sitting here after getting back from the gym..which I do despite my weight and meanwhile a thread full of people where most can't remember when the last time they went to the gym are calling people like me lazy. I also love the less highly functioning. Just be glad I am fat then because I can't imagine at what level I - and many other smart fat women - would function at if we were thin.
Even when I was 5 feet tall and weight 100 pounds I liked big beefy guys. Since when was what you find physically attractive in the opposite sex dependent on what you like yourself?!!??
lemme guess, they were total fucking dorks that no real woman would even let near herself...
Well perhaps because I was already married or not ready to get married in the other case. Both a very good looking men with good jobs who I am/was good friends with and who have an attraction to big women and women with brains.
Even when I was 5 feet tall and weight 100 pounds I liked big beefy guys. Since when was what you find physically attractive in the opposite sex dependent on what you like yourself?!!??
OK, that didn't come out right at all
Since when was what you find physically attractive in the opposite sex dependent on what you look like yourself?!!??
Even when I was 5 feet tall and weight 100 pounds I liked big beefy guys. Since when was what you find physically attractive in the opposite sex dependent on what you like yourself?!!??
wow you are having trouble,
isnt being attracted to someone totally dependent on what you like yourself?
I really don't care what other people would have to say, as long as I love my girl. As you grow older your priorities changes, looks become less important. but this is not an excuse for people not to exert some effort in always looking at their best for their partner.
A lot of times it's not the wife who gains weight, it's the hubby.
Picture this: Sunken in recliner, gigantic beer belly holding the miller's lite and plate of nachos atop with amazing balance, and he hasn't seen his cock in 5 years.
But seriously, love is love and some people love eachother no matter what. I respect couples that stay together through the ups and downs (such as weight gain). If you can't stick through it, then it just wasn't meant to be.
has anyone got with a normal weight girl, loved her pussy then years later it's like fucking a marshmallow that stinks from sweat due to weight gain and just plain feels wrong? not to mention going from confident to always complaining about being fat cause they are used to always being normal weight?
Can really turn a guy off. unhappy happens.
Now if you started dating a fat chick and were happy, chances are, you always will be happy.
Fact: Fat women are more likely to turn off the sex tap after marriage than thin/healthy women. They adopt the feminist mentality of 'It's whats on the inside that counts' ...
I wouldn't marry a fat woman because it clearly shows a lack of self-dicipline on their behalf. Being overweight is not healthy, especially when she can't make it through the door...then theres the life-threatening diseases that overeating either precipitates or aggravates.
I could go on for hours...
Complete BS. I have an extremely high sex drive, and I'm a "bigger" girl. I certainly did not gain weight because I have no "self-dicipline". I was on medical bedrest for close to a year and a half, and I gained quite a bit of weight.. even if I wasn't eating much at all, I would still likely have gained.. would I not? I have to date lost 65 pounds, and I am working on losing more, yet at the same time, would it have been fair to lump everyone together simply because of their appearance? Isn't that like assuming that black people are criminals simply because they are black, or saying that asians are smart because they are asian. There are reasons for everything, and someday maybe you will look beyond the surface and see that life is much, much richer.
A lot of times it's not the wife who gains weight, it's the hubby.
Picture this: Sunken in recliner, gigantic beer belly holding the miller's lite and plate of nachos atop with amazing balance, and he hasn't seen his cock in 5 years.
But seriously, love is love and some people love eachother no matter what. I respect couples that stay together through the ups and downs (such as weight gain). If you can't stick through it, then it just wasn't meant to be.
Yes, as I was reading this thread I was wondering how many of the guys who are the loudest on this subject are more than 20lbs or more overweight themselves. I actually find most bigger guys are even MORE picky.. yet they expect absolute perfection.
Hmmm overweight girls normaly have a reason for being overweight It's normal is some mental problem that make them seek comfort in food.
Would depend on many factors but I wouldent rule it out just because she is a bit fat.
Girls that are way skinny normaly have the simular mental heath problems.
One thing that is fact people slighly overwieight people live longer.
The weight would not be my deciding factor thats for sure.
Obesse slob like people I have no time for thou. Girls that are just full of a vanity are even worse I feel.
I like females who accept the fact that they're a walking stack of blubber, and not try to pass it off as "BBW".
I have no problem with fat chicks, just the ones who think they're hot stuff.
I like females who accept the fact that they're a walking stack of blubber, and not try to pass it off as "BBW".
I have no problem with fat chicks, just the ones who think they're hot stuff.
Oh fuck off. You are okay with someone as long as they hate themselves. What a great message.
Yeah but you move to the top of the list and I have never asked anyone myself..always been asked ;) Plus, you know if things were different you would be the first I reached for (in more ways than one).
I love the idea that you must be some real ugly loser that can't get laid otherwise.
No, we are talking about money. Educate yourself on the cost of obesity to the health system. And in most developed countries (such as Australia) the health system is government funded. So yeah, the fact that obesity is costing billions and billions per year to the tax payer is a huge issue. Oh, and obesity does kill.
Oh fuck off. You are okay with someone as long as they hate themselves. What a great message.
No, I know quite a few fat chicks who parade around like they're hot stuff.
I prefer my women to be modest and in touch with reality. I dont like females who go around thinking they're gods gift in general. Be it fat or slim. My words were a bit harsh. I guess what I want, is a chick who knows her role.
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