If she is trying to get you to do coke and drink.. I'd say SEE YA..don't let that door hit you in the ass. That is some fucked up shit to do to an addict...is she a coke hound too or what?
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wheres woj???
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If what you say is true, then my comment about growing up applies to both of you. Sounds like you two are not good for each other. I applaud the fact that you are trying to get clean. You should not surround yourself with people who encourage, or even suggest that you drink or use.Comment
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You're right: you will definitely get a more accurate picture of what's going through her head by posting on an adult webmaster board and listening to the advice of those who don't know you, her or the entire situation. I don't even know why I thought to suggest *gasp* talking to her.Originally posted by d00tproblem is with this theory (talking and exposing yourself to her) is that females NEVER NEVER EVER EVER tell you 100% OF EVERYTHING about their emotional state....then you have the problem of interpreting their junk and filterring it out so that it makes sense in man talk.
Every fucking relationship councilor will tell you to sit down and talk it through - this is the worst possible thing you could ever do. All she will think about is your past history and how she does not want a part of it....and why would she? Seems like a step backwards for her.
If the councilors have the right idea with talking things out....why are there soo many breakups and divorces? Shouldn't we all be happy in our big homes with our 2.3 kids enjoying a perfect life? Things are exactly the opposite and you my friend will be going down that same disaster road if you think anything but taking control YOURSELF will work.
Can you tell I'm passionate about females?
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Jenny and others... She mentioned it after I said "Boy I wonder what it would be like to do a line" HEr reply was ... You coudl do it but I want to be around you and limit it. Very wrong for her to say, but she is just now starting to get the fact that I am an addict.... And hasn't said anything like that since....
As far as the drinking goes, a couple weeks ago it finally sank in that I rally wanted to quit to her and WHY it was important to me - I explained the reason why I was becoming close with my family etc... was cause I wasn't using etc...
This morning she was pissed when she found out I ruined my shit again by drinking.. And asked Why I did it.. If it had anything to do with how she acted. I told her yeah, the hesitation bothered me and I don't want someone marrying me who is doing it because they felt trapped and have to.
She said that wasn't the case she was just in shock because, and I believe her on this one, she never thought in a million years I would ever propose.. We have talked about marriage a million times and both always agreed - 'Just a piece of Paper'
She told me she does, and the only reason she wants to change the ring is because she doesn't like the way the stone is set... and if she is going to be wearing it the rest of her life she wants to make sure it is perfect.. Makes sense I guess... She also mentioned that she wouldn't of been talking last night about what kind of a wedding we would have - which we both agreed heading off to Vegas and having a small wedding is our style.. not a huge church and alot of people... Besides, we don't have the money... LOL
Anyways, for the most part I feel better ... But still have reservations since she hesitated and stuff when I asked her... Which could be shock BUT it still irks me ... Hopefully the next couple weeks I will pick up more signs on how she really feels about it etc..ICQ : 253483920
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