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  • Damian_Maxcash
    So Fucking Banned
    • Oct 2002
    • 12745

    #1

    Is this worth falling out over?

    So I have some friends over last week - I have supplied wine but of course they bring some of there own to be polite.

    They sat and drank my $20-30 wine all night and left very happy... no problems.

    So tonight I fancy a glass or 2 and open up the stuff they bought with them.... OMG - its vile - it even has a plastic 'cork'.

    These guys are very confortable - ones a merchant banker and ones a head teacher at a school with 1000+ students - but they have always been MEGA tight.

    Im getting a bit sick of it.... They are nice people otherwise, but I just cant get over this money thing - how do you deal with that?

    Is it like BO, where the best thing a friend can do is tell the other person they stink?
  • SilentKnight
    Megan Fox's fluffer
    • Oct 2005
    • 24812

    #2
    Tough call...

    Why not reciprocate a few times - make it obvious.

    I've known similiar people like that over the years. Most times I overlook it, simply because in all other respects they're usually good people.

    I wouldn't make it in to a confrontation. If you're intent on sendin' them a message, do it with a little tact and subtlety.




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    • blazi
      Confirmed User
      • Feb 2003
      • 4321

      #3
      if you have an issue then I'd suggest mentioning it to them...

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      • High Quality
        Confirmed User
        • Feb 2002
        • 5741

        #4
        No one should ever bring wine that is less than $25. Those people should be shot like horses, then fed to dogs.

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        • Spunky
          I need a beer
          • Jun 2002
          • 133978

          #5
          Recork it and offer it back to them the next time they come over

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          • jennym
            Confirmed User
            • May 2003
            • 1622

            #6
            Next time you invite them over for drinks, serve the brand of "wine" they brought with them. If anything is said, then politely say you assumed that's what they liked since it is what they bought.

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            • Penthouse Tony
              Confirmed User
              • Apr 2004
              • 5835

              #7
              Originally posted by Spunky
              Recork it and offer it back to them the next time they come over
              jizz or piss in it first. You'll feel better
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              • Alex
                So Fucking Banned (YEA!!)
                • Jun 2004
                • 10963

                #8
                Are you a guy?
                Are these friends, like the type of friends you have in high school?

                If so just be upfront. They might feel embarrased but assure them that you in no means require that they bring expensive wine, but it would be nice if they can show the same courtsey that you show them

                If these friends are female, just quit now
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                • sicone
                  Retired
                  • Jan 2004
                  • 18453

                  #9
                  not eveyone has expensive tastes

                  I prefer grey goose, some of my friends prefer smirnoff. Should I drop them as friends because they prefer a cheaper brand.

                  If you don't like what they do, just bring your own from now on. Or is it written in a 'friend contract' that they must provide treats/drinks of equal value to what you provide to maintain the friendship?

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                  • Alex
                    So Fucking Banned (YEA!!)
                    • Jun 2004
                    • 10963

                    #10
                    Originally posted by sicone
                    not eveyone has expensive tastes

                    I prefer grey goose, some of my friends prefer smirnoff. Should I drop them as friends because they prefer a cheaper brand.

                    If you don't like what they do, just bring your own from now on. Or is it written in a 'friend contract' that they must provide treats/drinks of equal value to what you provide to maintain the friendship?
                    You cant compare vodka to wine.

                    Purpose of vodka is to get you drunk, both brands get you to your goal.

                    Wine is for the taste, you are supposed to spring for the better stuff.
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                    • TexasDreams
                      former Miserable Admin :)
                      • Oct 2003
                      • 4700

                      #11
                      Originally posted by damian2001
                      So I have some friends over last week - I have supplied wine but of course they bring some of there own to be polite.

                      They sat and drank my $20-30 wine all night and left very happy... no problems.

                      So tonight I fancy a glass or 2 and open up the stuff they bought with them.... OMG - its vile - it even has a plastic 'cork'.

                      These guys are very confortable - ones a merchant banker and ones a head teacher at a school with 1000+ students - but they have always been MEGA tight.

                      Im getting a bit sick of it.... They are nice people otherwise, but I just cant get over this money thing - how do you deal with that?

                      Is it like BO, where the best thing a friend can do is tell the other person they stink?

                      Next time they come over, offer them up some Boone's Farm or some other fine vintage from a cardboard box. Best served in your finest paper cups or paper bag.

                      Hell I'm a cheap bastard, but when I go to a friend's, I wouldn't take some rotgut swill that's only good for stripping paint or washing automotive parts.

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                      • Damian_Maxcash
                        So Fucking Banned
                        • Oct 2002
                        • 12745

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Sagi_AFF
                        jizz or piss in it first. You'll feel better
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                        • Damian_Maxcash
                          So Fucking Banned
                          • Oct 2002
                          • 12745

                          #13
                          Seriously, I think the thing we are loosing track of is that these guys are mean.

                          Fuck the wine - 3 glasses in and it all tastes like the best vintage anyway.

                          They have been mean all there lives - they would argue they are saving so they can get up the next rung up the property ladder.....

                          Im drunk on their cheap wine now - Im gonna phone them and tell them want a bunch of cheapskates they are.

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                          • reed_4
                            Confirmed User
                            • Jul 2005
                            • 9640

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Alex
                            Are you a guy?
                            Are these friends, like the type of friends you have in high school?

                            If so just be upfront. They might feel embarrased but assure them that you in no means require that they bring expensive wine, but it would be nice if they can show the same courtsey that you show them

                            If these friends are female, just quit now
                            Good & helpful points to consider.

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                            • Damian_Maxcash
                              So Fucking Banned
                              • Oct 2002
                              • 12745

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Alex
                              Are you a guy?
                              Are these friends, like the type of friends you have in high school?

                              If so just be upfront. They might feel embarrased but assure them that you in no means require that they bring expensive wine, but it would be nice if they can show the same courtsey that you show them

                              If these friends are female, just quit now
                              I dont even know where to start on this one......

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                              • monkeysnap
                                Confirmed User
                                • Sep 2003
                                • 604

                                #16
                                Bring them a six pack of Pabst Blue Ribbon next time you go to their place.

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                                • je_rome
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Jul 2005
                                  • 6846

                                  #17
                                  I think that the best thing to do-just tell them the problem and be done with it. better that than just let it pass and keep it inside until you blow up.
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                                  • Mr Pheer
                                    So Fucking Banned
                                    • Dec 2002
                                    • 22082

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by jennym
                                    Next time you invite them over for drinks, serve the brand of "wine" they brought with them. If anything is said, then politely say you assumed that's what they liked since it is what they bought.
                                    That is the correct way to handle the situation.

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                                    • subVERSION
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Jun 2005
                                      • 235

                                      #19
                                      First of all.. what kind of wine did u supply?
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                                      • DeniseAWC
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Jul 2004
                                        • 115

                                        #20
                                        two stories.

                                        1st, in the UK there was a mens aftershave / deodorant called 'Brut' and it sucked. One year on of our guys was given a 'Brut 33 Christmas Selection Box' by his girlfriends mother, who hates him (This stuff is shit btw). Being PC and correct, he unwrapped it and said thanks very much, took it home and kept it for a year. Last Christmas he re-wrapped it and gave it back to her. Apparently she was really angry when she opened it, asking if it was his idea of a joke and if he was seriously trying to upset / offend her....which is pretty much what he said he thought she was trying to achieve the previous year!

                                        2nd story, one on my neighbours came round with a bottle of Riocha wine as a thank you for something I'd done for their kids. Bottom line is that I hate Riocha, so when I saw the bottle I said the usual 'thanks' but then asked if this was what they enjoyed? Oh yes they said, so I said 'look, no offence but this stuff makes me sick, so rather than bin it, please would you have it back and enjoy it as I don't like it'

                                        No offence taken and no harm done. As for your wealthy friends, erhaps next time you visit them, try treading in Dog Shit before you go in, then make sure you walk it right through every room in their house. When someone asks 'what's that fuckin' smell' you can suggest that perhaps it's the wine?

                                        Just a though!
                                        Denise

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