I am done trying to make this work, Affiliates of ArikaAmes.com, you need to know...

250........

nevermind, woj owned me.

newbreed,

Never let anyone become this important in your life. Never let this happen again with anyone else, especially her... even if she comes crawling back. Your life needs to revolve around you... and only you.


Why? Do you really want to give her a chance to break your heart again? If she wants to get back into your life, never forget what she has put you through... all the pain, suffering, heartache, sleepless nights and emptiness. You'll be able to heal over time, especially with the help of close friends & family... but only if you remove her completely from your life. If she did cheat on you, then she does not deserve your love, affection and respect... and never did. But if you let her walk into your life again, you are giving her the opportunity & power to destroy you. Don't make that mistake.


Unfortunately many of us do understand. I've been through it... ONCE... and only once... and I swore I would never let that happen to me again... and it hasn't. Even though it took me awhile to get over her, I did... by completely erasing her from my life. No mementos, photos, videos, letters, memories, etc... she threw me away with no regard for my feelings, so I did the same to her. I'm partly to blame because I was busy building an empire, instead of a relationship, but it was supposed to be "our" empire, now it's all mine. Immerse yourself in your work, your friends, your family... and get out of the house and see how many wonderful people are out there waiting for you to meet, even if your close friends need to drag you out of the house. And you need to do it soon or else years will pass by in the blink of an eye. I don't know you, but I wish someone was around to give me this advice when I went through what you went through. It may seem impossible, but you will get over her and move on, which she will hate (sometimes they like to know you never got over them)... if that's not a good enough reason to get over her, I don't know what is. When you're finally over her and holding someone else in your arms, you'll wonder why you didn't get over her sooner, and you'll wish she left you sooner than she did.


As far as the guy who came in-between you, you may have some recourse (this isn't legal advice), but check to see if your state has:

"Alienation of Affection"



and if your state doesn't have what's mentioned above, then:

"Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress"


and even though you do not want to let us know who the guy is, it does serve a purpose... I for one, and perhaps many others, would steer clear of doing business with someone like that and it'd be nice to have fair warning who to keep our wives/girlfriends/models away from. If he's one of my current business associates, I would lose all respect for that person... and I don't do business with people I don't respect. This person knowingly destroyed your marriage and fucked up your life, the least you can do is make sure he suffers too.

Well, good luck in the future... you seem like a strong person with much integrity and it looks like you are trying to do everything in your power to find a solution to a situation you no longer have any control over. Much respect for you... and if we have an opportunity to do business in the future, after you're over this, I'll remember how you really cared about taking care of your affiliates and business associates. We all will.



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Business decisions made with only half of the information are often wrong, at least half of the time.

can you hit me up on icq taboo? 240-208

I'm facing the same dilemma here.

"Other" job!?!

It's a bummer when people break up, especially when it is two people who are apparently well liked.

I'm a bit curious who this dude is that Arika ran off with? Mostly, because I don't think I want to have anything to do with him. If he's in the industry and he knows that Arika is married, it seems pretty disrespectful and sleazy to be hitting on Arika.

Since there was talk of out-of-state flights and such to carry on this relationship behind Bill's back, then it is indeed possible that they met at an industry event. I wonder how many other guy's wives this dude may have hit on?

I'm not sure why anyone is protecting him, nor why if he is a regular poster he is staying silent, but I guess he's used to doing things behind people's back.



ADG Webmaster

I think this is a good sigspot position.....so there ya go!

page 6 position

id like to know who they offender is as well.

married woman are off limits

Again, I am not commenting on Arika/newbreeds personal life, but CMON NOW! This is getting a little silly don't you think??????

Now the industry needs to be protected from this MEGA STUD prowling industry events with his super stud radar honed in on our women????

Relationships end. It is a fact of life. Those of you who are without sin cast the first stone.

I would like notarized affadavits, signed under penalty of perjury, from every single one of you on my desk by close of business Wednesday that you never ever ever dated a woman who had a boyfriend/fiancee/husband at the time. Otherwise, let's shut the fuck up with the "holier than thou" posts.

I've been with the same girl for nearly 8 years and never once dated/banged a taken woman before that

Your page 6 post #259 position is only valued at $1.75.

Banging girls who have significant others is soooooooooooooo high school

what's my #4 spot worth?

me says her new relationship last 5-6 months MAX and comes crying back to the industry

260...?

I was suggesting he is possibly a MEGA-SLEAZE not a mega-stud.

There is nothing noble or manly about screwing around with the wife of a person you know (I hope it wasn't a friend or business associate of Bill's).

ADG Webmaster

And that is admirable. It is.

Yet you promote and profit from adultfriendfinder, a site that profits from people who do/have.

BTW, check your meatcash link, you have an extra http in there.

Panchodog has a nice selection of beautiful solo models.

What does it matter if I promote AFF? I'm not about to tell people who they can and can't bang. If they want to ruin the lives of family/loved ones by all means go ahead.

I'll admit I am curious to know who the new man is as well, purely for sake of knowing the sites he runs/ran and how stable his situation is.

Wow, what a train wreck in the making. I'm curious as to who the guy is, not because I care, but because obviously he's got about as much sense as the tree right here in my back yard. Someone that will cheat, lie and deceive will not change their ways. And apparently he's just as willing to do it as she is. But alas, I've got work to do.

Good luck with it.

we need a better word than drama to describe this situation

This thread has restored my faith in the lord jesus christ. Amen.

SLUT

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e-me:
Taboo^(AT)^ADULTMAX^(.)^com

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Does $12 a month in POTENTIAL refferals really warrant such a post in this thread?

Dang. This is so bad. Ack, it hurts my heart. So sorry Bill. Let me know if I can do anything... sigh.

im not sure what to say here............wow...
newbreed, if theres anything i can do for you (a shoulder to lean on, just need to vent to someone with confidentiality), just let me know!!!!!

Im really sorry to hear about the divorce & about one of your dogs being so sick that you had to give her up. And now the drama & problems of the .com

Keep your head up & keep moving forward!!! Like i said, if theres ANYTHING i can do, please let me know!!!

*HUGS*
~Baba~

Sorry to hear this.

For sure!

Best of luck to you, newbreed. I know this is a very, very tough time. It'll pass though. It really will.

Taboo, I wish I'd called you 6 months ago!

- btw, please tell Rick "thanks" for the domain... it was over a year ago, but thanks again!

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That won't happen. I will send my traffic to a solo gay site first.

Good move mate

he is in love.

He broke rule number 24 for the adult biz.

- Dont love the content.

just another coke snorting slut from the bar room scene

when a wife starts sucking another man's cock, it is no longer her home. (if what newbreed says is true)

I totally understand and those people are there to guide you that is all. Now that you have to run a business you need to make decisions on your own. Now is a good time to start..

You should understand the business side of things now they don?t.. Never take an attorneys advice for your own business

Like I said Best wishes to all parties

Honestly this is shocking news to me.. You guys seemed like a very happy couple. I really hope for the best in this situation not only in the business aspect, but also in reconciling what you two had together..

My best wishes for you both no matter what happens.

I feel guilty for reading this entire thread as none of this is my business.

I hope the both of you get your lives and business straight and move on with as little damage as possible.

Consider it done.

like Alabaster said on King of the Hill..

"The biggest mistake a pimp can make, is marrying one of his HO's."

Enough about you.

Do you have anything intelligent to say about this situation or was your post just a personal ad?

A lot of people already do that and have been doing that for a long time.

It was more a jab at baddog for starting some cryptic thread about me last night. I still have no idea what that thread was about. The post was more of a joke in my odd sense of humor directed only at him.