I am not even going to comment on things that are going on in my (our) personal life. That stuff never should have been put here on the board anyway. Remember there are two sides to every story, and most things that NewBreed said are one sided. And I refuse to go back and forth with him.
Yet you make the accusation that he caused the hard drive failure? Trying to save face? Get over yourself already thinking you are God's gift to man. You are nothing but a two bit cheat. You fucked over your husband, who is next? Hopefully, you will learn a lesson from this and next time finish something before you start something new. It is the only way to conduct yourself. Remember what goes around comes around. Karma is a bitch!
Yet you make the accusation that he caused the hard drive failure? Trying to save face? Get over yourself already thinking you are God's gift to man. You are nothing but a two bit cheat. You fucked over your husband, who is next? Hopefully, you will learn a lesson from this and next time finish something before you start something new. It is the only way to conduct yourself. Remember what goes around comes around. Karma is a bitch!
First off I am not the only one that made that accusation. People asked me that question and I neither confirmed or denied.
First off I am not the only one that made that accusation. People asked me that question and I neither confirmed or denied.
What was this your new boyfriend speaking?
And no, I never said straight up that Bill had taken down the site, yes I believed it was a possibility, but never said for sure, and I didn't go around just telling random people.
Bill...take it from a guy who has been married and divorced...married and divorced...married and divorced...life is full of cycles. I have also been rich and poor...rich and poor...rich and poor...
The sooner you come to grips with the fact that the only person in this world you can control is yourself -- and the only one responsible for your emotions is yourself, the better off you'll be. You're clearly a standup guy for dealing with the business end of things in an open and honest manner but don't ever let anyone catch you saying that someone else is the reason you live...unless it's your child(ren). As sad as it is, you'll come to learn that women come and go...come and go...come and go...and nothing is "forever." Die hard romantics (I used to be one) do just that..they die hard.
Best of luck to you with all matters. Take care of the business and for the personal, move on, never look back...you've already proven in this thread you're a better person than the one whom you claim to be "living for." Don't give her the satisfaction of even thinking for one minute that you're less a person than you are. Women who cheat are cheaters...it's just what she has proven herself to be -- and cheaters NEVER cheat because of any short comings of their partner...they cheat because they have problems. Accept it, live with it and move on -- you're fine. And DO NOT live with some sort of rescue fantasy that you can "fix her" -- forget about it and move on.
This post makes so much sense that it deserves to be quoted again and again.
I'm sorry, I can't see this situation going anywhere but ugly.
Trying to think positive, but when there's history, spousal cheating, a partnership, a marriage and an affiliate program and affiliates not yet paid all in the same mix, well... there's usually a train wreck at some point.
Is it okay to say "thank Christ there are no kids" complicating matters further?
GFX Wiz' post was really the sound of logic speaking.
CDSmith, if they are committed to running a good program *and interested in still working together* they both have to put aside whatever personal problems were there in the first place. If she was single and just making a new start in her life, I'd say - if they try, they'll make it. When there is a third party involved and animosity, I think the best thing is for business to be taken care of *read: pay the webmasters* and then both work on their own projects.
I commend NewBreed for being upfront with the affiliates - yes, it's also in his best interest for his own program/work in the future - but I think we've seen a few others blame non-payment on their rogue partners and start off with a clean slate. He's doing the opposite and for this, I have much respect.
Best wishes to both of you.. I know love can hurt but only time heals it.
Newbreed Once a woman makes up her mind its over so the best thing to do is just move forward and let her handle her site.
I know it must be tough but life goes on and gets better
GFX wiz couldn't have said it better..
I always tell people once you learn you can only control yourself and nothing else around you the better you will be.. One reason I'm selfish now because I've learned my lesson many times. Woman will come and go
As for Arika do whats right. I know you have a new boyfriend and attorney in your ear right now. Don't let them turn you into a bitch they are only there for the taking right now.
The story is true. I can work through the divorce, that's not a problem. What I cannot handle is other people coninuing to get hurt and be left in the dark or ignored. I have kept my mouth shut for weeks, doing everything I can to keep this thing going, and I am done getting lied to, and done taking on the additional stress.
Totally agreed ... putting your head in the sand, and not working out your problems (especially what you do for a living), will get you in nothing else but troubles... you gotta face the problems first, then take the spare time and have fun.
Originally posted by rayadp05
I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?
Most womans are way too emotionals to run a business, and this is a perfect example.
Originally posted by rayadp05
I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?
As for Arika do whats right. I know you have a new boyfriend and attorney in your ear right now. Don't let them turn you into a bitch they are only there for the taking right now.
Good point RogerV - Arika, don't be influenced to make rash decisions that you would not normally make. Just like everyone is saying women come and go - men do to. I have no clue who it is and perhaps he's truly your soulmate, but just because you've made the 'mistake' (we'll call it that) of hurting your husband one way, doesn't mean you must continue that path and continue to do things to spite him. Make sure you don't burn your the ladders you've climbed cuz once you fall, the carpenters that helped to build it will be working on other ladders.
The new solo sites will all be models hired for 2 weeks - 1 month were an awesome photogarapher shoots 1000s and 1000s of pics of them then bids them farewell with there one and only paycheck in their hand.
It will not go under if she steps up and does the right thing. I have asked her for weeks to sit down and let's work this out. We sat down one time finally a couple of weeks ago and everything she agreed to hs not been done. She knows what needs done to save the site. In the meantime it will be tied up in litigation I am sure based on the restraining order she was granted that dissallows me to deal with any of the finances or other important aspects of running a business.
Jesus what a fucking c*unt if that's true...
Originally posted by rayadp05
I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?
GFX Wiz' post was really the sound of logic speaking.
CDSmith, if they are committed to running a good program *and interested in still working together* they both have to put aside whatever personal problems were there in the first place. If she was single and just making a new start in her life, I'd say - if they try, they'll make it. When there is a third party involved and animosity, I think the best thing is for business to be taken care of *read: pay the webmasters* and then both work on their own projects.
I commend NewBreed for being upfront with the affiliates - yes, it's also in his best interest for his own program/work in the future - but I think we've seen a few others blame non-payment on their rogue partners and start off with a clean slate. He's doing the opposite and for this, I have much respect.
Oh I'm pulling for the best outcome here, most definitely. But due to the finicky nature of affiliates and the tension in this thread I was just stating the way it could go. It doesn't have to go that way of course, there are choices. Let's hope those choices are good ones.
And GFX wiz's post was good. I would even say it was excellent.
This is my only post I am going to make in this thread. Anyone can contact me directly and privately via e-mail [email protected] or icq 314694667
I am not even going to comment on things that are going on in my (our) personal life. That stuff never should have been put here on the board anyway. Remember there are two sides to every story, and most things that NewBreed said are one sided. And I refuse to go back and forth with him.
As for the business...Everything is wrote out as to what people are owed and what people will be compensated for. The site was up before the affiliate site was. I was not able to get the payouts for the payout period of 09/16/2005 - 09/30/2005. It still doesn't show up in my payout admin, however I did find out a way to show me what is owed for that period, so those checks and the compensation checks will be mailed out first thing on Monday.
As for NewBreed saying that there are a couple CCBill checks floating around. Yes there are, and I couldn't tell you where they are.
I have always had full control of the site. Most things I know how to do. Some things I do not, so I have been learning myself. I am the one that had to move out of my home, so I had to start over. I am doing the best I can and not fucking any of my affiliates over. Bill you say that you have got a ton of e-mails and icqs from people seeing where their check was and why they were not getting paid? Why were they not forwarded to me? That option was always open to you. I have not received one since the site has been back up. I had received maybe 5 when the hard drive had failed and they were replied to. I have been kept in the dark about what all had been going on with the site. When it went down, I was not told a lot. I had to contact Webair myself to see what was going on exactly.
And no, I never said straight up that Bill had taken down the site, yes I believed it was a possibility, but never said for sure, and I didn't go around just telling random people.
Please remember there are two sides to every story. I am not going to bring my side and my personal life to this board.
The site just got back and going to full capacity this past week. I have and will continue to make the site work and profit. Every affiliate will get what they are owed. No one is getting screwed. Everything will continue and I will be running the site to which I am perfectly capable of. Again, anyone is welcome to contact me personally about any BUSINESS issues or concerns.
** I am using a hotmail address so nothing gets lost
Just pay the people already and stop lying to those you have been. You chose to leave, you chose to run into the arms of another, you chose to spend the money that was already in the account and still coming in. The personal life part of this was brought into it because you are using company and debt related funds to pay for you new PERSONAL life. The reason that site exists as it does today is because I busted my ass to help you make something of it AFTER you left me so you would not have to resort to your "other" job. Ohw dare you lie to these people, they gave life to the site and business as much as you and I did.
Loryn (3:16 PM):
I love it, just as long as we keep the bedroom door closed from all ears then we can have throw down hard core sex that makes us money haha
fuck it we can have sex on money never did that before
how can i contact her? i have a marriage proposal ;-)
Breaking news : She dosen't have a dick
Originally posted by rayadp05
I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?
Good point RogerV - Arika, don't be influenced to make rash decisions that you would not normally make. Just like everyone is saying women come and go - men do to. I have no clue who it is and perhaps he's truly your soulmate, but just because you've made the 'mistake' (we'll call it that) of hurting your husband one way, doesn't mean you must continue that path and continue to do things to spite him. Make sure you don't burn your the ladders you've climbed cuz once you fall, the carpenters that helped to build it will be working on other ladders.
Thank you and I completely understand that. Yes I do have people, family, friends, lawyer, whatever that are giving me advice. But if it weren't for them, I would probably be in a tiny hole because I am not too good at standing up for myself. I am getting better, but he knows that.
Roger - Thank you but I want you guys to know that I am doing the right thing here. Affiliates are getting paid. When I first moved out, I had nothing and was staying at my mom's house with my laptop. There was not too much I could do on there. I moved into a new place now and I am able to work again. I finally got my computer from him and got a printer. VersaCheck was on his computer so I do not have it. I know what everyone is owed and it will all be sent out on monday. Things are just now coming together. It is unfortunate that affiliates had to wait for their payment, but I did not have the information nor software to pay. Now I do. Things are getting done, and it is not because this thread was started. I spent most of the week getting things together.
your pimpin days are over. Accept it like a man and find a job!
Or just pay a model...
Originally posted by rayadp05
I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?
I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?
Thank you and I completely understand that. Yes I do have people, family, friends, lawyer, whatever that are giving me advice. But if it weren't for them, I would probably be in a tiny hole because I am not too good at standing up for myself. I am getting better, but he knows that.
Roger - Thank you but I want you guys to know that I am doing the right thing here. Affiliates are getting paid. When I first moved out, I had nothing and was staying at my mom's house with my laptop. There was not too much I could do on there. I moved into a new place now and I am able to work again. I finally got my computer from him and got a printer. VersaCheck was on his computer so I do not have it. I know what everyone is owed and it will all be sent out on monday. Things are just now coming together. It is unfortunate that affiliates had to wait for their payment, but I did not have the information nor software to pay. Now I do. Things are getting done, and it is not because this thread was started. I spent most of the week getting things together.
You've have had your computer for weeks. Remember, while I was here uploading content from it that I did not have on mine so the site would get restored, you kept trying to come in and get it and threatening me with court orders. I told you then that as soon as the site was back up I didn't have a problem with you coming and getting it. When you took off from here you had the laptop and a wireless card, which you said you bought so you could work. You still didn't lift a finger for weeks. You had plenty of money at that time and over the coming weeks. In fact, the day after you left was the first time you flew to New York, and that was OUR money you used for that trip. I have offered OVER and OVER to help you and you have always had the option to come here and get whatever you need to get people paid and handle "your" business. We sat down and worked out a plan 2 weeks ago, to this day you have not followed through with any of what we decided you would be responsible for. I told you just the other day I would set out the software you needed and you never followed up with me to do so. You also have at least 10 blank checks you could have used. Just stop the lies and take care of what needs done.
Loryn (3:16 PM):
I love it, just as long as we keep the bedroom door closed from all ears then we can have throw down hard core sex that makes us money haha
fuck it we can have sex on money never did that before
I am not going to comment on Arika/Newbreed's personal life since I don't have the first clue about it. Neither do most of you really.
However, it just amazes me that most of you have never been able to maintain a long term relationship. You treat woman with such respect and high regard I just can't imagine a woman leaving any of you.
You also need to remember that without these ho's, bitches, and c*nts, most of you would have a job with a name badge requiring you to say "would you like fries with that" several times a day. The ho's, bitches, and c*nts are the ones putting themselves out there for YOUR financial benefit. Might serve some of you well to keep that in mind.
Half of me wants to say "Everyone take down all of your fucking links, this girl has no morals or business ethics and doesn't deserve to profit off of her site". But at the same time the other half is saying "Damn, Newbreed owns half of the site and has a vested interest in it".
There is no conflict at all. My second sentence was not referring to the two parties personal situation. It was in reference to many of the other comments in this thread and others.
Comment