Bill I love both of you and for that reason i will not comment onthis thread but I will say a few things bro, first of all You know if you need anything im just up the road from you, call me if you wanna get away for a bit and need a place to stay ill set you up at one of the hotels and you can relax for a bit, second of all Im heading down to OU athens, Ohio today for the weekend for the big halloween party, your more then welcome to join us and party if you need to get things off your mind bro. I hope to hear back from you soon.
NB, it may feel like you're the only one going through this kind of pain, but trust me... you're not. Many of us have been there at one time or another. All you can do is talk to others who care about you, talk til you're blue in the face and can't talk anymore.... then time is all that can ease this for you.
Best of luck, it looks as though you're the only one who has a shot at holding the program together, since she is conspicuously absent here.
damn that is crazy, glad i hadn't started promoting yet, when i went to sign up the site was already affected by hdd problems. good luck with everything newbreed!
I will add one thing further.... if I'm reading correctly and this is 100% accurate that she has buggered off and has cheated on you and broken the trust not only of the marriage but of the business aggreement as well... then it appears that you are being a helluva lot more tolerant and patient and understanding about her than I would be.
Take Stuart's offer and go get your mind occupied for a while. That's what I say.
Bill...take it from a guy who has been married and divorced...married and divorced...married and divorced...life is full of cycles. I have also been rich and poor...rich and poor...rich and poor...
The sooner you come to grips with the fact that the only person in this world you can control is yourself -- and the only one responsible for your emotions is yourself, the better off you'll be. You're clearly a standup guy for dealing with the business end of things in an open and honest manner but don't ever let anyone catch you saying that someone else is the reason you live...unless it's your child(ren). As sad as it is, you'll come to learn that women come and go...come and go...come and go...and nothing is "forever." Die hard romantics (I used to be one) do just that..they die hard.
Best of luck to you with all matters. Take care of the business and for the personal, move on, never look back...you've already proven in this thread you're a better person than the one whom you claim to be "living for." Don't give her the satisfaction of even thinking for one minute that you're less a person than you are. Women who cheat are cheaters...it's just what she has proven herself to be -- and cheaters NEVER cheat because of any short comings of their partner...they cheat because they have problems. Accept it, live with it and move on -- you're fine. And DO NOT live with some sort of rescue fantasy that you can "fix her" -- forget about it and move on.
The sooner you come to grips with the fact that the only person in this world you can control is yourself -- and the only one responsible for your emotions is yourself, the better off you'll be. You're clearly a standup guy for dealing with the business end of things in an open and honest manner but don't ever let anyone catch you saying that someone else is the reason you live...unless it's your child(ren). As sad as it is, you'll come to learn that women come and go...come and go...come and go...and nothing is "forever." Die hard romantics (I used to be one) do just that..they die hard.
I have gotten way to personal in this thread, and it's time I stopped. I only originally intended to deal with the business side of everything, but in the same respect I am done hiding and minimizing what's going on. From now on no more personal questions will be answered.
Now this this is one of them occasions
where the homies not doin it right
I mean he found him a hoe that he like
But you can't make a hoe a housewife
And when it all boils down you gonna find in the end
a bitch is a bitch, but a Dogg is a man's best friend
So what you found you a hoe that you like
But you can't make a hoe a housewife (wife)
To those of you hitting me up with the rumors of who she is with and what they are doing, i already know. Please, I have heard it from a few people tonight and I really don't want to keep having to hear it over and over again. I have known what's going on in detail for almost 2 months. I hope they are have a wonderful happy life. I just want her to make things right for those people here that have been affected over the last few weeks.
You know, to be honest, I would think that this guy would hesitate JUST a little bit.. she's willing to cheat on her husband and screw with her affiliates because of him.. if I was him I would honestly be nervous as hell as to what she was gonna do when she meets the "NEXT' man of her dreams... considering she can't even respect MARRIAGE vows, how is he supposed to be able to believe that she won't do the same to him? My heart goes out to you Bill.. I've always had a ton of respect for your business ethic and all the hard work you've done to help make Arika's site what it is(was). I hope that in the end, everything works out ok. If you need someone to talk to, I'm still here for ya man.
You know, to be honest, I would think that this guy would hesitate JUST a little bit.. she's willing to cheat on her husband and screw with her affiliates because of him.. if I was him I would honestly be nervous as hell as to what she was gonna do when she meets the "NEXT' man of her dreams... considering she can't even respect MARRIAGE vows, how is he supposed to be able to believe that she won't do the same to him? My heart goes out to you Bill.. I've always had a ton of respect for your business ethic and all the hard work you've done to help make Arika's site what it is(was). I hope that in the end, everything works out ok. If you need someone to talk to, I'm still here for ya man.
I was just going to mention this. Most likely she will do it her entire life, unless she grows up. She left one guy, she can leave another just as easily.
Good luck, Newbreed, wish you the best of luck, I am sure you will bounce back and get a great job and take care of your own. There are plenty of other great women out there, that will treat you better.
wonder if he works in the biz....and if it will reflect badly on him if so.....
Newbreed already said the guy is in the biz. He lives in NY, and is in the biz. I am curious who it is as well. Will be interesting to say the least. Obviously they will be at shows together, shouldn't be too hard to figure out soon enough.
newbreed... if arika was a guy, what would you do?
You're too good of a guy to let this fuck with your head, business and contacts.
Keep that backbone of yours firmly in place, especially if you're moving on with post-AA.
1% of my hoes have penises.... arika is a goddess... i need her.... she needs me...
i have a strap on, does that count?
newbreed: i'm sorry it's come to having to use the boards to find arika/to hold her accountable for her own site. i hope she does the right thing, and fast - you know how quickly years of work can go to the wayside if members/affiliates are ignored, and how hard it is to get them back once they've been lost. i wish you and arika both the best in whatever form it may come, though i'd be lying if i said i wasn't sad for you both - if only for the pain/stress of the situation you're both going through. *hugs* to you both.
wonder if he works in the biz....and if it will reflect badly on him if so.....
I heard about it a few days ago but really didn't believe it because I thought there was no way it could have been kept quiet around here, lol. If it's who I was told, he posts here regularly. I still can't believe something was kept secret on gfy for 2 months. That's got to be an all-time board record.
newbreed- if you guys haven't seen an attorney yet, you should. At least for the sake of the business. Sorry this happened. Divorces suck, but hopefully you two can get through it peacefully.
so how long before someone says the new guys name? - page 6?
wow, dudes life is going to shit, hes gettin a devorice, hes closing up shop and you want to know the name of the guy who shes cheating with
you are a stand up guy. no really a fuckin man amongst men.
why do you even fucking care? do you think it might be someone in your circle of friends? well if it was, wouldnt you have fucking heard about it by now? (that is if you have friends)
dick
want to buy this spot for cheap? it is of course for sale. long term deals are always the best bet. brand0n/ at/ a o l dot commies.
It's going to be very hard for people to separate the personal/divorce/cheating side of this from the business side of it. Seems they are interdependant, seeing as how one seems to be affecting the other so negatively.
It's going to be very hard for people to separate the personal/divorce/cheating side of this from the business side of it. Seems they are interdependant, seeing as how one seems to be affecting the other so negatively.
Look at it this way. If the guy was so low that he was fucking around with a married woman, that tells you something about his moral character. In my mind, and probably man other people's as well, I think it will reflect badly upon him as well as her (obviously).
This is my only post I am going to make in this thread. Anyone can contact me directly and privately via e-mail [email protected] or icq 314694667
I am not even going to comment on things that are going on in my (our) personal life. That stuff never should have been put here on the board anyway. Remember there are two sides to every story, and most things that NewBreed said are one sided. And I refuse to go back and forth with him.
As for the business...Everything is wrote out as to what people are owed and what people will be compensated for. The site was up before the affiliate site was. I was not able to get the payouts for the payout period of 09/16/2005 - 09/30/2005. It still doesn't show up in my payout admin, however I did find out a way to show me what is owed for that period, so those checks and the compensation checks will be mailed out first thing on Monday.
As for NewBreed saying that there are a couple CCBill checks floating around. Yes there are, and I couldn't tell you where they are.
I have always had full control of the site. Most things I know how to do. Some things I do not, so I have been learning myself. I am the one that had to move out of my home, so I had to start over. I am doing the best I can and not fucking any of my affiliates over. Bill you say that you have got a ton of e-mails and icqs from people seeing where their check was and why they were not getting paid? Why were they not forwarded to me? That option was always open to you. I have not received one since the site has been back up. I had received maybe 5 when the hard drive had failed and they were replied to. I have been kept in the dark about what all had been going on with the site. When it went down, I was not told a lot. I had to contact Webair myself to see what was going on exactly.
And no, I never said straight up that Bill had taken down the site, yes I believed it was a possibility, but never said for sure, and I didn't go around just telling random people.
Please remember there are two sides to every story. I am not going to bring my side and my personal life to this board.
The site just got back and going to full capacity this past week. I have and will continue to make the site work and profit. Every affiliate will get what they are owed. No one is getting screwed. Everything will continue and I will be running the site to which I am perfectly capable of. Again, anyone is welcome to contact me personally about any BUSINESS issues or concerns.
NewBreed and Arika - two of my FAVORITE people in this business... God this makes me so sad to hear. Just heartbreaking to say the least, on all fronts, personal as well as business ........
wow, dudes life is going to shit, hes gettin a devorice, hes closing up shop and you want to know the name of the guy who shes cheating with
you are a stand up guy. no really a fuckin man amongst men.
why do you even fucking care? do you think it might be someone in your circle of friends? well if it was, wouldnt you have fucking heard about it by now? (that is if you have friends)
dick
shut up noob - I already know it - it was a question WHEN he would be named
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