By no means am I the traditional "suicidal" person... nor do I have those symptoms - however, today... she is 'pushing me over the edge'.
I'm not a drug type of guy... I drink socially (parties only)... and I'm not too interested in exercising (I walk)... so I guess I need a cigarette (but I do that with the woman usually, so she has them).
I mean ... to the point you want to pull out your hair... ?
Divorce your wife. I did. And I'm with Perrie now and I'm happy now Been together 2 years and hardly had any real arguments.... with the wife, I'd been ready to slice her throat within a year...!
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Nope, we are like one. Maybe everyone now and then she might do something to annoy me, but will fix it fast. I do the same for her.
We pretty much know what makes eachother mad and won't do those things.
I don't think i have ever yelled at her once. We've been living together for about 4 years now.
Simmer down, when you aren't upset try to talk about it calmly. Put it in phrases like 'It makes me feel like driving a screwdriver into my eyesocket when you leave your used qtips in the sink' or 'I would appreciate it if you were more careful in your tone when you ask me to do things, you know be nice not a fucking cunt'
And remember to never fight after either of you have been drinking, reasoning is impossible and it's too easy to lose control.
Spend some time apart, it'll give you both a chance to refocus and think about what's actually important in life... and what isn't.
Later, when you're ready to make up, have her meet you at a hotel. Meet in the bar and act like two strangers meeting for the first time. Trust me, the makeupsex/strangers combo is unbelievably hot. Years from now if you're still together you'll remember the making up more than whatever it was you were arguing about.
Spend some time apart, it'll give you both a chance to refocus and think about what's actually important in life... and what isn't.
Later, when you're ready to make up, have her meet you at a hotel. Meet in the bar and act like two strangers meeting for the first time. Trust me, the makeupsex/strangers combo is unbelievably hot. Years from now if you're still together you'll remember the making up more than whatever it was you were arguing about.
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