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Haha this thread is funny on so many levels but I guess I understand the culture shes coming from. Western girls or Asian girls born here wouldn't even ask you for their permission or opinion.
I'm surprised though that her parents were cool with her marrying someone thats not korean, heck in college korean girls wouldn't date you at ALL unless you were korean.Comment
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It sounds to me like she needs an outlet for her creativity and energy... maybe she could take an art or cooking class... or as mentioned earlier do some volunteer work.
Everyone needs to have a sense of purpose, it makes life more meaningful.Comment
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Brad, Brad, Brad....have you learned nothing yet, from the teachings of Timbo san? Let her do what she wants. Eventually, she will anyway.
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allow and let............her do what makes her happy.Comment
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she should get a part time job. Working people are more interesting than stay at home wivesComment
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I personally don't have a problem with the 'permission' bit. Whatever works for you two is what works.
As someone who was denied getting a job many years ago, I will say that denying someone that can be dangerous. It eventually led to the downfall of my marriage.
The cirumstances were kind of similiar; it wasn't necessary for me to work, and we had no children at the time. But it can put someone in a...funny...space to not having anything they can truly call their own. Not money, not sense of self, not the roof over their head.
You seem to be a guy like my ex who would say that everything you have is hers. But if she doesn't feel that...
if she doesn't feel a sense of purpose and have the mental...dignity? (I can't think of the word I want), then what you saying it is hers doesn't matter at all.
I'd let her, where I you. Or, if not, as Timbo said, she may eventually do it anyway.
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I personally don't have a problem with the 'permission' bit. Whatever works for you two is what works.
As someone who was denied getting a job many years ago, I will say that denying someone that can be dangerous. It eventually led to the downfall of my marriage.
The cirumstances were kind of similiar; it wasn't necessary for me to work, and we had no children at the time. But it can put someone in a...funny...space to not having anything they can truly call their own. Not money, not sense of self, not the roof over their head.
You seem to be a guy like my ex who would say that everything you have is hers. But if she doesn't feel that...
if she doesn't feel a sense of purpose and have the mental...dignity? (I can't think of the word I want), then what you saying it is hers doesn't matter at all.
I'd let her, where I you. Or, if not, as Timbo said, she may eventually do it anyway.
You know..i read all the posts...and i was about to agree with you.
then she came home..and i sat her down and said..i just want you to be happy..so if you want to get a day job doing whatever...you should go do it.
she doesnt want a job..who would..lolTelegram PhoenixBrad
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Haha! He said "LET"! hahaha! "Let" would not go over well with most girls I know
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I agree with Elli, at the least encourage her to volunteer.Comment
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well i guess you should allow her on what she wants to do...since you don't have kids yet, i think she have to enjoy first her life without kids..
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shit, my missus earns more than me right now (although not MUCH more, we're both poor ass students) and I wouldn't change that for the world!
Get that hoe out on the streets earning some green!
jokes!
Seriously, if she likes the whole web thing, make her an e-commerce site.
This reminds me of one of my mates mom. His dads the real bread winner, but since him and his brothers grew up she was a bit bored and so thought she may as well be productive with her time, but still needed to stay in the home. So she started doing those "card crafts things (assembling intricate cards - not recommended shit money)
The she got into the e-commerce thing and now runs a pretty successful Ebay store. I think their last family holiday was 90% thanks to her online pass-time.
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Subservient woman, man in charge, hmmm
You sound like a Republican Phoenix!Comment
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You have to come to GFY to ask this question
I am sure your wife would appricate you asking a bunch of school kids.Comment
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Oh c'mon are people really THAT insecure these days? First of all....if someone wants to cheat they are going to cheat...PERIOD....and they should not be with that person in the first place!
If you tie a person down and tell them what they can and can't do they will find a way to resent you and go behind your back even faster! I think he has the right idea in giving her suggestions......it sounds like they have a good give and take relationship on both ends.....
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my wife works too. she cannot just not doing anything at home. she likes days off here and there but i think it is healthy that she has her job and i have mine.
maybe when the time is right, she can start some stay home business.
oh .. and yeah we have two kids...
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Let her get a job.
If she's like my wife, she will bitch that she wants a job/responsibility/her own money/etc.. then when she has it she will bitch that she's so busy and has no time to herself! lolSharkyComment
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Ask her what kind of job she wants to do...encourage her to do what she's passionate about...
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