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Originally Posted by KittyLix
I have a feeling I may regret this but seriously I need serious opinions.
The Issue is my fiance left me pregnant and I have a child (who is special needs). I am (or had) an abortion because the child i have now needs my attention to the utmost and raising another i honestly dont think i can handle, and i disagree with bringing another child in this world just to have them go through a possible horrible parent that can not give him/her the attention he/she deserves and just have them be another state child added on to what the state (and practically all over the US has) no way would i want to put a kid through that. sooo without rambling on too much...
the blog o' drama is posted here which has details of an abortion that became a non-private thing to the whole fucking town because of the dim-wit sperm donor that found out. I am getting calls from redneck assholes and the whole nine yards (yay for living in the bible belt)
so here is the blog and i am "RAWR" and the other bitch is Ginny.
be gentle LOL
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...p=1&indicate=1 |
Let hem help you out. There are a lot of idiots on GFY. Dont trust what most of them say.
First of all, i have no clue how old you are whatsoever. But, for each abortion a women makes, she risks to never be able to get pregnant again. So if you plan to get more kids in the future...... Well.
If you consider to have this baby, think like this:
1. Will the baby have both parents avaible ?
2. Will I have the economy and time to be the mother that this child needs?
3. Can I offer everything this child needs?
I dont know how life is where you live, but where I live, no one wants to touch a singlemonther with kids. Who would? Are you willing to give up your little time that you have for yourself for this kid?
Women always thinks that when they are pregnant from day 1, there is a child in their stomach. I dont know how many weeks you have been pregnant, but if its the first month or a little after that, like 6 weeks. Then do make a abortion. You dont have a child in your stomach by definition, yet.