Did you cheat on your future wife on your bachelor party?

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  • bausch
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    • Jul 2006
    • 3017

    #51
    Originally posted by stev0
    Maybe the hookers were better looking back then? Now an attractive woman with compromised morals has a lot of other avenues such as nude modeling for internet sites. The only ones that end up being hookers are the nasty crack whores that can't make it anywhere other than the street corner.
    Nah, that's why many go on sex vacations now, cause supposedly the women in some third world places like Eastern Europe, Brazil, etc are supposedly much better looking hookers than the one in the Stats...

    Many people have whoring vacations now, sex tourism is big business.

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    • jeffrey
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      • Jul 2004
      • 1864

      #52
      Originally posted by bausch
      And about the stats, if 59 years ago supposedly 69 % of men had sex with hookers shouldn't be the percentage be higher today? Why would the percentage be lower today than 59 years ago?

      Because it's more liberal now and less stigma. Plus there's the internet where people can give reviews/tips regarding whore mongering and such so wouldn't that make it easier to whore....

      So shouldn't it be higher? Even if the 69 % statistic was inaccurate, wouldn't today's rate be higher?

      It's true that there's more casual sex available to men then 59 years ago but I don't think that by itself would drive the percentage down... ? I'm thinking because a lot of married men cheat they prefer hookers because it's quicker, more convenient, with a lesser chance of getting caught?
      From your link (did you even read it?)
      "During Kinsey's lifetime, the most damaging critique of his work focused on the sample of people he interviewed, which included large numbers of college students, prison inmates, and acknowledged homosexuals. If he oversampled in atypical populations and did not re-weight his results accordingly, then his numbers would be too high."

      He used college students, prison inmates, and homosexuals.
      1948, think about that date a bit, and ask yourself what the 20-30 year olds would have been doing in the last 9 years?
      In case you forgot WWII was 39-45.
      Then think about how that might effect the results. It doesnt take much to find articles about how men at war are far more likely to use hookers.

      Not to mention who the fuck pays for sex when hitting the bar at 1:30am will land you some chick thats probably better looking then most hookers and almost guarranteed to be cleaner, where you would at least be the first fuck of the night. Casual sex is something that didnt happen back then that does now, and thats really been the last several years only too, and I suspect will only become more common here.
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      • bausch
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        • Jul 2006
        • 3017

        #53
        Originally posted by jeffrey

        Not to mention who the fuck pays for sex when hitting the bar at 1:30am will land you some chick thats probably better looking then most hookers and almost guarranteed to be cleaner, where you would at least be the first fuck of the night. Casual sex is something that didnt happen back then that does now, and thats really been the last several years only too, and I suspect will only become more common here.
        You are right about the sampling from the study, I just skimmed over that and didn't really read it in-depth.

        Some people have told me they prefer hookers because they don't want to talk anyone, with a hooker it's more of a business transaction plus there's no chance of rejection.

        Plus with a hooker, it's ALL about the customer, the customer doesn't have to give a damn about the hooker. With a girl he picks up with the bar he would probably have to be a bit more charming and polite and a lot of people probably don't want to deal with that. With the hooker it's all about the customer's pleasure.

        Plus some people probably prefer hookers over an easy lay because they have more power with the hooker, they can tell her what to do etc...

        And some people might like the thrill with a hooker cause they are also dodging police, stings, so the thought of doing something illegal might appeal to them, it might give them an adrenaline rush they wouldn't get from a one night stand from the bar. It's like a game, to see if they can negotiate the price down as much as possible and not get caught by vice.

        Don't you think I kind of have a point though? These are all reasons why some people might prefer hookers over easy one night stands/free sex. I think because of these factors which I listed above people might still prefer whores over free sex.
        Last edited by bausch; 04-01-2007, 11:14 AM.

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        • BlackCrayon
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          • Jun 2003
          • 19634

          #54
          Originally posted by bausch
          And about the stats, if 59 years ago supposedly 69 % of men had sex with hookers shouldn't be the percentage be higher today? Why would the percentage be lower today than 59 years ago?

          Because it's more liberal now and less stigma. Plus there's the internet where people can give reviews/tips regarding whore mongering and such so wouldn't that make it easier to whore....

          So shouldn't it be higher? Even if the 69 % statistic was inaccurate, wouldn't today's rate be higher?

          It's true that there's more casual sex available to men then 59 years ago but I don't think that by itself would drive the percentage down... ? I'm thinking because a lot of married men cheat they prefer hookers because it's quicker, more convenient, with a lesser chance of getting caught?
          Stats could be very different today due to the fact that there were much larger numbers of men in armed forces, whom are notorious for fucking hookers.
          you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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          • bausch
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            • Jul 2006
            • 3017

            #55
            Originally posted by BlackCrayon
            Stats could be very different today due to the fact that there were much larger numbers of men in armed forces, whom are notorious for fucking hookers.
            You're funny, you said I talk about the same thing over and over again Do I really?????????

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            • BlackCrayon
              Too lazy to set a custom title
              • Jun 2003
              • 19634

              #56
              Originally posted by bausch
              You're funny, you said I talk about the same thing over and over again Do I really?????????
              I'm not sure what you are getting at but yes you do. Do you want me to go through your posts and pull out ones from the past few months alone that are on the topic of men cheating?
              you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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              • Kre8t0r
                Confirmed User
                • Jan 2003
                • 1304

                #57
                Hmmmm does it count if your "future wife" tells the guy arranging the bachelor party to quote "Get him fucking laid!"?

                If so them yes I'm guilty....

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                • [ Nate ]
                  Confirmed User
                  • Mar 2007
                  • 1468

                  #58
                  Ok...so my best friend is getting married and i'm responsible for the party. I call my brother and say, ' hey dude, Bryans getting married and I'm throwing the party.' He says, 'cool, do you want hookers, or dancers or what?' I say, 'both, lets make it a good one!'
                  Scene fades to the night of the party... Everyone that was there got laid by the hookers that came, with the exception of myself ( I had a woman at the time) and my friend (was getting married at the time). Everybody else had girlfriends or was married also, but didn't give a shit.
                  In retrospect.... If I had the chance again, I would FOR SURE get in on the action, but it was still a great time!
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                  • jeffrey
                    Confirmed User
                    • Jul 2004
                    • 1864

                    #59
                    Originally posted by bausch
                    Don't you think I kind of have a point though? These are all reasons why some people might prefer hookers over easy one night stands/free sex. I think because of these factors which I listed above people might still prefer whores over free sex.

                    Your still talking a much smaller percentile then you think.
                    I live in a city of just over a million, at 10% using hookers thats 100,000 people have had sex with 800 registered hookers/escorts.
                    So maybe what even 2000 total hookers/escorts.

                    Thats alot of people using hookers. I would say the real number is 5% or less use hookers.
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                    • bausch
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                      • Jul 2006
                      • 3017

                      #60
                      Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                      I'm not sure what you are getting at but yes you do. Do you want me to go through your posts and pull out ones from the past few months alone that are on the topic of men cheating?
                      No, don't. People will think I'm neurotic and I'll have to come back with a new nick.

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                      • rowan
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                        • Mar 2002
                        • 17393

                        #61
                        Originally posted by bausch
                        No, don't. People will think I'm neurotic and I'll have to come back with a new nick.

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                        • badmunchkin
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                          • Feb 2003
                          • 3797

                          #62
                          Originally posted by bausch
                          You're funny, you said I talk about the same thing over and over again Do I really?????????
                          yea, you are constantly talking about guys having sex with hookers - you have OCD on this topic - I think you said in an earlier post your boyfriend had sex with hookers - so now you have generalized everyone with a penis as wanting to have sex with hookers.

                          I don't have the slightest interest in having sex with a hooker - not that I'm in any way holier then thou - the idea just makes me throw up in my mouth a little bit - every hooker I've ever seen is pretty gross. I think you should let go of the shit you've been through in your past, move on & try not to stereotype all men as being the same 'cuz we're not

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                          • Sly
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                            • Sep 2004
                            • 31377

                            #63
                            Originally posted by bausch
                            You're funny, you said I talk about the same thing over and over again Do I really?????????
                            Yes, you do, haha.

                            Its either hookers or your "friend" that causes you so much trouble.
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                            • bushwacker
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                              • Jun 2002
                              • 2817

                              #64
                              Originally posted by bausch
                              No, don't. People will think I'm neurotic and I'll have to come back with a new nick.

                              you shop at trader jacks.

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                              • bausch
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                                • Jul 2006
                                • 3017

                                #65
                                Originally posted by Sly
                                Yes, you do, haha.

                                Its either hookers or your "friend" that causes you so much trouble.
                                What "friend" are you talking about it? I don't remember saying anything about this. Just give me hints so I can remember but don't post links to old/threads topics. Thanks.

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                                • bausch
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                                  • Jul 2006
                                  • 3017

                                  #66
                                  Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                                  I'm not sure what you are getting at but yes you do. Do you want me to go through your posts and pull out ones from the past few months alone that are on the topic of men cheating?
                                  I just mean that sometimes I'm not aware of talking about it so much. I mean, yes, I am aware I talk about it, but not to the point where other people can actually remember. I guess I am oblivious to how often I talk about it.

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                                  • bausch
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                                    • Jul 2006
                                    • 3017

                                    #67
                                    Originally posted by bushwacker
                                    you shop at trader jacks.
                                    Trader Joe's.

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                                    • bausch
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                                      • Jul 2006
                                      • 3017

                                      #68
                                      Originally posted by [ Nate ]
                                      Everyone that was there got laid by the hookers that came, with the exception of myself ( I had a woman at the time) and my friend (was getting married at the time). Everybody else had girlfriends or was married also, but didn't give a shit.
                                      In retrospect.... If I had the chance again, I would FOR SURE get in on the action, but it was still a great time!
                                      Yea, this is what I'm curious about. I wish there was a scientific study done with concrete numbers about how often this happens. I would be very interested to know the results, cause a few people in this thread have already said they also engaged in similar behavior.

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                                      • Sly
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                                        • Sep 2004
                                        • 31377

                                        #69
                                        Originally posted by bausch
                                        What "friend" are you talking about it? I don't remember saying anything about this. Just give me hints so I can remember but don't post links to old/threads topics. Thanks.
                                        The hard drives. The spitting incident. The money situation.
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                                        • bausch
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                                          • Jul 2006
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                                          #70
                                          Originally posted by Sly
                                          The hard drives. The spitting incident. The money situation.
                                          Oh yes. I recall now.

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                                          • badmunchkin
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                                            • Feb 2003
                                            • 3797

                                            #71
                                            Originally posted by bausch
                                            Yea, this is what I'm curious about. I wish there was a scientific study done with concrete numbers about how often this happens. I would be very interested to know the results, cause a few people in this thread have already said they also engaged in similar behavior.
                                            yes, completely ignore all the posts from guys who say they're not into fucking hookers at all and go back to obsessing based on one guy who validates what you've already convinced yourself to believe anyways - that's the way to go

                                            more "having sex with hookers questions" threads coming our way soon!!!

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                                            • bausch
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                                              • Jul 2006
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                                              #72
                                              Originally posted by badmunchkin
                                              yes, completely ignore all the posts from guys who say they're not into fucking hookers at all and go back to obsessing based on one guy who validates what you've already convinced yourself to believe anyways - that's the way to go

                                              more "having sex with hookers questions" threads coming our way soon!!!
                                              Ok, I went back and tallied up all the answers and divided it between "yes" and "no's"

                                              For guys who said stuff like "Yes, I went to a strip club and it turned into a gangbang" I counted that as ONE yes vote, because I don't know how many people there were etc

                                              Plus I also counted in people who said they had a friend who fucked a whore at their bachelor party as one vote per poster...

                                              I only counted no's when the guys specifically stated no. When they just argued that it doesn't happen as much as I think, but if they didn't specify that they themselves never participated in, I wasn't able to count it.

                                              So then I got 5 definite "yes's" and 6 definite "no's"

                                              So, it's almost 50/50, it's not just ONE person that is validating what I think, as you say. It's half/half so far.
                                              Last edited by bausch; 04-02-2007, 06:16 PM.

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