every human being craves variety - self-imposed morality is what prevents us from acting on our urges - the only way to live honestly is in an open relationship - there is no cheating - there is no need to cheat - the whole cheating concept comes from the Christian morality system which is based around guilt. If you are not a conservative Christian, the whole idea of monogamy and being with one person for the rest of your life is ludicrous.
And personally I like a wild girl who has been promiscous in her past but I'm a freak like that
I am the most non-christian peson ever, it has nothing to do with morals!!!!!
It has to do with insecurity and jealousy. If a person had a lot of partners I will feel like I have to "live up" to the others in their past and wonder if I am attractive and good enough. If their partners were "better" than me it will haunt me. It will make me feel like I'm not good enough, and I have to constantly have the BURDEN of living up to the other people in their past. What if they were better than me? better in bed than me? better looking than me? made more money than me??
I will always wonder what their partners look like, if they were more attractive than me. etc etc
It has NOTHING to do with morality.
I am just a jealous person. I like to be the best. Plus it has to do with jealousy of someone's past...
It's hard to explain. I am actually very anti-christian....
It has to do with my ego!! It's all about ME, and how I feel, it has nothing to do with morality.
every human being craves variety - self-imposed morality is what prevents us from acting on our urges - the only way to live honestly is in an open relationship - there is no cheating - there is no need to cheat - the whole cheating concept comes from the Christian morality system which is based around guilt. If you are not a conservative Christian, the whole idea of monogamy and being with one person for the rest of your life is ludicrous.
And personally I like a wild girl who has been promiscous in her past but I'm a freak like that
Also, if someone had many partners I feel like I always have to live up to something. It makes me feel unworthy, like if their partners were better looking than me it will make me wonder why that person is even with me...
It has NOTHING to do with morals, it's about how I feel about myself...
If they had less partners I feel like I don't have to compete and outdo so many people. It's more like starting with a "blank slate" and I was the only one so I was the best... If they had a lot of partners I will just be the next one... just another number...
Did you read what i wrote? It has nothing to do with christianity or morals. I am anti christian and don't have good morals at all! it has to do with me!
I am the most non-christian peson ever, it has nothing to do with morals!!!!!
It has to do with insecurity and jealousy. If a person had a lot of partners I will feel like I have to "live up" to the others in their past and wonder if I am attractive and good enough. If their partners were "better" than me it will haunt me. It will make me feel like I'm not good enough, and I have to constantly have the BURDEN of living up to the other people in their past. What if they were better than me? better in bed than me? better looking than me? made more money than me??
I will always wonder what their partners look like, if they were more attractive than me. etc etc
It has NOTHING to do with morality.
I am just a jealous person. I like to be the best. Plus it has to do with jealousy of someone's past...
It's hard to explain. I am actually very anti-christian....
It has to do with my ego!! It's all about ME, and how I feel, it has nothing to do with morality.
jealousy is just a weakness based on insecurity - if you're not insecure about yourself there's no need to be jealous of anyone - I used to be jealous & it's hard to get over, but it's not a factor in my life anymore
Did you read what i wrote? It has nothing to do with christianity or morals. I am anti christian and don't have good morals at all! it has to do with me!
yes I read what you wrote - I was responding to TurboAngel, not to you. Like I just said, you need to look within yourself and find out why you are insecure and feel the need to be jealous. If you are happy within yourself, you cannot be jealous of any other human being.
jealousy is just a weakness based on insecurity - if you're not insecure about yourself there's no need to be jealous of anyone - I used to be jealous & it's hard to get over, but it's not a factor in my life anymore
Of course I have to be insecure, it's a very competitive world out there.
Sorry to say, but my insecurity will probably never change and based on that I prefer someone with less partners because it makes me less neurotic.
I would really worry a lot if they had lots of partners since I already am so insecure.
It's already bad enough to have to compete with people AROUND you in the world, let alone compete with people from someone's past.
And I will never be happy with myself either.
Even if I was secure I would probably still get cheated on because there is always better than me out there, so it doesn't make a difference either way!
Of course I have to be insecure, it's a very competitive world out there.
Sorry to say, but my insecurity will probably never change and based on that I prefer someone with less partners because it makes me less neurotic.
I would really worry a lot if they had lots of partners since I already am so insecure.
It's already bad enough to have to compete with people AROUND you in the world, let alone compete with people from someone's past.
And I will never be happy with myself either.
Even if I was secure I would probably still get cheated on because there is always better than me out there, so it doesn't make a difference either way!
sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy - don't make blanket statements - they become mission statements and color your entire view of the world and how you see yourself in it - try looking at things from completely the opposite perspective for awhile - it might help
sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy - don't make blanket statements - they become mission statements and color your entire view of the world and how you see yourself in it - try looking at things from completely the opposite perspective for awhile - it might help
I also don't like open relationships because I don't even like "other people", I only like myself and whoever I'm with. I am not sociable so I don't want to socialize with strangers let alone have sex with them. Again, it's not morality, just a personal preference.
I HATE it when people assume its about morals just because I don't want someone who had lots of partners. It has nothing to do with that at all!!
Sorry for ruinig your thread TurboAngel, but I use gfy to vent my frustrations in life, it's therapy.
Have you ever fucked a hooker in your life? If so how many?
Have you ever cheated? If so how many times?
Are you abusive? Do you steal from your girlfriends? Live off your girlfriends? Mooch off your girlfriends?
How many sex partners have you had in your entire life?
Do you lie?
Damn ... I will go to hell then
P.s: Just Kidding im not that bad , never cheated on a girl before. Hokkers ... Hell yeah , I was single though.
Steal ... hell no. My girlfriends lived off me , well most of them. Im not the king of guy that likes to be involved for a long time , I think its psycological , Im to affraid of commitment. Many bad experiences.
You might be a good guy but not a good guy in terms of a relationship.
Nothing is worse than someone who cheats. Sometimes I think it's better to remain alone and die alone rather than risk the chance of being cheated on. It's probably one of the worst things you can do to a person.
If you were too honest for your own good you wouldn't cheat. You say you are in a relationship. When you are cheating on her, aren't you also lying?
Keeping important matters from your significant other which they have a right to know is also a sort of lying. Omissions are also lies.
If you cheat and you keep this from her, then it's a lie and makes you dishonest.
Originally posted by bausch
I don't have a moral compass, I'm not a moral person at all. I barely even have a conscience when it comes to a lot of things. I could care less if someone wants to gangbang or fuck 1000 partners.
You contradict yourself
Originally posted by badmunchkin
every human being craves variety - self-imposed morality is what prevents us from acting on our urges - the only way to live honestly is in an open relationship - there is no cheating - there is no need to cheat - the whole cheating concept comes from the Christian morality system which is based around guilt. If you are not a conservative Christian, the whole idea of monogamy and being with one person for the rest of your life is ludicrous.
And personally I like a wild girl who has been promiscous in her past but I'm a freak like that
No, but the way she's going, that's exactly what's going to happen.
From her violently mood swings, to her hard drug binges, to her repeated suicide attempts, I question why I am with her till this day.
Ann isn't even a webmaster, she just posts on her because she's bored and has nothing to do except watch tv (she doesn't have to get a job, thanks to me) and she knows of the board because of me. She can't do much more than surf, post, and copy & paste.
I see she started this thread yesterday, which was one of her bad days. She's been fine today and I am sure she regrets making this thread now. That's how she is, like day and night, one day she's ok, the next I could be dealing with the Exorcist. Usually the two weeks after she gets her period she's bad, but the two weeks before, she's worse.
By all means if any of you guys want this ticking timebomb, feel free.
No, but the way she's going, that's exactly what's going to happen.
From her violently mood swings, to her hard drug binges, to her repeated suicide attempts, I question why I am with her till this day.
Ann isn't even a webmaster, she just posts on her because she's bored and has nothing to do except watch tv (she doesn't have to get a job, thanks to me) and she knows of the board because of me. She can't do much more than surf, post, and copy & paste.
I see she started this thread yesterday, which was one of her bad days. She's been fine today and I am sure she regrets making this thread now. That's how she is, like day and night, one day she's ok, the next I could be dealing with the Exorcist. Usually the two weeks after she gets her period she's bad, but the two weeks before, she's worse.
By all means if any of you guys want this ticking timebomb, feel free.
Sounds like it might be best to just give her the RV and part ways.
"WTF, on google you can find the answer to every question in human history, EXCEPT how to convert cams..
No, but the way she's going, that's exactly what's going to happen.
From her violently mood swings, to her hard drug binges, to her repeated suicide attempts, I question why I am with her till this day.
Ann isn't even a webmaster, she just posts on her because she's bored and has nothing to do except watch tv (she doesn't have to get a job, thanks to me) and she knows of the board because of me. She can't do much more than surf, post, and copy & paste.
I see she started this thread yesterday, which was one of her bad days. She's been fine today and I am sure she regrets making this thread now. That's how she is, like day and night, one day she's ok, the next I could be dealing with the Exorcist. Usually the two weeks after she gets her period she's bad, but the two weeks before, she's worse.
By all means if any of you guys want this ticking timebomb, feel free.
Wow, that's so nice of you to post all of her personal problems on a public forum.. All the guys are gonna be lining up for her now!!!!
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