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Originally Posted by badmunchkin
jealousy is just a weakness based on insecurity - if you're not insecure about yourself there's no need to be jealous of anyone - I used to be jealous & it's hard to get over, but it's not a factor in my life anymore  |
Of course I have to be insecure, it's a very competitive world out there.
Sorry to say, but my insecurity will probably never change and based on that I prefer someone with less partners because it makes me less neurotic.
I would really worry a lot if they had lots of partners since I already am so insecure.
It's already bad enough to have to compete with people AROUND you in the world, let alone compete with people from someone's past.
And I will never be happy with myself either.
Even if I was secure I would probably still get cheated on because there is always better than me out there, so it doesn't make a difference either way!