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Originally Posted by badmunchkin
every human being craves variety - self-imposed morality is what prevents us from acting on our urges - the only way to live honestly is in an open relationship - there is no cheating - there is no need to cheat - the whole cheating concept comes from the Christian morality system which is based around guilt. If you are not a conservative Christian, the whole idea of monogamy and being with one person for the rest of your life is ludicrous.
And personally I like a wild girl who has been promiscous in her past but I'm a freak like that  |
Also, if someone had many partners I feel like I always have to live up to something. It makes me feel unworthy, like if their partners were better looking than me it will make me wonder why that person is even with me...
It has NOTHING to do with morals, it's about how I feel about myself...
If they had less partners I feel like I don't have to compete and outdo so many people. It's more like starting with a "blank slate" and I was the only one so I was the best... If they had a lot of partners I will just be the next one... just another number...