Have you ever thought about giving up the industry for a girlfriend/boyfriend??

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  • fatal attraction
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    • Feb 2003
    • 6522

    #1

    Have you ever thought about giving up the industry for a girlfriend/boyfriend??

    I was just having this discussion with my boyfriend, have you ever thought about leaving the industry because of a girlfriend/boyfriend????
  • MrIzzz
    If u touch it, I will cum
    • Sep 2003
    • 22923

    #2
    nope, however if i did make a large sum of money in this industry i would use it to invets in a much stabler business, seeing that so many adult businesses only flourish for a several year time span


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    • WiredGuy
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      • Aug 2002
      • 34515

      #3
      I wouldn't leave the business but I'd consider reducing my attendance at shows if that bothered her.
      WG
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      • Rictor
        Old Timer
        • Jan 2001
        • 12208

        #4
        I did once around 1997. Lasted about a year. Big mistake, I lost tens of thousands of dollars and had to start over from scratch when I got back in.

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        • fatal attraction
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          • Feb 2003
          • 6522

          #5
          Originally posted by WiredGuy
          I wouldn't leave the business but I'd consider reducing my attendance at shows if that bothered her.
          WG
          I didn't think I would either, until the last few days! I'm ready to walk away forever, and not give a shit! I'm happier then I think I've ever been! And he doesn't even really like porn!

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          • Pornopat
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            • Dec 2003
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            #6
            Only if it would lead me in to temptation....
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            • TDF
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              • Mar 2002
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              #7
              lol..hell to the no
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              • fatal attraction
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                • Feb 2003
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                #8
                Oops, forgot to add Charles.....talking about a Dec. wedding, you'll be invited for sure! And noooooooo everyone is asking me, he is NOT in our industry at all!!!!

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                • butterflybucks
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                  • Sep 2005
                  • 1422

                  #9
                  I love my work, and will maintain that attitude through any relationship
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                  • Barefootsies
                    Choice is an Illusion
                    • Feb 2005
                    • 42635

                    #10
                    Nah.

                    If I left it would because I wanted to. Anyone who knows me on a personal level knows it's part of the package deal. So it's either take it, or accept it. Or they can move on.

                    I do not talk about it with friends or family unless they ask. So unlike some others in the industry I do not use it as a tool to be cool, or prance around like it's a badge of honor.

                    Same as I would not date a stripper because of their occupation, I would not expect someone with a problem for what I do as a career to date me. Simple, and fair. If they do not like it, there are other fish in the sea.

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                    • fatal attraction
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                      • Feb 2003
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by butterflybucks
                      I love my work, and will maintain that attitude through any relationship
                      ummm, ok. That's what I said for 4 years!

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                      • JeffsDesigns
                        Registered User
                        • Sep 2005
                        • 81

                        #12
                        Yes..I did..for about a year.
                        Been in the business for 10 years, sold out on my sites and left Netpond, where I worked. I got into doing mainstream websites for some of the largest companies in the midwest..but got tired of the corporate bs and came back.
                        I should have never left.
                        I lost tons of clients, I did designs for.
                        Some of them are the biggest names in adult.
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                        • Stacey_JoinRightNow
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                          • Feb 2005
                          • 6269

                          #13
                          Noh...

                          If only the love I felt is enough to give up... I think not! If he respects and understands me, he will also accept everything I have and everything I do,...

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                          • kaori
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                            • Apr 2005
                            • 1569

                            #14
                            nope, I'd never give it up.. maybe if I was talent...

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                            • XX_RydeR
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                              • Jun 2004
                              • 2151

                              #15
                              I have considerd it, but dont think i could go through with it.
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                              • Marie
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                                • May 2003
                                • 3024

                                #16
                                I would never leave the industry for anyone except for myself. If people don't accept that part of me, they don't accept me.

                                Anyway, I almost never had a problem with it. The few people that told me they didn't appreciate what I do for a living... I laughed them right in the face.

                                Being a girl and living in the netherlands may make my situation a whole lot easier than some of you, though.
                                Last edited by Marie; 09-25-2005, 11:58 PM.
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                                • JeffsDesigns
                                  Registered User
                                  • Sep 2005
                                  • 81

                                  #17
                                  I wouldn't give it up unless you are prepared to give it up totally.
                                  The only reason, I cam back is because, many know me and done business with me.
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                                  • fatal attraction
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                                    • Feb 2003
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Barefootsies
                                    Nah.

                                    If I left it would because I wanted to. Anyone who knows me on a personal level knows it's part of the package deal. So it's either take it, or accept it. Or they can move on.

                                    I do not talk about it with friends or family unless they ask. So unlike some others in the industry I do not use it as a tool to be cool, or prance around like it's a badge of honor.

                                    Same as I would not date a stripper because of their occupation, I would not expect someone with a problem for what I do as a career to date me. Simple, and fair. If they do not like it, there are other fish in the sea.

                                    I agree with this to a point....my boyfriend has not asked me to quit the industry! He is very much in the public eye. And it's my decision! He even offered to retire, but he'd be miserable not jumping off buildings on fire and jumping out of planes and all the crazy stuff he does! He says we can make both work, but I know there is no way!

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                                    • WiredGuy
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                                      • Aug 2002
                                      • 34515

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by fatal attraction
                                      Oops, forgot to add Charles.....talking about a Dec. wedding, you'll be invited for sure! And noooooooo everyone is asking me, he is NOT in our industry at all!!!!

                                      You're getting married?!
                                      WG
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                                      • bikinihouse
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                                        • Feb 2002
                                        • 843

                                        #20
                                        I'm not in the adult industry, but I'd definitely leave any industry for someone I really care for.

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                                        • fatal attraction
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                                          • Feb 2003
                                          • 6522

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Maria M.
                                          I would never leave the industry for anyone except for myself. If people don't accept that part of me, they don't accept me.

                                          Anyway, I almost never had a problem with it. The few people that told me they didn't appreciate what I do for a living... I laughed them right in the face.

                                          Being a girl and living in the netherlands may make my situation a whole lot easier than some of you, though.
                                          Hey Maria! I hope you'll come to our wedding

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                                          • fatal attraction
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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                            You're getting married?!
                                            WG
                                            Soon!!!!!!!

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                                            • WiredGuy
                                              Pounding Googlebot
                                              • Aug 2002
                                              • 34515

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by fatal attraction
                                              Soon!!!!!!!
                                              I didn't even realize you were dating anyone, well, congrats.
                                              WG
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                                              • Marie
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                                                • May 2003
                                                • 3024

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by fatal attraction
                                                Hey Maria! I hope you'll come to our wedding
                                                Only if Charles is coming

                                                I'd be honored!!

                                                What the hell happened on the way home from amsterdam Lori??
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                                                • WiredGuy
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                                                  • Aug 2002
                                                  • 34515

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by Maria M.
                                                  Only if Charles is coming

                                                  I'd be honored!!

                                                  What the hell happened on the way home from amsterdam Lori??
                                                  Deal Maria! You can be my date
                                                  WG
                                                  I play with Google.

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                                                  • Dalai lama
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                                                    • Jul 2004
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                                                    #26
                                                    No, Never will either.

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                                                    • fatal attraction
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                                                      • Feb 2003
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                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                                      I didn't even realize you were dating anyone, well, congrats.
                                                      WG
                                                      Thanks!!!!!!!!! I'm really happy! He's totally amazing!

                                                      hahahaha! You guys are awesome! He won't want many from the industry at our wedding, but you 2, I really want there!!!! Once your there, you'll understand why!

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                                                      • NickB.
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                                                        • Aug 2001
                                                        • 8865

                                                        #28
                                                        I would never leave the industry unless the industry destroys itself heheheh

                                                        Congrats lori!

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                                                        • Ace-wtf
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                                                          • Jun 2005
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                                                          #29
                                                          not really

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                                                          • Marie
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                                                            • May 2003
                                                            • 3024

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                                            Deal Maria! You can be my date
                                                            WG
                                                            Deal!!
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                                                            • AmeliaG
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                                                              • Jan 2003
                                                              • 10667

                                                              #31
                                                              Glad you are happy, girl.

                                                              I think the answer depends on what the reasons for leaving would be i.e. does he want you to come join him at his business or does he want you to spend your time globetrotting with him in his yacht or does he not trust you or is he hung up about sex or etc.
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                                                              • V_RocKs
                                                                Damn Right I Kiss Ass!
                                                                • Nov 2003
                                                                • 32451

                                                                #32
                                                                My girlfriend gave me a bunch of shit about the business...

                                                                I gave her the door...

                                                                She thought it was the right move...

                                                                Eventually she ran out of money... seems the lifestyle I put her in wasn't sustainable on her income...

                                                                She came back...

                                                                She went to a show and met all of the nice "business" people I work with...

                                                                She changed her toon and thought about joining a company in the office... (she does various shit like Quickbooks...)

                                                                Now she sucks my dick like a pornstar!

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                                                                • fatal attraction
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                                                                  • Feb 2003
                                                                  • 6522

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by nickbaauw
                                                                  I would never leave the industry unless the industry destroys itself heheheh

                                                                  Congrats lori!
                                                                  Damn Nick Prepare your mom and brother, for a trip to California in Dec. He's got a huge house, I'll tell him we'll have a few more guests! We have 6 guest rooms, they can stay with us!!!!

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                                                                  • DutchTeenCash
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                                                                    • Feb 2003
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    nope get someone who understands

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                                                                    • $$$
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                                                                      • Jul 2005
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by thinkx
                                                                      nope get someone who understands
                                                                      yeah, you need a partner with an open mind anyway. the porn biz should be intruiging to them if they're cool and down to earth. am i right?
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                                                                      • justsexxx
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                                                                        • Aug 2001
                                                                        • 13723

                                                                        #36
                                                                        I won't. Better date a girl/man from the industry ;-)
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                                                                        • Paul Markham
                                                                          Too old to care
                                                                          • Jun 2001
                                                                          • 52942

                                                                          #37
                                                                          I married my second wife while I was doing this job part time. She told me it was no porn or no her.

                                                                          I'm on my third wife now, who's in the studio shooting this lovely.





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                                                                          • fatal attraction
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by AmeliaG
                                                                            Glad you are happy, girl.

                                                                            I think the answer depends on what the reasons for leaving would be i.e. does he want you to come join him at his business or does he want you to spend your time globetrotting with him in his yacht or does he not trust you or is he hung up about sex or etc.
                                                                            Hey Amelia!!!!! He told me we would work it out, I didn't have to quit. But I know that's not possible, he's too much in the public eye. He gets paid alot to make others look good. and he's just so damn cute doing it! hehehehe!

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                                                                            • Rui
                                                                              web
                                                                              • Dec 2001
                                                                              • 9533

                                                                              #39
                                                                              No way...she would have to accept it, I would agree to be "lower profile" tho

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                                                                              • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                Now with more Jayne
                                                                                • Dec 2002
                                                                                • 40077

                                                                                #40
                                                                                No because anyone that had any real issues with me being in this industry wouldn't be the right person for me anyway.

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                                                                                • fatal attraction
                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                  • Feb 2003
                                                                                  • 6522

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  When I started this thread, I don't think I really made it clear. He's not asking me to quit, but it might interfer with his career.....I'd rather jump off buildings with him them have him submit galleries with me!

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                                                                                  • Violetta
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                                                                                    • Jul 2004
                                                                                    • 28735

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    my gf wants me out, but heck no. I love these money
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                                                                                    • you are dumb
                                                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                                                      • Sep 2005
                                                                                      • 79

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      if the being in the "industry" means sucking cocks on camera and taking it in the ass - i'd have never entered it in the first place.

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                                                                                      • Marshal
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                                                                                        • Jun 2005
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        i actually know someone who gave up all because of the gf... ;)
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                                                                                        • HorseShit
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                                                                                          • Dec 2004
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by Paul Markham

                                                                                          I love her

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                                                                                          • afx
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                                                                                            • Apr 2003
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            I wouldn't go out with someone that isn't open-minded to accept it as a normal business.
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                                                                                            • Cirrus
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                                                                                              • Feb 2002
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Yes I would
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                                                                                              • Pete-KT
                                                                                                Workin With The Devil
                                                                                                • Oct 2004
                                                                                                • 51532

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Nope never would if she cant trust me enough to let me do my job then she doesnt deserve me

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