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  • TurboAngel
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    • Jun 2003
    • 30122
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    Have you had to deal with a suicide?

    I had another friend commit suicide. I'm sick about it and not sure how to deal with it, this is the 3rd person I have known to suicide. I don't get it at all. Have you ever had to deal with a suicide? I hope this is the last one I have to deal with.


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    • karlm
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      • Jun 2004
      • 4194
      #2
      My dads best mate commited suicide that was a hard time
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        • pawsregd
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          • Jun 2005
          • 2290
          #3
          That sucks, sorry to hear about that

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            • Gungadin
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              • Aug 2005
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              #4
              Go talk to someone about it
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                • amateurcanada
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                  • Jul 2001
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                  #5
                  Thats aweful. They chose not to live, its unfortunate but we all have that ultimate choice. Its not easy to deal with and I am no exception.

                  I wish you well.

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                    • Ace-wtf
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                      • Jun 2005
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                      #6
                      try and get it out
                      with a professional.

                      it will help

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                        • Huge Cock
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                          • Sep 2005
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                          #7
                          I have had to deal with a few suicides during the duration of my lifetime as well. It is unfortunate that people take the "easy" way out. It is a selfish act usually brought on by severe depression. If it is hard to cope with I suggest you go to some couseling sessions to deal with your pain. Good luck in your edeavors
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                            • kosta
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                              • Mar 2002
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                              #8
                              Originally posted by TurboAngel
                              I had another friend commit suicide. I'm sick about it and not sure how to deal with it, this is the 3rd person I have known to suicide. I don't get it at all.
                              You bring death and misery to everyone you get in touch with.

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                                • TurboAngel
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                                  • Jun 2003
                                  • 30122
                                  #9
                                  Originally posted by kosta
                                  You bring death and misery to everyone you get in touch with.
                                  Now that nice to say.

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                                    • Huge Cock
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                                      • Sep 2005
                                      • 68
                                      #10
                                      Originally posted by kosta
                                      You bring death and misery to everyone you get in touch with.
                                      That was mean and uncalled for
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                                        • sherie
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                                          • Feb 2002
                                          • 7020
                                          #11
                                          Originally posted by kosta
                                          You bring death and misery to everyone you get in touch with.
                                          You are an idiot. That was totally uncalled for.

                                          Sorry to hear about your loss. Perhaps talking to a professional about it will help you out. Good luck.
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                                            • TurboAngel
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                                              • Jun 2003
                                              • 30122
                                              #12
                                              Thanks Sherie, it's sad the trolls around here.

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                                                • [CG]
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                                                  • Apr 2005
                                                  • 306
                                                  #13
                                                  I did, a couple years back. A family friend has 3 kids. Justin (the eldest son/middle kid Age 13) was very hyper, active etc... his mom (single mom but dad stayed involved) didn't neglect any of the kids & actually spoiled them allot. Mom works, eldest child (daughter) was in one of the higher grades in HS so she hung out with friends after school etc... They came home late one night, Justin wasnt there, they figured he was out playing with friends etc... when mom went to the washroom she found justin had hunh himself. He & his girlfriend had got into a fight & he didn't know how to deal with it.
                                                  Very sad & no one would have ever expected it. The kid could get crazy sometimes but he was always a good kid for the most part (all kids get into a little trouble)
                                                  Ceremoney was great since the mom was activley involved with the school etc, the whole school went, (he had changed schools since he moved) & even almost the whole previous school came out, teachers etc...
                                                  He'll always be missed.

                                                  Dont understand why he would do that though
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                                                    • dynastoned
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                                                      • Feb 2005
                                                      • 5061
                                                      #14
                                                      yeah had a friend just last november hang herself over some piece of shit guy. sucks but what can you do?

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                                                        • LauraLee
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                                                          • Sep 2003
                                                          • 3821
                                                          #15
                                                          I am sorry to hear this TurboAngel I have dealt with suicide as well. One of my very dearest friends took their own life on July 6th. As you know, nothing can prepare you for that phone call. The feeling of complete helplessness and guilt quickly manifested. Naturally i also felt anger at my friend for taking the selfish way out.
                                                          I am still dealing with alot of these emotions, and for me it's a daily process. Very cliche, but getting these feelings out and off your chest is mega important.
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                                                            • Furious_Male
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                                                              • Oct 2003
                                                              • 16884
                                                              #16
                                                              No but I have faced plenty of death the past 2 months.

                                                              You have my condolences. Don't be afraid to seek advise from a professional if needed.
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                                                                  • Jul 2005
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                                                                    • Peaches
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                                                                      • Oct 2002
                                                                      • 13933
                                                                      #18
                                                                      My son in March of this year.

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                                                                        • LiveDose
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                                                                          • Feb 2002
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                                                                          #19
                                                                          I have had to & my wife has had to. It leaves you feeling empty inside and terrible about the torment that person must have been going through to actually do it.

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                                                                            • TurboAngel
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                                                                              • Jun 2003
                                                                              • 30122
                                                                              #20
                                                                              Originally posted by Peaches
                                                                              My son in March of this year.
                                                                              I'm so sorry to hear that and all the others.




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                                                                                • DonX
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                                                                                  • Apr 2004
                                                                                  • 1917
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Sorry about that, I had a friend of mine that I grew up with and partied with him for years. Then one do he committed suicide. Knowone know's why, he just did. I can feel what your going through, once again sorry to hear that. Sorry to everyone else that has had the same thing happen to someone they love or care about.
                                                                                  Keep your head up, peace
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                                                                                    • EroticySteve
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                                                                                      • Mar 2005
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                                                                                      I had a friend who tried in high school but he was discovered before he died. He used a pool hose from his tailpipe to fill his car with exhaust. Someone came home early and found him before he died.
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                                                                                        • eroswebmaster
                                                                                          March 1st, 2003
                                                                                          • Jul 2001
                                                                                          • 20295
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          My mother took her own life.
                                                                                          My best friend for 20+ years now is in real bad shape, mentally due to drugs etc.

                                                                                          He showed up unannounced last week and I had to explain to hiim the hole my mother's death left in this family because he was thinking about doing the same thing.
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                                                                                            • Rinaldo
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                                                                                              • Sep 2003
                                                                                              • 5086
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              Originally posted by TurboAngel
                                                                                              I had another friend commit suicide. I'm sick about it and not sure how to deal with it, this is the 3rd person I have known to suicide. I don't get it at all. Have you ever had to deal with a suicide? I hope this is the last one I have to deal with.



                                                                                              2, I dated one of them and that one hurts to this day.

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                                                                                                • adonthenet
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                                                                                                  • Feb 2005
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                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  ohh damn thats not easy to deal with at all.. hope you the best.

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                                                                                                    • Cyndalie
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                                                                                                      • Jan 2002
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                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      I have dealt with 3 as well. Some family, some were good friends.
                                                                                                      There is no rationalizing it. It's horrible to go through and guilt gets passed around emotionally. Only thing you can do is try to live life better, refuse to make the same awful mistake, and keep an eye out for the signs in others you love.
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                                                                                                        • Damian_Maxcash
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                                                                                                          • Oct 2002
                                                                                                          • 12745
                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          Ignore Kosta - Hes like NoFX without the class.

                                                                                                          Try and see a positive - suicide is a selfish act, but its not one that is carried out lightly.

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                                                                                                            • tranza
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                                                                                                              • Jun 2003
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                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              man, i'm sorry to hear that...this is really a huge problem
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                                                                                                                • iwantchixx
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                                                                                                                  • Oct 2002
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                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  I must say I am lucky to have never had to deal with suicides yet but I know, eventually, somewhere, someone I know will and I think it will be my mother. I don't look forward to it.

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                                                                                                                    • Nancy M00re
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                                                                                                                      • Nov 2003
                                                                                                                      • 2308
                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      I am very sorry to hear that TurboAngel.
                                                                                                                      The father of my two sons commited suicide 2 years ago.
                                                                                                                      I can't beleive he did that to our kids.

                                                                                                                      We will leave with it for the rest our lives. He was very sick and depressed and he tried everything to get out of this, but doctors kept on giving him medications that was making him worst.

                                                                                                                      It's not easy and it never will... Hang in there.
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                                                                                                                        • TurboAngel
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                                                                                                                          • Jun 2003
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                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          Thank you all so much.


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                                                                                                                            • Sosa
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                                                                                                                              • Oct 2002
                                                                                                                              • 40149
                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              damn, sorry for the loss.

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                                                                                                                                  • Jan 2003
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                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  I havent had to deal with it yet, but a friends grandfather committed suicide and i know it had an effect on him.

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                                                                                                                                    • panchodog's izzy
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                                                                                                                                      • Apr 2004
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                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      All losses are hard to deal with. Professional help is the best way to go, and just feeling that you need help to cope with it is the best sign to seek out somebody to help out. It'll do you a world of good, I'm sure. Your friend had to be going through a lot of pain to make a choice like that one, and one has to accept that for some people, it just gets too hard, sadly. It's not something "selfish", it's not something somebody does in an attempt to be "selfish". It's very easy to see the shore when you're on firm land, much different when you're the one drowning. Take care, okay?
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                                                                                                                                        • loverboy
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                                                                                                                                          • May 2003
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                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          one of my cousin committed suiced but their family never really opened the real
                                                                                                                                          story why he took his own life. RIP Jeff

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