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02-28-2007, 11:21 AM

I go to this one store in my town alot and i keep getting this cute cashier to ring me up and we talk every time i checkout. I even dropped a lame joke and she laughed Anyway since i knew where she worked and i know half the world uses myspace i decided to look her up on there by the search. She has a page. If i contact her through there do you think that's creepy,stalking or lame?

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02-28-2007, 11:27 AM

I think that if you simply contact her, it's none of those.

However, depending on the way you express yourself to her, I guess it could be all three.

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02-28-2007, 11:45 AM

Go for it and the best of luck!

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02-28-2007, 12:15 PM

Dude, you already know where she works, she chats with you and she even laughed at your lame joke... your practically "in". just walk in the store and ask her out. be the

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02-28-2007, 12:17 PM

if you contact her once its not stalking
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02-28-2007, 12:21 PM

if you hit her on myspace she's either freak the shit out and call the cops on yer ass or think it's cool depending on how old she is.

Don't be a pussy. Catch her at work and ask her out to dinner. Doing shit via myspace is like asking your buddy to pass some chick a note in study hall ;)
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02-28-2007, 12:23 PM

go in the store and ask for her number. if i was a girl i would be creeped out if someone did that.

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02-28-2007, 12:26 PM

Tough call, but if you do go the MySpace route, my unsolicited advice is to say that you really and truly randomly found her though ___ (invent connection) instead of saying that you looked her up. Just my
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02-28-2007, 12:27 PM

It depends, if she laughs at your jokes b/c she thinks your funny and likes you its definitely not stalking or any of the above.

If she is giving you a nervous laugh b/c you make her fell uncomfortable than that is lame and you may be entering the "some creepy dude is stalking me" territory.

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02-28-2007, 12:27 PM

i aint doin it lol and hell no im not asking her out in the store. Yeah let me do that with a line of people behind me and embarress her in front of her co workers right............ I never asked a girl out at her job.

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02-28-2007, 12:31 PM

Originally posted by eddie-executive

i aint doin it lol and hell no im not asking her out in the store. Yeah let me do that with a line of people behind me and embarress her in front of her co workers right............ I never asked a girl out at her job.

do it at her work. chicks love that shit. Shows that you "like" enough to let everyone know it and she'll feel "special" or some shit like that.
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02-28-2007, 12:32 PM

Originally posted by PornExcellenceAlison

Tough call, but if you do go the MySpace route, my unsolicited advice is to say that you really and truly randomly found her though ___ (invent connection) instead of saying that you looked her up. Just my

i agree with this. don't say that you sought her out or anything. ;)

if i weren't already spoken for, i wouldn't find it creepy or stalkerish if someone that i had random encounters with, ended up finding me on myspace. as long as the message that you write doesn't say anything over the line.. just friendly and casual.. and you should be fine.

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02-28-2007, 12:45 PM

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i agree with this. don't say that you sought her out or anything. ;)

if i weren't already spoken for, i wouldn't find it creepy or stalkerish if someone that i had random encounters with, ended up finding me on myspace. as long as the message that you write doesn't say anything over the line.. just friendly and casual.. and you should be fine.

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I cant say i randomly found her, her myspace says another town thats 30 miles away. All i did was type the store name in the search of where she works and she came up.

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02-28-2007, 01:55 PM

Does she know your name? If she knows your name, and says "Hi, -name-" when you come in. Also, How often do you go in there, and how often have you talked with her? If you're a big regular and most of the staff knows ya, and you've been goin for months. You MIGHT be ok.

Or you could just ask for her number...
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02-28-2007, 02:09 PM

Hell yeah it is stalking. You have seen some women you like but are to afaird to ask her to go for a cup of coffee or a drink some time so you sit at home and hunt her down on the internet. IHMO that is 100% stalking leave the poor girl alone it is just to freaky.
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02-28-2007, 02:11 PM

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Hell yeah it is stalking. You have seen some women you like but are to afaird to ask her to go for a cup of coffee or a drink some time so you sit at home and hunt her down on the internet. IHMO that is 100% stalking leave the poor girl alone it is just to freaky.

yep thats all i did all day was hunt her down on the internet lol

i typed one thing in the search on myspace and boom there she was lot of stalking

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02-28-2007, 04:39 PM

i think there's nothing wrong by calling her...just be friendly...i think that's not what she think about you..at least you have reason for coming on their store..stalking is when you keep on coming back on that store without buying anything and just to see her...

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02-28-2007, 04:42 PM

Good luck man.

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02-28-2007, 04:43 PM

The fact that you even made a thread about it is creppy.

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02-28-2007, 04:44 PM

Tell me the store she works at and I'll go in and ask her.

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02-28-2007, 04:57 PM

Originally posted by eddie-executive

yep thats all i did all day was hunt her down on the internet lol

i typed one thing in the search on myspace and boom there she was lot of stalking

Why did you type anything in the first place? you must of been trying to gain information about her without her knowledge. Do you really think a women would be flattered if you went up to her and said I know you know nothing about you but I know where you live, your interests and other stuff about you or a little freaked out. The fact you seem to think it is normal to start checking someone out at Myspace (or anywhere else) rather than just asking if she would like to grab a coffee sometime, says to me you need to think seriously about seeking professional help before it is to late. Way freaky dude leave the poor girl alone. I am sure if she is not already dating someone else will ask her to grab a coffee one day soon
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02-28-2007, 05:13 PM

Originally posted by NGU

Why did you type anything in the first place? you must of been trying to gain information about her without her knowledge. Do you really think a women would be flattered if you went up to her and said I know you know nothing about you but I know where you live, your interests and other stuff about you or a little freaked out. The fact you seem to think it is normal to start checking someone out at Myspace (or anywhere else) rather than just asking if she would like to grab a coffee sometime, says to me you need to think seriously about seeking professional help before it is to late. Way freaky dude leave the poor girl alone. I am sure if she is not already dating someone else will ask her to grab a coffee one day soon

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02-28-2007, 05:31 PM

why would you hit her up on Myspace when you can talk to her in person? It falls more under the category of chicken shit than stalker.
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02-28-2007, 05:53 PM

Fuck no! People are on My Space to be seen and be found.

My space is the definition of "look at me, be my friend, contact me, post your thoughts, do you think I'm cool ? Please accept me!"

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02-28-2007, 06:08 PM

Fuck myspace man go talk face to face

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02-28-2007, 06:15 PM

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02-28-2007, 06:20 PM

next time you are in there, bring up myspace into the conversation somehow (easy) and ask her if she uses it, then its 80% less creepy when you go and add her.

I refuse to use myspace or facebook, people honestly waste half their lives on that shit.
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02-28-2007, 06:24 PM

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02-28-2007, 06:30 PM

Just got done talkin to her she was cool with it gonna talk more tommorow.

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02-28-2007, 08:24 PM

Originally posted by Pipecrew

next time you are in there, bring up myspace into the conversation somehow (easy) and ask her if she uses it, then its 80% less creepy when you go and add her.

I refuse to use myspace or facebook, people honestly waste half their lives on that shit.

I was going to say something similar.

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02-28-2007, 08:36 PM

talk to her personally man... go for it.. and good luck..

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