Who do I trust to send me paid traffic / free traffic etc??

I've been a webmaster since 95, but I'm basically a new adult webmaster. I've been playing around with adult sites on and off for years but always get discouraged at the end, and end up nuking the site never devoting myself to it 100%.

This time around, I'm not giving up so easily.

I have a lesbian TGP (mostly lesbian) that I'm happy with. I was told in the past to develop a niche site that gets you excited, and interested because it will reflect in your design and visitors will notice it. So that's what I did.

Anyway, I have the site, I'm averaging 1000 visitors a day, and I'm ready to take it to the next level....more traffic, more traffic, more traffic. You know that old saying "traffic = money".

Everyone out there is "guaranteeing" quality adult traffic.

Who the fuck do I trust?

I want to swap hard links with webmasters, I want to buy some traffic, so many cheaters out there it makes it hard for a webmaster like me to decide who's being honest, and who's a cheatin', stealin' scam artist.

Thanks....