ok, i get a plague in the mail today from this outfit that told me they were associated with AVN - called 'in the news' - they sent me a plack of some sort featuring my AVN article - ok - wierd - but they mailed it with the term "SleazyDream" all over the fucking package. ALL OVER IT. They also sent me 3 letters with the same on them in the last month.
I have a descrete office in a small town with a few office workers - one of my employees had to sign for the package. She has another part time job on the weekends and this delivery outfit also delivers there. The guy made fun of her at her other job, So she quit on me. And you know what, I don't blaim her. I'd be pissed too. It' s small town I do my best to keep the office discrete but sending packages to my with "SleazyDream" all over them shows a total lack of respect and accountability.
I'm VERY PISSED OFF. THAT WAS NOT COOL. It shows a total lack of respect and very little intelligence.
Who the fuck are these assholes that claim to be associated with you? Personally if they are and they SAY they are - I'd be severing that tie real quick cause they don't have a FUCKING BRAIN IN THEIR HEADS. If they are a branch of AVN - then I'm pretty fucking pissed at you guys right now.
Get over it, you are not only a pornographer, but you make yourself a very public figure. I learned this long long ago. With the good, comes the bad.
I understand your point of view Scott, as I get it from my g/f all the time. The reality is that if you work for a porn company, you face the risk of people finding that out.
Mail ends up in the wrong mail box and that neighbor opens it. So you're found out even if the envelop didn't have porn stamped all over it. The risk we all take and the risk all employees take is that people will find out.
My opinion is don't be stupid and apply for a biz license and put type of work = porn on the application. There are landlords that will rent to you even if you are in porn. yep, some won't. I've had a law firm turn my business away when they found out where some of my income came from. Fuck 'em. Like they never looked at porn o don't every day.
I think it would be better if we all stood taller and are proud of what we do. The spammers and scammers of the business don't help. BUT name a business that doesn't have cheaters.
We can't change what happened in this thread and I am truly sorry you lost an employee etc. even though I give ya shit most of the time.
Maybe an office in the city.... Good luck on the recovery.
I understand your point of view Scott, as I get it from my g/f all the time. The reality is that if you work for a porn company, you face the risk of people finding that out.
Mail ends up in the wrong mail box and that neighbor opens it. So you're found out even if the envelop didn't have porn stamped all over it. The risk we all take and the risk all employees take is that people will find out.
My opinion is don't be stupid and apply for a biz license and put type of work = porn on the application. There are landlords that will rent to you even if you are in porn. yep, some won't. I've had a law firm turn my business away when they found out where some of my income came from. Fuck 'em. Like they never looked at porn o don't every day.
I think it would be better if we all stood taller and are proud of what we do. The spammers and scammers of the business don't help. BUT name a business that doesn't have cheaters.
We can't change what happened in this thread and I am truly sorry you lost an employee etc. even though I give ya shit most of the time.
Maybe an office in the city.... Good luck on the recovery.
i own the building.
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i suppose assuming some BASIC intelligence and respect from a major company in this biz is a bit much to ask for - esp since 6+ years doing this that's the first time it happened to me.......
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You've done well, you can rent the whole thing out and still have an office in the city. There is the hassle of management for sure. I don't have any magic words that is gonna make this all better.
Still, I don't think you should be overly pissed at AVN. They're big, they can defend themselves of course.
i suppose assuming some BASIC intelligence and respect from a major company in this biz is a bit much to ask for - esp since 6+ years doing this that's the first time it happened to me.......
keep acting like the total asshole you do, and unfortunate things happen, boo hoo
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This goes to show you that maybe coming up with idiotic "porn" related "screen names" and "nicks" isn't such a good idea...
I've always thought it was stupid for people to be indentified by some of these absolutely moronic screen names that they thought would be SO cool and L33t....
I go by Kristin, which is my real name, but not many know my last name. I think my employer and a couple of close friends. I've never used my last name in an article, on my badge and never plan to. I know some that do and I don't get it. With kids, going for my masters and people just liking to google names, I care to not use it.
I'm with ya on this one Sleazy, sucks, I know what it's like to be born and raised in a small town. Hell, if you sneeze, everyone knows about it.
This goes to show you that maybe coming up with idiotic "porn" related "screen names" and "nicks" isn't such a good idea...
I've always thought it was stupid for people to be indentified by some of these absolutely moronic screen names that they thought would be SO cool and L33t....
Grow up.
;)
J.
What's wrong with pussyluver? I like pussy. Plus I have a site with a similar name. Maybe there is some branding goin on. Like SleazyDream owns SleazyDream.com
You've done well, you can rent the whole thing out and still have an office in the city. There is the hassle of management for sure. I don't have any magic words that is gonna make this all better.
Still, I don't think you should be overly pissed at AVN. They're big, they can defend themselves of course.
i don't give a Flying fuck how big a company is. I show the people I work with respect and i expect the same min basic level of respect back.
I don't know how this company is associated with AVN - they said they were associated with them - and that makes AVN look bad and I'd like some clarity as to just how they are related cause when someone trades on your name and they FUCK UP this badly you wana know about it.
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With kids, going for my masters and people just liking to google names, I care to not use it.
This is a good point. A couple weeks back I found out my younger brother was running Google searches on me. Luckily everything adult is under my company name (which he doesn't know) and my mainstream stuff is under my name.
That is one bag of worms I do not want open.
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i suppose assuming some BASIC intelligence and respect from a major company in this biz is a bit much to ask for - esp since 6+ years doing this that's the first time it happened to me.......
I don't do this often, but Sleazy I agree with you 100%. And I am very sorry for the loss of your employee. It's one thing for us to bang our fists on our chests and scream to the world we are in porn, but it's another for someone to scream it for us.
I'm sure the AVN spin machine is coming up with something to send poor Aly here with. One would guess an apoligy, knowing that you will not tear her up out of the very respect they do not seem to show you and most others in our industry.
Out of general principal I would not let it die. But I'm sure you are a much better man than I.
"We are told to let our light shine, and if it does, we won't need to tell anybody it does. Lighthouses don't fire cannons to call attention to their shining- they just shine."
This goes to show you that maybe coming up with idiotic "porn" related "screen names" and "nicks" isn't such a good idea...
I've always thought it was stupid for people to be indentified by some of these absolutely moronic screen names that they thought would be SO cool and L33t....
Grow up.
;)
J.
are you a complete moron? sleazydream.com is my site name - i use sleazydream on gfy so people know my business.
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What's wrong with pussyluver? I like pussy. Plus I have a site with a similar name. Maybe there is some branding goin on. Like SleazyDream owns SleazyDream.com
Well apparently he's "ashamed" of owning SleazyDream.com...at least ashamed to rest of the world, not the sheep here...
i don't give a Flying fuck how big a company is. I show the people I work with respect and i expect the same min basic level of respect back.
I don't know how this company is associated with AVN - they said they were associated with them - and that makes AVN look bad and I'd like some clarity as to just how they are related cause when someone trades on your name and they FUCK UP this badly you wana know about it.
I hear ya sorta, but that's between you and them. All I'm saying is you're in the biz and you run the risk. Sounds like AVN will be getting a phone call.
Cant remember witch magazine it is, but I get two copies of it. One with my name on it, and the other with the aff name on it. Housewivescash. And that is after asking the company not to send that copy anymore.
The mail lady asked me about it one day, and I told her it is a new retirment system geared towards housewives.
are you a complete moron? sleazydream.com is my site name - i use sleazydream on gfy so people know my business.
So the industry knows you as SleazyDream, and a business in this industry, which knows you as "SleazyDream", sent you some shit with the name they know you as, that name being SleazyDream...and you're pissed?
Cant remember witch magazine it is, but I get two copies of it. One with my name on it, and the other with the aff name on it. Housewivescash. And that is after asking the company not to send that copy anymore.
The mail lady asked me about it one day, and I told her it is a new retirment system geared towards housewives.
So the industry knows you as SleazyDream, and a business in this industry, which knows you as "SleazyDream", sent you some shit with the name they know you as, that name being SleazyDream...and you're pissed?
What did you expect?
;)
J.
ahhhh, ok, i see now. you are infact a complete and TOTAL moron.
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So the industry knows you as SleazyDream, and a business in this industry, which knows you as "SleazyDream", sent you some shit with the name they know you as, that name being SleazyDream...and you're pissed?
What did you expect?
;)
J.
If you were known as "DouchebagCumSlinger" would you like shit sent to ya with that on it?
The mail lady asked me about it one day, and I told her it is a new retirment system geared towards housewives.
Nice!
Seriously, though, there's a reason that companies have "corporate" names. This would be it.
Now, I've never once been ashamed to tell people about my tattoo. And I'm more than sure that there's been a few visits to sleazydream.com because of it. I'm glad. But that poor lady didn't deserve to be made fun of because of the fact that Scott is a pornographer.
AVN, or any company for that matter, doesn't need to broadcast urls, screennames or anything remotely related to porn "all over" the outside of a package. In some places, that can get people in more trouble than just having employees quit.
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So the industry knows you as SleazyDream, and a business in this industry, which knows you as "SleazyDream", sent you some shit with the name they know you as, that name being SleazyDream...and you're pissed?
What did you expect?
;)
J.
John has a point. Just calling him names isn't gonna help. Getting down to what should be expected is more relevant. You have a point of view with some merit??? Rather read you argue that.
John has a point. Just calling him names isn't gonna help. Getting down to what should be expected is more relevant. You have a point of view with some merit??? Rather read you argue that.
post you address pussy lover - and you're parents address. we;ll send you some material to your place and to your parents place with your PERSONAL NAME ON IT and PUSSYLOVER all over it by 2 or three different diferent curriors and see if you like it.
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If you were known as "DouchebagCumSlinger" would you like shit sent to ya with that on it?
If I thought that anything would ever be sent to me via postal service, I wouldn't choose a screen name like that in the first place.
All I'm saying is that choosing a screen name that could end up biting you in the ass in the mainstream world in some way or fashion (like getting mail with that name on it) might not be the best idea.
Like the banks don't know who web power or nasty dollars is by now.
And there are a few banks that will not knowingly accept checks from porn companies.
And again I know people like to fuck with Sleazy, but damn learn to read.
He is not ashamed of SleazyDream however it puts his office girl in a spot when the mailman ( the husband of her second grade daughters teacher) shows up at her work place with a package plastered with SLEAZYDREAM all over it.
Again for the simple minded. If you want to bang your fist on your chest and tell the world you work in porn God bless you, But most of us would not like someone else telling the world for us.
"We are told to let our light shine, and if it does, we won't need to tell anybody it does. Lighthouses don't fire cannons to call attention to their shining- they just shine."
If I thought that anything would ever be sent to me via postal service, I wouldn't choose a screen name like that in the first place.
All I'm saying is that choosing a screen name that could end up biting you in the ass in the mainstream world in some way or fashion (like getting mail with that name on it) might not be the best idea.
You make your bed, you lie in it.
;)
J.
ok, so addressing mail to you that says your name and also says "a loyal surfer of analizer man whores in tights" on the package is ok cause you looked at that website once?
dude - use your fucking brain if you have one. everyone deserves a little small level of privacy and respect in their life.
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post you address pussy lover - and you're parents address. we;ll send you some material to your place and to your parents place with your PERSONAL NAME ON IT and PUSSYLOVER all over it by 2 or three different diferent curriors and see if you like it.
Too late, it's been done amny times. My parents aren't alive.
Wife number 2 sent some stuff to my sister that was unkind. She didn't include 2257 info either. My Bother-inlaw wants more...
If you feel the urge, do a whois lookup and send me somthing. A check would be nice. I'd even give ya a hard link.
I'm not trying to pick on ya Sleazy. Just trying to work out an understanding with thread readers to be more accepting of the biz they are in and that people are gonna find out.
i'm not embarased at all about my site. I do protect the identity of my emoloyees though - they live in a small town and don't need to have people pointing fingers at them. i live in the city - couldn't give a fuck about myself and what people think of me. But this isn't about me - it's about outing one of my behind the scenes people due to SHEAR stupidty and total lack of respect and a complete lack of any intelligence what so ever.
I think that is awesome that you are so considerate of your employees! Most people would never even think of it that way.
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Too late, it's been done amny times. My parents aren't alive.
Wife number 2 sent some stuff to my sister that was unkind. She didn't include 2257 info either. My Bother-inlaw wants more...
If you feel the urge, do a whois lookup and send me somthing. A check would be nice. I'd even give ya a hard link.
I'm not trying to pick on ya Sleazy. Just trying to work out an understanding with thread readers to be more accepting of the biz they are in and that people are gonna find out.
it's about choosing your path or having one thrust upon you is all.
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Ah Sleazy... I don't know what's gotten into you lately, maybe all the pink in Florida. But I've started to see how you are, and I have to say I am starting to like you. Now I think I see a sliver of why Jman likes you so.
Hug time... sorry for the mean stuff I've said about you.
And there are a few banks that will not knowingly accept checks from porn companies.
And again I know people like to fuck with Sleazy, but damn learn to read.
He is not ashamed of SleazyDream however it puts his office girl in a spot when the mailman ( the husband of her second grade daughters teacher) shows up at her work place with a package plastered with SLEAZYDREAM all over it.
Again for the simple minded. If you want to bang your fist on your chest and tell the world you work in porn God bless you, But most of us would not like someone else telling the world for us.
Lucky for me, the bank has not questioned my deposits, but you are right about some not accepting deposits. I say fuck them, some other bank will be happy with handling the $$.
I'm not trying to fuck with Sleazy in this thread. Yep I enjoy the sport. But this one is serious.
If you're to ashamed to admit you're in the biz, then maybe you shouldn't be.
Ah Sleazy... I don't know what's gotten into you lately, maybe all the pink in Florida. But I've started to see how you are, and I have to say I am starting to like you. Now I think I see a sliver of why Jman likes you so.
Hug time... sorry for the mean stuff I've said about you.
do you swallow?
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ok, so addressing mail to you that says your name and also says "a loyal surfer of analizer man whores in tights" on the package is ok cause you looked at that website once?
dude - use your fucking brain if you have one. everyone deserves a little small level of privacy and respect in their life.
The simple logic of accepting responibility for your own actions is obviously lost on you...
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