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  • baddog
    So Fucking Banned
    • Apr 2001
    • 107089

    #1

    The rewards of parenting

    Every once in a while, your kids tell you something that makes it obvious that they have been paying attention. Tonight, was one of those times.

    My daughter and I went out for dinner, and during the course of conversation she reminded me of something that had happened back when she was going to UC Davis.

    She had become friends with some guy, then he introduced her to this girl he has started dating, and she became friends with the girl. The guy and girl ended up breaking up, and things got weird in the relationship with the guy. Thing is, he had a couple of books that belonged to my daughter, and while she really wanted the books back, she did not want to approach him.

    I asked her how much the books would cost to replace, and she said it was minor amount (under $20). I told her that if she could get out of a weird relationship for under $20, it was a helluva deal, and she should be glad to get off so easy. She agreed, and went on her merry way.

    Well, apparently one of her girlfriends is going thru a breakup with her boyfriend, and the boyfriend has one of the girl's DVDs.

    My daughter asked her if the DVD cost less than $20. It did. My daughter then told her, what I had passed along to her several years ago. "You got out for under $20. Consider yourself lucky."

    We were laughing about it, but inside, it made me glad to know that my kids were paying attention, and passing along these pearls of wisdom to their friends.

    Like she said, "even if that was the only thing I ever learned, it was a pretty valuable piece of advice."
  • Sly
    Let's do some business!
    • Sep 2004
    • 31380

    #2
    Heh. I used that same exact philosophy on somebody the other day. Sometimes $20 is worth finding out who you can trust and who you can't.
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    • baddog
      So Fucking Banned
      • Apr 2001
      • 107089

      #3
      Originally posted by Sly
      Heh. I used that same exact philosophy on somebody the other day. Sometimes $20 is worth finding out who you can trust and who you can't.

      Sometimes? $20 is always worth learning that.

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      • Sly
        Let's do some business!
        • Sep 2004
        • 31380

        #4
        I loaned a guy some money last Christmas who was into some rough times, had a family and a new baby. I have been friends with this guy for 4 years. I didn't think anything of it. I've probably talked to him twice since, neither time has he mentioned the money.

        I don't really care about the money, but it does suck losing someone you thought was a friend.
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        • eroswebmaster
          March 1st, 2003
          • Jul 2001
          • 20295

          #5
          Originally posted by Sly
          Heh. I used that same exact philosophy on somebody the other day. Sometimes $20 is worth finding out who you can trust and who you can't.
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          • Loryn
            Super Connector
            • Jul 2003
            • 12853

            #6
            I just can't wait to go out to dinner with you again!

            BTW Good job baby!

            I'll hit you up tomorrow about the other thing we have been talking about. I haven't forgetten about it!
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            • Ice
              Confirmed User
              • Nov 2002
              • 26053

              #7
              Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
              I just can't wait to go out to dinner with you again!

              BTW Good job baby!

              I'll hit you up tomorrow about the other thing we have been talking about. I haven't forgetten about it!

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              • Donny
                As you wish...
                • May 2002
                • 13754

                #8
                I'm sure this made you feel very warm, fuzzy and proud inside.

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                • chase
                  Confirmed User
                  • Jul 2004
                  • 6019

                  #9
                  hmmm, maybe when my kids are older I'll get nice feedback like that. All I get now is my 3yo saying "this little piggy went to Wal-mart" and I didn't even teach her that.
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                  • baddog
                    So Fucking Banned
                    • Apr 2001
                    • 107089

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                    I just can't wait to go out to dinner with you again!

                    BTW Good job baby!

                    I'll hit you up tomorrow about the other thing we have been talking about. I haven't forgetten about it!

                    Cajun next time?

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                    • CherryLipsRosa
                      Confirmed User
                      • Mar 2004
                      • 3603

                      #11
                      Wow that is a wise thing to say. Sometimes we need to look at the positive side of things.
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                      • baddog
                        So Fucking Banned
                        • Apr 2001
                        • 107089

                        #12
                        Originally posted by laracash
                        Wow that is a wise thing to say. Sometimes we need to look at the positive side of things.

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                        • PixeLs
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                          • Jul 2005
                          • 11922

                          #13
                          Open communication is a perfect tool for healthy relationship. Glad you have it in your family.

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                          • Deej
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                            • Jun 2005
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                            #14
                            i cant believe it...UC Davis being a huge college town....and no titty bar.....when i was there two years ago anyway.....i looked...asked....searched...none to be found/.....shame....

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                            • baddog
                              So Fucking Banned
                              • Apr 2001
                              • 107089

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Deej
                              i cant believe it...UC Davis being a huge college town....and no titty bar.....when i was there two years ago anyway.....i looked...asked....searched...none to be found/.....shame....

                              Kudos baddog

                              I think the only thing huge about Davis is bicycles

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                              • tristan_D
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                                • Jul 2005
                                • 7865

                                #16
                                I am starting to wonder what kind of things I get to hear from my kid when he becomes a teen
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                                • SexyScribe
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                                  • Oct 2003
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                                  #17
                                  Well done, baddog. Good advice!

                                  $20 is quite cheap for any lesson learned, IMO.
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                                  • baddog
                                    So Fucking Banned
                                    • Apr 2001
                                    • 107089

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by tristan_D
                                    I am starting to wonder what kind of things I get to hear from my kid when he becomes a teen

                                    What is more important is what you tell them.

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                                    • baddog
                                      So Fucking Banned
                                      • Apr 2001
                                      • 107089

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by SexyScribe
                                      Well done, baddog. Good advice!

                                      $20 is quite cheap for any lesson learned, IMO.

                                      I think on a college student's budget $20 can seem like a lot sometimes, but in the long run it it only 20 Top Ramen dinners.

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                                      • je_rome
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Jul 2005
                                        • 6846

                                        #20
                                        good advice.. well, it is really overwhelming to know your kids pick up good pieces of advices from you..

                                        every parent has good pieces of advice in their mind.. but just not all have the talent to effectively instill them in their children's minds.
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                                        • emthree
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                                          • Jun 2003
                                          • 10816

                                          #21
                                          While you have a point...
                                          That same $20dollars could of been a resolution point

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                                          • baddog
                                            So Fucking Banned
                                            • Apr 2001
                                            • 107089

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by emthree
                                            While you have a point...
                                            That same $20dollars could of been a resolution point

                                            A resolution point? How so?

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                                            • baddog
                                              So Fucking Banned
                                              • Apr 2001
                                              • 107089

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by je_rome
                                              every parent has good pieces of advice in their mind.. but just not all have the talent to effectively instill them in their children's minds.

                                              That is where the skills come in to play.

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                                              • reed_4
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Jul 2005
                                                • 9640

                                                #24
                                                you planted a good seed in the mind of your daughter and you are just reaping it. she would carry that in her life and that sure is a very rewarding on your part as a parent. congrats!

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