When you're 15 drugs are *extra* bad, m'kay?

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  • Cheshire
    Confirmed User
    • Jul 2001
    • 5738

    #1

    When you're 15 drugs are *extra* bad, m'kay?

    I gotta have a chat with my 15 year old brother tonight about drugs. This will be the second one, as a few months after the first he was rushed to the emergency room having been found by his best friend passed out on the floor of his dorm room choking on his own vomit.

    He's too young to start drinking or smoking pot like he is. I know he's just rebelling against authority and wanting to experience altered states of conciousness, but he's my baby brother. I still remember vividly the day he was born and I held him for the first time, I prayed for a baby brother and my prayer had been answered.
    I love him more than life itself, and I don't want to lose him, physically or emotionally.

    What do I tell him? What can I do?

    Does anyone have some real ideas, thoughts, experiences, or phrases to share with me?


    just a little bit naughty
  • asuna
    Confirmed User
    • May 2002
    • 8743

    #2
    bring him for a walk tru the ghetto, or other 'bad' parts of the city (not alone) and let him see what drugs do when they control you..

    Or make him watch maury

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    • SleazyDream
      I'm here for SPORT
      • Jul 2001
      • 41470

      #3
      there isn't much you can do but love him for who he is. If he wants to self destruct there's really nothing you can do to stop it.
      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

      Now read without the word dog.

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      • JamesK
        hi
        • Jun 2002
        • 16731

        #4
        give him examples of people fuckin their life that way
        - or -
        if that doesnt work, go smoke a LOT of pot with him so he gets a black out. sounds hard, but its the only way to let him stop. once he had a black out he wont think its fun to smoke pot anymore. trust me.
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        • Fletch XXX
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          • Jan 2002
          • 60840

          #5
          Smoking pot doesnt make you vomit or fall out on the floor.

          ;)

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          • BJ
            Confirmed User
            • Mar 2002
            • 5590

            #6
            Originally posted by Fletch XXX
            Smoking pot doesnt make you vomit or fall out on the floor.

            ;)
            heavily drinking and smoking pot can

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            • marcu5
              Confirmed User
              • Oct 2002
              • 1485

              #7
              whatever you do, just hope he doesnt find out about rave, also, i also I agree with smoking him out so heavy that he gets a bad trip on thc, it'll scare him away from it.. for a few weeks
              Last edited by marcu5; 12-16-2002, 10:01 AM.

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              • asuna
                Confirmed User
                • May 2002
                • 8743

                #8
                Originally posted by marcu5
                whatever you do, just hope he doesnt find out about raves lol

                thats true

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                • ADL Colin
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                  • Feb 2001
                  • 11929

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Cheshire

                  Does anyone have some real ideas, thoughts, experiences, or phrases to share with me?
                  Yeah, take him to one NA meeting and have him listen to the horror stories of people who have lost control.


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                  • ADL Colin
                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                    • Feb 2001
                    • 11929

                    #10
                    Originally posted by marcu5
                    whatever you do, just hope he doesnt find out about rave, also, i also I agree with smoking him out so heavy that he gets a bad trip on thc, it'll scare him away from it.. for a few weeks
                    Young cute slutty fucked up girls? Every 15 year old guy's nightmare. That'll definitely be the end of him .. or is it the beginning?


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                    • Cheshire
                      Confirmed User
                      • Jul 2001
                      • 5738

                      #11
                      I have tonight, then he's off to New Zealand in the morning and back to boarding school on the East Coast hours after returning in January.


                      just a little bit naughty

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                      • eRock
                        Confirmed User
                        • Apr 2001
                        • 3112

                        #12
                        Cheshire...if you're serious I'd be happy to talk to you about it. I've been sober for about 13 months now & I had a drug/drinking habit the size of Texas...and a few other states for well over 10 years & started about his same age, so I can relate. I'm totally paying for it now, so I can at least try to give ya some good suggestions on how to talk to him from a non-authoritive POV.

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                        • asuna
                          Confirmed User
                          • May 2002
                          • 8743

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Colin


                          Yeah, take him to one NA meeting and have him listen to the horror stories of people who have lost control.
                          how bout my post? isnt my idea more like 'real life'?
                          those guys WANT to get their shit together, their getting better, seeing it in real life as it happens is totally different, ever see bangbus?

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                          • eRock
                            Confirmed User
                            • Apr 2001
                            • 3112

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Colin


                            Yeah, take him to one NA meeting and have him listen to the horror stories of people who have lost control.
                            That won't work unless he's ready to stop. Trust me.
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                            • winter
                              Confirmed User
                              • May 2001
                              • 570

                              #15
                              Make the kid watch the movie Requiem for a Dream.... might change his attitude about drugs.

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