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07-30-2005, 05:38 AM

I watched/listened to it, the whole thing. Kind of made me think, I had lots of differences with my mom when I was 16 and therafter. I'm 30 now and I'm still not on good terms with her, because of a similar (while not as bad) temper to that of the woman in the vid. I know she's good and she's always wanted me and my sister to do well, but sometimes she just hurt my feelings so bad I never wanted to see her again. This vid kind of put things into a new perspective for me and I'm trying to understand why she was always frustrated and would snap easily. That thing was food for thought for me and made me decide that I should try reconciliate with my mother, after all, she's the only one I got and may not be around for a whole lot longer...

Any of you in a similar situation? Thoughts?

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07-30-2005, 05:45 AM

OMG there is a human on this board..
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07-30-2005, 05:51 AM

Reconcile while you've got the chance. I saw that vid last week and while it was amusing in its own warped way, I'd give my right arm to even have a mom to yell at me like that. My dad was actually a lot like that crazy mother, but he included violence as an added bonus. After 10 years of silence, I finally reconciled with him. It's hard to forget the past, but it's nice having a parent again.
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07-30-2005, 05:54 AM

dud are you still in town ?

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07-30-2005, 05:55 AM

Originally posted by darksoul

dud are you still in town ?

Yeah. Wanna go for a beer in a couple of hours?

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07-30-2005, 05:56 AM

my dad use to do the same thing. fuck him, he can rot in hell. my mom is so cool. it boggles my mind how she ended up with that doosh.

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07-30-2005, 05:57 AM

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Yeah. Wanna go for a beer in a couple of hours?

if its cold heck yea.
the heat its killing me

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07-30-2005, 05:59 AM

I understand why the woman is crazy. Her kid is in a room full of electronics, recording her without her knowing, and refusing to let her use the car or borrow $50. If my parents ever asked me for money at that age I might be upset but it was never going to be a no answer after they paid for my ass for 16 years. She was stressed, he is a dumbass. I really hope he carries his ass so he can learn what the real world is all about.

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07-30-2005, 06:01 AM

amazing how you all can defend that lady, She's clearly lost it.
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07-30-2005, 06:02 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

amazing how you all can defend that lady, She's clearly lost it.

Sounds like a typical teen response.

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07-30-2005, 06:03 AM

Originally posted by darksoul

if its cold heck yea.
the heat its killing me

I'll give you a call in about an hour. The heat is killing me too.

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07-30-2005, 06:04 AM

Originally posted by chadglni

Sounds like a typical teen response.

I was just going to say the same thing. Seems some the ones siding with the "poor kid" are probably his age
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07-30-2005, 06:04 AM

Originally posted by chadglni

Sounds like a typical teen response.

more like someone whos been on the other end of the stick. Abusive parents suck
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07-30-2005, 06:05 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

amazing how you all can defend that lady, She's clearly lost it.

Not saying she didn't. My mom kind of lost it too, on a couple of occasions. I'm just trying to look for the cause behind that and trying to see it from her standpoint.

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07-30-2005, 06:06 AM

You guys are really fucked up, the lady is verablly abusing this kid yet you all say its his fault? lol get real no one should be spoken to that way. If you really think thats acceptable you need to get out of the trailer park.
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07-30-2005, 06:07 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

more like someone whos been on the other end of the stick. Abusive parents suck

Have you ever told you parents they were abusive and they they suck?

might be an enlightening experience for you.
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07-30-2005, 06:08 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

You guys are really fucked up, the lady is verablly abusing this kid yet you all say its his fault? lol get real no one should be spoken to that way. If you really think thats acceptable you need to get out of the trailer park.

Try reading the posts in this thread again. I never said it was his fault and I never said it was acceptable. That was not even the point of my post.

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07-30-2005, 06:12 AM

Originally posted by DamageX

Try reading the posts in this thread again. I never said it was his fault and I never said it was acceptable. That was not even the point of my post.

Sorry guess im blending the two threads.. Ms CuNexTuesday seems to think this lady had every right in the world to act this way, and has no problem referring to her own children as freaks and little assholes.
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07-30-2005, 06:14 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

You guys are really fucked up, the lady is verablly abusing this kid yet you all say its his fault? lol get real no one should be spoken to that way. If you really think thats acceptable you need to get out of the trailer park.

I agree 100%. I recall plenty of times when my mom was this exact same way. I remember it vividly, and it still pisses me off to this day. This is no way to treat your kids unless you want them to hate you.

My mom has cooled her temper now that she's older, I don't think she has the energy to put that much emotion into things anymore. Sure was hell growing up though. Bad memories for sure.
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07-30-2005, 06:21 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

You guys are really fucked up, the lady is verablly abusing this kid yet you all say its his fault? lol get real no one should be spoken to that way. If you really think thats acceptable you need to get out of the trailer park.

I think you are wrong. The kid is videotaping her, first sign of 0 respect. If I remember correctly she is raising him (or them) on her own and trying to get to work. Of course the kid wasn't as big of an asshole as he is normally, he made the video to show his friends. Of course the mom has snapped, her worthless twat of a son who's at the age of knowing everything is giving her shit about getting to work. Me, I wouldn't go off like her but I understand. I'd just walk in the room, unplug his pc, and take that instead of the $50. I'd be willing to bet if you had a videocamera on that house all day instead of an ambush you'd see the little punks true colors and understand.

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07-30-2005, 06:21 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

Sorry guess im blending the two threads.. Ms CuNexTuesday seems to think this lady had every right in the world to act this way, and has no problem referring to her own children as freaks and little assholes.

ok mikey.. you need to read again.. nowhere did I say it was allright..you assume cause that is what you want to think.

My kids would eat you for breakfast son.. then come laugh about it with me...as we called you a freak and an asshole.
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07-30-2005, 06:24 AM

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

ok mikey.. you need to read again.. nowhere did I say it was allright..you assume cause that is what you want to think.

My kids would eat you for breakfast son.. then come laugh about it with me...as we called you a freak and an asshole.

Im glad I don't frequent your trailer park, you and your family sound like real trailer trash.
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07-30-2005, 06:26 AM

Originally posted by chadglni

I think you are wrong. The kid is videotaping her, first sign of 0 respect. If I remember correctly she is raising him (or them) on her own and trying to get to work. Of course the kid wasn't as big of an asshole as he is normally, he made the video to show his friends. Of course the mom has snapped, her worthless twat of a son who's at the age of knowing everything is giving her shit about getting to work. Me, I wouldn't go off like her but I understand. I'd just walk in the room, unplug his pc, and take that instead of the $50. I'd be willing to bet if you had a videocamera on that house all day instead of an ambush you'd see the little punks true colors and understand.

I would agree with you and handle it probablly the same way you described. I just dont think degrading the kid like is that acceptable regardless of what he has done.
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07-30-2005, 06:31 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

Im glad I don't frequent your trailer park, you and your family sound like real trailer trash.

never lived in a trailor.. I was raised in a home.

I even own my own home now..whoa..how about that.

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07-30-2005, 06:37 AM

first of all i don't think parents inherently deserve respect. unfortunately we don't live in a perfect world, IDIOTS undeserving of respect have children all the time. it goes without saying, it is an implied rule, that if you have children you're SUPPOSED to feed them, clothe them, and raise them. I do believe however that kids should obey their parents under most circumstances (assuming the parents aren't clinically insane).

obedience and respect are two completely different things.

there are too many holes in that video to really determine anything, so you idiots need to stop making assumptions about it. perhaps he normally always does obey her but for the sake of record keeping, he wanted to document how insane is mother is on a frequent basis? or maybe he was just antagonizing her for his own amusement? we don't know.
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07-30-2005, 06:48 AM

The woman has no reason... ZERO... to talk to her son like that! Like the white trash she is, she assumes she's superior to him simply because she pushed him out. The kid asked her to ask him nicely. He didn't say, "no", he said, "ask nicely".

That woman needed to humble herself a bit, ask her son nicely, and then thank him for helping her.... just like she would (or should) have done if she was borrowing from you or me.
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07-30-2005, 06:53 AM

Amazing how I bring up words like "reconciliation", "understanding" and the like, and everyone takes sides bashing either the mom or the kid...

Hello!?! Are we adults or what?

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07-30-2005, 07:00 AM

Originally posted by DamageX

Amazing how I bring up words like "reconciliation", "understanding" and the like, and everyone takes sides bashing either the mom or the kid...

Hello!?! Are we adults or what?

Mickey seems to be having flashbacks of when his parents were abusive.
makes me want to reach out and give the little man a hug he so long ago wanted..

and look around.. very few adults on this adult board..its summer..the kiddies are in full force
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07-30-2005, 07:06 AM

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Looks like Juicy's Emu is getting competition... So much for an ADULT webmaster board...

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07-30-2005, 07:09 AM

Originally posted by DamageX

Looks like Juicy's Emu is getting competition... So much for an ADULT webmaster board...

I blew my "adult" wad in post #26.
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07-30-2005, 07:11 AM

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

Mickey seems to be having flashbacks of when his parents were abusive.
makes me want to reach out and give the little man a hug he so long ago wanted..

and look around.. very few adults on this adult board..its summer..the kiddies are in full force

More like you make me sick.

You sell yourself on the net for $$
You refer to your children as "freaks and little assholes"
You encourage abuse / violence

Then you have the nerve to consider yourself a good parent? Get a fucking clue you low life piece of trailer trash.

Btw I'm 28, hardly a kid so give it a rest already.
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07-30-2005, 07:13 AM

Originally posted by DonovanPhillips

I blew my "adult" wad in post #26.

We noticed.

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07-30-2005, 07:13 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

More like you make me sick.

You sell yourself on the net for $$
You refer to your children as "freaks and little assholes"
You encourage abuse / violence

Then you have the nerve to consider yourself a good parent? Get a fucking clue you low life piece of trailer trash.

Btw I'm 28, hardly a kid so give it a rest already.

I agree with you. I think living with that woman would be an utter nightmare.
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07-30-2005, 07:18 AM

Originally posted by MickeyG

More like you make me sick.

You sell yourself on the net for $$
You refer to your children as "freaks and little assholes"
You encourage abuse / violence

Then you have the nerve to consider yourself a good parent? Get a fucking clue you low life piece of trailer trash.

Btw I'm 28, hardly a kid so give it a rest already.

my poor kids.. I feel sorry for them to have to have me as a mom..I think I will just go and kill myself now.. I am sure my kids and husband will rejoice and dance in a circle chanting.."ding dong the bitch is dead, now lets get the insurance money and sell this trailor..we moving uptown daddy"

so what do you do on the web..sell other peoples daughters?

don't squirm too much, that stick might fall out of your ass.

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07-30-2005, 07:25 AM

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

my poor kids.. I feel sorry for them to have to have me as a mom..I think I will just go and kill myself now.. I am sure my kids and husband will rejoice and dance in a circle chanting.."ding dong the bitch is dead, now lets get the insurance money and sell this trailor..we moving uptown daddy"

although I know you're trying to appear sarcastic, I think this is a likely fear in the back of your mind. It's a classic symptom of all abusive parents.
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07-30-2005, 07:30 AM

Originally posted by galleryseek

although I know you're trying to appear sarcastic, I think this is a likely fear in the back of your mind. It's a classic symptom of all abusive parents.

darling, I am so far from abusive its not even funny..If i were..I dont think I would even be in this thread for fear of having some dirty little secret discovered...

Of course since you think I would be a nightmare to live with, I would have to say you would be the step child left at home to do the dishes and clean the house while me and the other kids are out snowboarding, wakeboarding, camping and going on fmaily vacations and having fun...like we always do..

My house is the fun house fo sho... I only wish my parents would have spent time with me and my bros like I do my "freaks"..but they were too busy working their asses off just to keep us fed.
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07-30-2005, 07:41 AM

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

darling, I am so far from abusive its not even funny..If i were..I dont think I would even be in this thread for fear of having some dirty little secret discovered...

Of course since you think I would be a nightmare to live with, I would have to say you would be the step child left at home to do the dishes and clean the house while me and the other kids are out snowboarding, wakeboarding, camping and going on fmaily vacations and having fun...like we always do..

My house is the fun house fo sho... I only wish my parents would have spent time with me and my bros like I do my "freaks"..but they were too busy working their asses off just to keep us fed.

Just the response I was expecting...

In my profession as a psychologist I dealt with hundreds of cases revolving around domestic issues. My observations of you in this thread and prior threads, although limited, tell me you suffer from a depressive disorder, possibly Bipolarism. I recommend seeing a psychologist who can more accurately diagnose your condition and place you on a suitable treatment plan.
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07-30-2005, 07:49 AM

Originally posted by galleryseek

Just the response I was expecting...

In my profession as a psychologist I dealt with hundreds of cases revolving around domestic issues. My observations of you in this thread and prior threads, although limited, tell me you suffer from a depressive disorder, possibly Bipolarism. I recommend seeing a psychologist who can more accurately diagnose your condition and place you on a suitable treatment plan.

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So you really take these boards that serious that you could make a psychological diagnosis on me..wow...Who is the one with issues?

I think I have been too busy living that I havent stopped much to think how depressed I am.. and bipolar too..wow. I would have never known if you didnt point this out to me.

Dude, you are too funny.. Never once have you stepped foot in my home..and I would invite you gladly any day of the year so you can give your diagnosis proper.

So when ya coming to the pacific northwest.. I can cook a mean dish of chicken enchiladas..maybe you could join us on the snowboard trip this year..see some real family interaction maybe.
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07-30-2005, 09:13 AM

Here's what I hope happened after the video:
He showed it to his dad which was enough to convince hime to let the kid come live with him, leaving her broke no car ass in peace with no spoiled son of a bitch to bother her.

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07-30-2005, 09:23 AM

Originally posted by galleryseek

Just the response I was expecting...

In my profession as a psychologist I dealt with hundreds of cases revolving around domestic issues. My observations of you in this thread and prior threads, although limited, tell me you suffer from a depressive disorder, possibly Bipolarism. I recommend seeing a psychologist who can more accurately diagnose your condition and place you on a suitable treatment plan.

And in my profession as a human being I have learned psychologists are some of the most fucked up people in this world.

My observations of psychologists are that they can't seem to fix themselves so in order to avoid the glaring holes in their lives they try to fix others.

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07-30-2005, 09:31 AM

Ok, the kid was a little asshole and I am thinking I would have lost it too, ok maybe not that extent, but I would have gone off.

The thing is this......when did he start recording her? Only after she starting going crazy. She kept saying she did ask nice 10 min ago and he never heard that part, only the part where she went nuts.

Also none of us really know how this kid is on a regular basis. If she is continually having issue with him then at some point she is going to snap.

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07-30-2005, 09:31 AM

Originally posted by eroswebmaster

And in my profession as a human being I have learned psychologists are some of the most fucked up people in this world.

My observations of psychologists are that they can't seem to fix themselves so in order to avoid the glaring holes in their lives they try to fix others.

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07-30-2005, 09:35 AM

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I see you hanging onto a youthfulness that simply doesn't exist within your blood anymore. You need to let go and accept the fact that you're an older man now. Do this and you will live a happier life.

LOL what?

Did you just become retarded or is this an issue you've been dealing with all your life?

If you think attacking my age bothers me think again..try a "new angle" and call me fat.

And apparently you must suck at the diagnosis doc..because you're now slinging porn...

Jesus how bad of a psychologist do you have to be, to be scrounging for porn scraps on GFY?

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07-30-2005, 11:22 AM

Originally posted by eroswebmaster

LOL what?

Did you just become retarded or is this an issue you've been dealing with all your life?

If you think attacking my age bothers me think again..try a "new angle" and call me fat.

And apparently you must suck at the diagnosis doc..because you're now slinging porn...

Jesus how bad of a psychologist do you have to be, to be scrounging for porn scraps on GFY?

Will you be my therapist?..I was told I need one.
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07-30-2005, 11:45 AM

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I watched/listened to it, the whole thing. Kind of made me think, I had lots of differences with my mom when I was 16 and therafter. I'm 30 now and I'm still not on good terms with her, because of a similar (while not as bad) temper to that of the woman in the vid. I know she's good and she's always wanted me and my sister to do well, but sometimes she just hurt my feelings so bad I never wanted to see her again. This vid kind of put things into a new perspective for me and I'm trying to understand why she was always frustrated and would snap easily. That thing was food for thought for me and made me decide that I should try reconciliate with my mother, after all, she's the only one I got and may not be around for a whole lot longer...

Any of you in a similar situation? Thoughts?

While I certainly don't advocate behavior like the lady in the video, as a single parent, I can understand it. Your post doesn't say if your mom was raising you alone, but if she was, you are now old enough to understand some of the pressures she was under. Even if she wasn't single, maybe she had other stuff going on. Hard to tell from your post.

One of the first things you might consider doing is just sitting down and writing her a letter. One that you don't intend to mail. Just vent all that shit out. I know that may sound dumb, but it will help you get clear.

Once you are clear, find out what you would really hope to acheive by a reconciliation. Don't lie to yourself. ;)

After that, if you are comfortable with the answer you've come up with, then try reaching out to her. I'd start with very, very small steps, were it me. That way your emotional investment is smaller.

I wish you best of luck with it. As I get older, I struggle with reconciliation issues, and thus far, have always decided things are best left as they are.

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07-30-2005, 01:19 PM

Originally posted by selena

While I certainly don't advocate behavior like the lady in the video, as a single parent, I can understand it. Your post doesn't say if your mom was raising you alone, but if she was, you are now old enough to understand some of the pressures she was under. Even if she wasn't single, maybe she had other stuff going on. Hard to tell from your post.

One of the first things you might consider doing is just sitting down and writing her a letter. One that you don't intend to mail. Just vent all that shit out. I know that may sound dumb, but it will help you get clear.

Once you are clear, find out what you would really hope to acheive by a reconciliation. Don't lie to yourself. ;)

After that, if you are comfortable with the answer you've come up with, then try reaching out to her. I'd start with very, very small steps, were it me. That way your emotional investment is smaller.

I wish you best of luck with it. As I get older, I struggle with reconciliation issues, and thus far, have always decided things are best left as they are.

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07-30-2005, 01:39 PM

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BlackCrayon

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#49

07-30-2005, 03:23 PM

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

my poor kids.. I feel sorry for them to have to have me as a mom..I think I will just go and kill myself now.. I am sure my kids and husband will rejoice and dance in a circle chanting.."ding dong the bitch is dead, now lets get the insurance money and sell this trailor..we moving uptown daddy"

so what do you do on the web..sell other peoples daughters?

don't squirm too much, that stick might fall out of your ass.

you sure are fun to toy with

the way you respond makes it look like you are about as mature as the kids you say are all over this board. why don't we try and get back at the topic at hand instead of making insults because we don't agree with someones opinion.

you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..
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JD

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07-30-2005, 04:02 PM

my mom told me I was a loser and would never be shit. So, fuck her she can rot in hell. She's got her foot in her mouth now since I now make more in 2 weeks than she does in 4 months

fuck you mom. I hope you die so I get the 100K life insurance policy dad put on you that you forgot about
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