This thread has crossed the line. Donny you talk about Mark being unrespectfull to his wife. You DO realize that YOU where the one who threatened to write an "open" article about this, do you? It is YOU who forced everyone into this situation. It is YOU who asked him to bang your wife, the day YOU stopped loving and respecting her. Don't talk about respect and love towards your partner if you asked another guy to bang her!
After YOU did that and lost your wife YOU are the one who was gonna use the media (yes internet IS media) to put this all in public.
IMHO YOU are the one without respect for your ex, Mark and his wife.
Now go to church and confess till you drop