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  • jawanda
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    • Feb 2003
    • 6040

    #1

    Update: Dating a girl who's (ex)boyfriend is in jail...

    The guy's OUT and he's pretty pissed...

    He just sent me text messages pretending to be her ... for the first time ever I will say THANK GOD for my ripoff prepaid phone that is always out of minutes. I got the messages but couldn't reply.

    Then he called on my regular phone, but at least at that point I knew it was him and didn't say anything to .. uhmm ... incriminating.

    VirginMobile is my new savior.

    Still a nasty situation though, what the fuck did I get myself into????

    I'm afraid to get within 100 ft of this girl now (as I suppose I should have been all along).



    -P
  • swedguy
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    • Jan 2002
    • 7981

    #2
    Been there, done that. GET FAR THE FUCK AWAY

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    • blazin
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      • Aug 2002
      • 2781

      #3
      Done that.... wasn't a punk though and stood up to the guy when he got out and kept the girl.
      I don't endorse a god damn thing......

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      • chadglni
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        • Dec 2002
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        #4
        Call his probation / parole officer.


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        • Tat2Jr
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          #5
          Been on both sides of that coin.
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          • jawanda
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            • Feb 2003
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            #6
            Originally posted by Tat2Jr
            Been on both sides of that coin.
            Not pretty from either side, is it?

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            • tradermcduck
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              • Apr 2001
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              #7


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              • gangbangjoe
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                • wild
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                  • Jun 2005
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                  #9
                  work out weather she is worth it..

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                  • alexg
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                    #10
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                    • jawanda
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                      • Feb 2003
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by chadglni
                      Call his probation / parole officer.

                      Best advice in this thread, I think.

                      Man then he would really kill me when he got out (again).

                      Hmmmm .....

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                      • wjxxx
                        So Fucking Banned
                        • Feb 2005
                        • 4448

                        #12
                        dude you are really asking for problems. thousands of girls walking on the streets so why you fuck chick with boyfriend in prison ?

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                        • polish_aristocrat
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                          • Jul 2002
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                          #13
                          white trash problems ;)
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                          • taibo
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                            • May 2005
                            • 3720

                            #14
                            what he said. and it's not fun finding out your girl fucking around behing your back while you're serving time. seriously

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                            • jayeff
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                              • May 2001
                              • 2944

                              #15
                              Memories... memories...

                              I answered my doorbell one morning and the next thing I knew I had taken one hell of a fist in the face that knocked me ten feet back down the hallway and onto the stairs. I'm lying stunned, with this south-London hardcase screaming at me to keep away from his fiancé!

                              At that point I really thought he was at the wrong address, but that evening a hostess I had been going out with for a few months didn't come into work so I asked a few questions around the club. It turned out she had forgotten to mention a boyfriend banged up for GBH, and I guess she didn't tell him about her lapse of memory.

                              I never saw either of them again. She didn't come back to work and my bosses sent a couple of the "boys" round to have a little chat with him. But definitely not a situation I would recommend anyone get into knowingly

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                              • galleryseek
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                                • Mar 2002
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by taibo
                                what he said. and it's not fun finding out your girl fucking around behing your back while you're serving time. seriously
                                that's what you get for being a fucking criminal cock sucking piece of shit.

                                you'd hope he'd realize that he's not exactly the epitome of an ideal partner when he's sitting behind bars - ladies want a man who can provide security for her and her offspring, you can't do that in jail. if he were smart, he'd let it go and start over from scratch with a completely new life / friends.

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                                • chadglni
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                                  • Dec 2002
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by taibo
                                  what he said. and it's not fun finding out your girl fucking around behing your back while you're serving time. seriously
                                  I doubt it's very fun to find out your boyfriend is getting locked up while you're dating him. Except for a few circumstances I can think of I'd have to go with fuck the idiot.


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                                  • Trixxxia
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                                    • Aug 2004
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by chadglni
                                    I doubt it's very fun to find out your boyfriend is getting locked up while you're dating him. Except for a few circumstances I can think of I'd have to go with fuck the idiot.
                                    I think the same & moreso if you have the intention of playing the field - you're beating an already beaten man + you're putting another one in danger. Either break it up or get a heavy duty vibrator until they allow conjugal visitation!

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                                    • Adultnet
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                                      • Sep 2003
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                                      #19
                                      If you think you can deal with the boy friend and keep the girl do it.. if not get out and save your self from this trouble ...


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                                      • Rinaldo
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                                        • Sep 2003
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                                        #20
                                        Went through that... the guy was fucking insane and in my case I beleive it was in my life's best interest to stay away from him.
                                        Her ex turned out to be her husband and she didn't tell me, he was in prison for some serious shit,.. but got out on a technicallity after a lengthy appeal process... actually only time I've heard of someone getting out on an appeal.

                                        anyways all he had to do was call me and ask me to stop fucking his wife while he was still on house arrest, he told me my parent's home address and my college apartment's address, then told me where I worked. Not Cool.
                                        and you knwo what he understood it wasn't my fault his wife was just a whore...

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                                        • Sharky
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                                          • Mar 2002
                                          • 4938

                                          #21
                                          come on.. Grow some balls. Do you have acorns or walnuts?

                                          The way I see it, the man is trying to step on your ground. You need to show him their is a new pimp in town and his old hoopty is in the junk yard!
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                                          • sickkittens
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                                            • Jul 2002
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                                            #22
                                            Why bother with her? If you have to deal w/ this, what's the point?

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                                            • Fletch XXX
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                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by sharky
                                              come on.. Grow some balls. Do you have acorns or walnuts?

                                              The way I see it, the man is trying to step on your ground. You need to show him their is a new pimp in town and his old hoopty is in the junk yard!
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                                              • BuggyG
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                                                • Oct 2002
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by swedguy
                                                Been there, done that. GET FAR THE FUCK AWAY
                                                same here.. except guy was a mental case.. came out of hospital psych ward.. and all cause of a girl that I hadn't seen in 2years but yet would talk to once in a while when she had computer probs.. he was jealous of it

                                                had to call cops on him cause he went after my family.. well calling them at all hours when he saw I wasn't scared of what he was saying and laffing when he'd call me

                                                had to go to cops cause can't do anything myself.. gotta keep the peace and friends werew ready to take "CARE" of it
                                                so for him.. I went

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                                                • SeniorX
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                                                  • Jan 2005
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                                                  #25
                                                  Been there, it's just not worth it, even if you get the ex off the back and show him you a man not to be messed with, there's a good chance she still goes back to the ex by her own will. Some ho's just like creating drama and playing the boys against each other - makes them feel wanted.

                                                  My advice: the bitch knowingly got you into trouble and this calls for a payback!!!
                                                  Tell the girl you found someone better, preferrably one of her girlfriends. Then don't answer her calls and when she tells her boy you're still hitting on her, just show him the unanswered calls when he shows up. She'll lose on every front. You a pimp, don't let a bitch play you!

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                                                  • jawanda
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                                                    • Feb 2003
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                                                    #26
                                                    Holy crap, I can't believe how many GFYers have "BEEN THERE" ....lol

                                                    makes me feel a little better at least I thought it was a pretty strange situation but obviously not.

                                                    ANYWAY, some good advice on this thread. I just caller and told her "Listen, deal with your shit, get this guy the fuck out of your life, and then we'll talk. Until then take care."

                                                    *shrug*

                                                    -P

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                                                    • Antonio
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                                                      • Oct 2001
                                                      • 14136

                                                      #27
                                                      well, never been there, but I dated a girl that dumped a HUGE soccer player and satrted dating me, the dude was telling everybody that he'd kill us both, nothing really happened thank God, but he was really nasty fuck, he was getting into fights all the time and winning all of them ;)

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                                                      • decrypted
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                                                        • Nov 2004
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                                                        #28
                                                        meh
                                                        i say start hittin the gym and dont worry about it

                                                        im 235lbs 6'3
                                                        no one fucks around

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                                                        • Doctor Dre
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                                                          • Jan 2001
                                                          • 51692

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by jawanda
                                                          Holy crap, I can't believe how many GFYers have "BEEN THERE" ....lol

                                                          makes me feel a little better at least I thought it was a pretty strange situation but obviously not.

                                                          ANYWAY, some good advice on this thread. I just caller and told her "Listen, deal with your shit, get this guy the fuck out of your life, and then we'll talk. Until then take care."

                                                          *shrug*

                                                          -P
                                                          Good thing to do ... I'd probably do the same ... unless I REALLY like her .
                                                          Originally posted by rayadp05
                                                          I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?

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                                                          • Doctor Dre
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                                                            • Jan 2001
                                                            • 51692

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by decrypted
                                                            meh
                                                            i say start hittin the gym and dont worry about it

                                                            im 235lbs 6'3
                                                            no one fucks around
                                                            righttt... i don't know where you live, but size don't impress people THAT much . They don't fuck arround when they have no beef ...

                                                            My 5"6 friend was getting bashed by a 6"3 guy about your size in a party ... he just jumped arround his neck and beat his ass so badly nobody seen the guy for like 2 months .

                                                            Size don't matter.
                                                            Last edited by Doctor Dre; 06-27-2005, 11:45 AM.
                                                            Originally posted by rayadp05
                                                            I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?

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                                                            • Tony Montana
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                                                              • Jan 2005
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by chadglni
                                                              Call his probation / parole officer.
                                                              Yup, he will be back in jail pretty fast if he keeps it up
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                                                              • Doctor Dre
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                                                                • Jan 2001
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                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Tony Montana
                                                                Yup, he will be back in jail pretty fast if he keeps it up
                                                                And once he's done with the 2 years extension thinking about you everytime he gets fucked in the ass, he will pay you a nice visit with his HIV positive friend.
                                                                Originally posted by rayadp05
                                                                I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?

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                                                                • pornguy
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                                                                  • Mar 2003
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Exactly! call his probation officer and tell him that the guy is harrassing you.
                                                                  Or tell the guy himself that he either backs off or you will put back behind bars.
                                                                  WTF is he thinking?
                                                                  I understand that he may be hurt and everything, but take it up on the girl not on the other guy. It was not your fault!
                                                                  But... see it from his point of view... May be she was encouraging him all along!
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                                                                  • Pipecrew
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by Doctor Dre
                                                                    And once he's done with the 2 years extension thinking about you everytime he gets fucked in the ass, he will pay you a nice visit with his HIV positive friend.
                                                                    I would love an Ex Con to come knocking at my door threatining to kill me, Two shots from this thing, the police would be needing a bag to collect all his organs.

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                                                                    • jawanda
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by Pipecrew
                                                                      I would love an Ex Con to come knocking at my door threatining to kill me, Two shots from this thing, the police would be needing a bag to collect all his organs.

                                                                      I am not a violent guy, but damn ... a Gloc would be comforting to have just incase.

                                                                      About calling his parole office, I am seriously considering it, but I don't really feel like pissing the guy off more ... it's like walking a tight rope: got to stand up for yourself, but don't want to make the situation worse when dealing with a highly unstable individual.

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                                                                      • Chichio
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                                                                        • Mar 2002
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        What a timely post. Some of the same shit is going on in my life. A Glock isn't going to help much unless it's about 3 or more guys about to gang beat you. That's about the only way you could shoot someone for trying to beat you down and get away with it. I know you don't want to be a coward and back down but I guess the question is: "is she worth it?" Fletch makes a good point about keeping your head when it comes to women. As much as I hate to say it, it's probably better just to leave her alone.

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                                                                        • jawanda
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by Chichio
                                                                          What a timely post. Some of the same shit is going on in my life. A Glock isn't going to help much unless it's about 3 or more guys about to gang beat you. That's about the only way you could shoot someone for trying to beat you down and get away with it. I know you don't want to be a coward and back down but I guess the question is: "is she worth it?" Fletch makes a good point about keeping your head when it comes to women. As much as I hate to say it, it's probably better just to leave her alone.

                                                                          That's what I'm doing. Called her and told her that yesterday...

                                                                          The guy is such a nut though that whether or not I see her doesn't even seem to matter, if he gets suspicious there's no reasoning.

                                                                          What the fuck did I get myself into?

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                                                                          • Dalai lama
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                                                                            • Jul 2004
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            What was he inside for

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                                                                            • Dalai lama
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                                                                              #39
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                                                                              • sweetME
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by chadglni
                                                                                Call his probation / parole officer.
                                                                                That's a good idea


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                                                                                • jawanda
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by Dalai lama
                                                                                  What was he inside for

                                                                                  DUI, Driving on Suspended, Probation Violation, Posession of a deadly weapon (a billy club)... and he's supposed to go back in in a different county for felony theft, but now he's trying to get alternative sentencing. For the most part he's just a speed addict though....

                                                                                  -p

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                                                                                  • warlock667
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                                                                                    #42


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                                                                                    • JJ Gold
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                                                                                      • 1969

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by Antonio
                                                                                      well, never been there, but I dated a girl that dumped a HUGE soccer player and satrted dating me, the dude was telling everybody that he'd kill us both, nothing really happened thank God, but he was really nasty fuck, he was getting into fights all the time and winning all of them ;)
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                                                                                      • Dalai lama
                                                                                        Strength and Honor
                                                                                        • Jul 2004
                                                                                        • 16540

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by jawanda
                                                                                        DUI, Driving on Suspended, Probation Violation, Posession of a deadly weapon (a billy club)... and he's supposed to go back in in a different county for felony theft, but now he's trying to get alternative sentencing. For the most part he's just a speed addict though....

                                                                                        -p
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                                                                                        • animal mother
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          1) is this bitch worth the hassle?

                                                                                          2) is your trepidation based solely on the fact that he's done time or do you know him? lots of pussies in jail, my friend.
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                                                                                          • nofx
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            you cant make a ho a housewife

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                                                                                            • riddler
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by jawanda
                                                                                              DUI, Driving on Suspended, Probation Violation, Posession of a deadly weapon (a billy club)... and he's supposed to go back in in a different county for felony theft, but now he's trying to get alternative sentencing. For the most part he's just a speed addict though....

                                                                                              -p
                                                                                              Just stop talkin' to the bitch, If he gets mouthy even though youre not talking to her beat his ass, I've learned that speed freaks are the easiest fuckers to take down, They talk big game because they all strung out but they are weak as fuck from being up all the time and muscles degenerating from no nutrition etc..

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                                                                                              • Why
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                ditch the bitch

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                                                                                                • kektex
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                                                                                                  • Mar 2005
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Stay away...I`ve been in a MUCH less serious situation (BF wasn`t an ex-con but still was a fuckin psycho).
                                                                                                  I`m not one not to stand up for myself but I realized the girl wasn`t worth it to endanger members of my family since the fucker took to visiting my house.
                                                                                                  Good thing I have good "persuasion" tools handy....might want to look into one of those posted above.
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                                                                                                  • Thomas N
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    So many pussies in this thread. You back down from this guy, everyone and especially every criminal in your area is going to know you are a pushover punk. Just put a big target on your back now why don't you...

                                                                                                    You let this fuck know in no uncertain terms you will see him back in prison and also fuck him up, and fuck destroy every person and thing he cares about if he ever even casts an unfriendly glance in your direction again.

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