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What defines it being a date vs. just going to dinner?

11-02-2006, 08:14 AM

not menaing going to dinner with a close friend but... you know someone-hang once in a great while with other mutual friends, they ask you to dinner...

it's a fun night....

One says we are 'just having dinner'

the other one asks 'why wouldn't this be a date?'

so what is the difference between it being a dinner and a date? and should it be defined prior to going out to dinner? LOL

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11-02-2006, 08:15 AM

feelings! But thats a date..

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11-02-2006, 08:17 AM

the motive behind the dinner...
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11-02-2006, 08:17 AM

if a back massage is involved after dinner it's a date

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11-02-2006, 08:17 AM

At least the EXPECTATION of romance.

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11-02-2006, 08:18 AM

depends on why they want to take you to dinner, other than that, it really doesn't matter

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11-02-2006, 08:22 AM

Never go on a date. That's the key. Just hang out; if the interest is mutual something will happen. If not, then no guilt when you find someone else to fuck instead.

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11-02-2006, 08:25 AM

i would ask beforehand.

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11-02-2006, 08:29 AM

Well the real difference i dunno, but you can get to know by what you talk about throught dinner, something friendly or something more... lets go home and hump...

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11-02-2006, 08:32 AM

I would say the expectation. Or if you're wondering when and if you're going to kiss, then it's a date.

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11-02-2006, 08:34 AM

Who is paying.
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11-02-2006, 08:35 AM

Depends if you gonna get fucked at the end of the night.
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11-02-2006, 08:35 AM

during dinner get under the table for a quick muff dive just to make sure that there's no confusion
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11-02-2006, 08:44 AM

generally - I would say if they ask YOU and ONLY you - that means they want to spend time with YOU. If they ask you and a couple other people - that's different but if it's clear they ask YOU and you accept knowing it's JUST going to be the TWO of you and no one else - and you KNOW that - then USE YOUR BRAIN. That's a statement that this person wants to spend more time with YOU on a personal level, and by agreeing you are making a statement that you want to spend more time with this person on a private personal level. If that's not what you want - bring someone else along and that will take it that one step back again.

Do you have any expectations of him paying? Another good thing to think about.

I believe actions speak louder than words. Some people get caught up in definations like date, boyfriend, etc. Fact is - time is really what counts. If people choose to spend time together it means they like each other. If people choose to spend time privatly together it means they REALLY like each other. If people choose to spend time naked private together - well....

Ask yourself this - if people see you with someone they will THINK it's a date unless there are other people with you. That's a fact so no matter what you tell yourself it is - everyone will think it's a date and you've publically labeled yourself as going on a date with this person even if you think it isn't one.

that being said - I have a date this Fri with Jman. I'm dressing up - he's taking me to the movies! He's gona have to be INCREDIBLY smooth though if he expects me to put out.

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11-02-2006, 11:08 AM

Originally posted by SleazyDream

generally - I would say if they ask YOU and ONLY you - that means they want to spend time with YOU. If they ask you and a couple other people - that's different but if it's clear they ask YOU and you accept knowing it's JUST going to be the TWO of you and no one else - and you KNOW that - then USE YOUR BRAIN. That's a statement that this person wants to spend more time with YOU on a personal level, and by agreeing you are making a statement that you want to spend more time with this person on a private personal level. If that's not what you want - bring someone else along and that will take it that one step back again.

Do you have any expectations of him paying? Another good thing to think about.

I believe actions speak louder than words. Some people get caught up in definations like date, boyfriend, etc. Fact is - time is really what counts. If people choose to spend time together it means they like each other. If people choose to spend time privatly together it means they REALLY like each other. If people choose to spend time naked private together - well....

Ask yourself this - if people see you with someone they will THINK it's a date unless there are other people with you. That's a fact so no matter what you tell yourself it is - everyone will think it's a date and you've publically labeled yourself as going on a date with this person even if you think it isn't one.

that being said - I have a date this Fri with Jman. I'm dressing up - he's taking me to the movies! He's gona have to be INCREDIBLY smooth though if he expects me to put out.

LMAO! so true so true.

even when I go out with my guy friends for dinner or a drink, people do glance at us and assess the situation.

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11-02-2006, 11:38 AM

Originally posted by aimeesweet

the motive behind the dinner...

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11-02-2006, 11:50 AM

A date is just a pre-scheduled meeting... be it a dinner date, luncheon date, yada yada... so if ya made arrangements to meet for dinner, it's a date..

Whether or not you choose to use the word; thinking it may be construed as a word looked at as more than just dinner, would be up to you...
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11-02-2006, 11:50 AM

I fuck on the first date.
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11-02-2006, 11:53 AM

BJ after is just dinner.

Full sex is date.
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11-02-2006, 12:04 PM

Originally posted by baddog

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OMG, ur so funny! That's what I was gonna say. In addition, was there any physical contact even in the smallest way? Hand on your back as he leads you toward the table etc. Any good night kiss? That's a dead giveaway! I think this needs further analyzing and I will hit you up later so we can figure this out!

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11-02-2006, 12:09 PM

Originally posted by A1R3K

I fuck on the first date.

Are you free for dinner tonight ?

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11-02-2006, 01:25 PM

Originally posted by Imortyl Pussycat

OMG, ur so funny! That's what I was gonna say. In addition, was there any physical contact even in the smallest way? Hand on your back as he leads you toward the table etc. Any good night kiss? That's a dead giveaway! I think this needs further analyzing and I will hit you up later so we can figure this out!

Hey, it makes a difference. If she is paying, it may be dinner, if I am paying it is probably a date.
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11-02-2006, 01:43 PM

A date should end in sex! Well wait so should dinner! hmmm

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11-02-2006, 02:03 PM

ehh.. whoever "likes" the other person calls it a date, the person who says it isnt, doesnt like you.
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11-05-2006, 07:56 AM

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11-05-2006, 08:15 AM

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11-05-2006, 08:30 AM

Lori,

Since you are a mega MILF, it has got to be a date date.

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