I'm not having a go at newbreed at all either.. she probably didn't tell him how much it bothered her until later. Both of them could have stood up for themselves better and diffused the situation earlier.. not that that makes it their fault of course... It's just kinda strange.. I don't know many people that would take that... he should have been shot down like a drunk using a bad pick up line in a bar... just sounds like communication issues and shyness.
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and I was glad to see u won the wet t shirt contest as well-Originally posted by tASSyyes! lunch, definitely! and thank you, kindly. just trying to spread the pink love!
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I would guess you're right as newbreed has talked pretty good game on here before. It's also why I didn't say anything because I wasn't there and don't have a clue how it went down exactly.Originally posted by bhutocracyComment
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Originally posted by bhutocracy
Well, I was addressing the suggestion that a real man kicks the ass of anyone who disrespects him.
The grey area regarding clear messages I believe was addressed earlier.HAL on TEDx:
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Pussy. BIG pussy.Originally posted by HalcyonComment
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guess i am a BIG pussy too...i have never thrown a punch in my life..EVER...never had toOriginally posted by SwordFish
and those that wanted to fight me, ended up not wanting to at the end of the day
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Some people just aren't violent, and there's nothing wrong with that. I like to hang out with that kind of person ;) Most of the time you can manage a situation without it escalating into someone getting hurt. Not every time, but most of the time. Also, some of the most non-violent people I've known have also been the most courageous. Gandhi was non-violent.Originally posted by BVF
I've been training for a couple of years in BJJ and I'm not violent
It's nice to have it as a viable option though heheComment
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Ummmm... You are wrong. There is definately a reason for violence sometimes... Unless you like getting punked out like a little kid or beat up. You must be very passive and hanging out in safe, fluffy environments.Originally posted by JaceXXXComment
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I disagree, sometimes there's no other option. If someone wants to hurt you and there's no talking to him, you're in the shit whether you want to be or not. A guy like Halcyon and maybe you too could talk a situation down 99% of the time, but there's always going to be that psycho 1% that you may have to deal with some day.Originally posted by JaceXXXComment
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i just don't put myself in situations that call for violenceOriginally posted by pimpporn
and yes, i am extremely passive....nothing wrong with that at all...i just surround myself with people that have half a brain cell and know that violence is not an answer for anythingComment
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that is a different situation all together, violence and self preservation are two seperate things, while self preservation does involve violence occasionallyOriginally posted by dig420Comment
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i don't know if you've ever seen me, or the women that tend to FLOCK to Halcyon, but he's far from what most would consider a pussy. and i personally, as his current "girl," would much rather he grabbed my hand and ran me to safety than risk being either of us being hurt physically (not to mention further emotional damage) or possibly being shot.Originally posted by SwordFish
fighting is for losers, throwing punches is for losers. being adults, is, well - for adults.
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But didn't it answer this situation? I mean he got the point when Aaron took him to the ground right?Originally posted by JaceXXXComment
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Unless you are jumped, it takes two to fight.Originally posted by pimpporn
And a pretty powerful man once said, "If you hit me, I ain't gonna hit you back. In fact, I'm such a baddass, I'll turn my other cheek to you and let you hit me again."
If you think a man with that kinda balls is punked out, then we'll simply have to agree to disagree.HAL on TEDx:
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BULLYING is for losers. Fighting is for self-preservation and sometimes self-respect. There's nothing wrong with fighting a bad guy or fighting to protect yourself or those you love.Originally posted by tASSy
You can easily go overboard either way.Comment
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yes, he did get the point, but the point could have been made way earlier in the day in better ways...it didn't have to get to thatOriginally posted by bhutocracy
not knocking newbreed or arika, but i can honestly say as a man who is married to someone in similar shoes as arika, security would have been called as soon as the stalking began...
after that rinaldo incident, girls need to be more of their business peers, it is sad, but trueComment
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Right on bro!Originally posted by JaceXXX
I like your attitude. However, I personally wouldn't tell a woman I was trying to date that you have never thrown a punch and would never resort to violence. Even hippie girls I know like a man that will stand up for himself and her of course. Trust me, all women like a boyfriend that will kick the shit out of any guy that hurts her.
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yeah he really left a non-violent legacy didn't he?Originally posted by Halcyon
Fighting is hard-wired into our species and most other species. It's darwinism in action. Protect your resources, protect your loved ones.
Self-defense is honorable, bullying is one of the lowest things you can do. You're over-simplifying.Comment
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if it takes a fight to gain someones respect, i don't want them around me at all....that is like a 10th grade way of thinkingOriginally posted by dig420Comment
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my wife loves the fact that I am a bigger guy that has never gotten into a fight...loves itOriginally posted by pimppornRight on bro! I like your attitude. However, I personally wouldn't tell a woman I was trying to date that you have never thrown a punch and would never resort to violence. Even hippie girls I know like a man that will stand up for himself and her of course. Trust me, all women like a boyfriend that will kick the shit out of any guy that hurts her.
i take care of her just fine, and i am not ashmaed of it, and neither is sheComment
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Ok, this discussion is getting a little silly. I don't know what cotton covered world some of you grew up in but it's not like that everywhere. I'm not running away every time somebody is giving me problems. I'll gladly tell them to back off and if it comes to it MAKE them back off. I just hope none of you ever end up in a situation that you would need to fight in but you'd rather try to run. Seriously.Comment
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i don't get it it...you are saying fighting, then you are saying self defense...which is it? those are two seperate thingsOriginally posted by dig420
i have a mossberg 12 guage by my door for self defense, but i don't get into fightsComment
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i have been in plenty of those situations...and usually the people that wanted to fight me, end up buying me drinks 30 minutes later...and if not, the police get involved and it breaks up quicklyOriginally posted by chadglniComment
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Now you are talkinOriginally posted by JaceXXX
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Dude, wtf!!??Originally posted by SwordFish
I'm not sure why I still get surprised by some of the shit that gets said around here.-165486536
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Who the hell am I?Comment
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Where I come from, if you're not willing to fight you're gonna be stepped on all day long every day of the week. It's nothing that someone has to be proud of, but it's a brutal fact that this is sometimes a brutal world and you have to be able to meet it on it's own terms.Originally posted by JaceXXX
I'd never start a fight, I'm the friendliest guy in the world, but I WILL fight if someone attacks me. I WILL fight if someone tries to take things away from me that I want to keep. And I'm not ashamed of that.Comment
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No I'm not. You defend yourself by fighting. Fighting is your primary method of self-defense, if someone punches you in the face and plans to keep doing it you don't pull out a shotgun, you hit them back. Or you run and hope you're faster than they are.Originally posted by JaceXXX
I can't understand shooting someone to death to save yourself an ass-whipping.Comment
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i guess if it came down to it, and I had to throw some arm around, i would..but in 30 years of being on this earth, i have never had toOriginally posted by dig420
honestly, if that situation came up, i would probably have them punch me, then I would call the cops, file a report, and then sue the frickin pants off the dude
my buddy did that when I was 19 or so, and ended up the dude that punched him was rich as shit, and my buddy ended up with a $240k settlementComment
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see my post above thisOriginally posted by dig420Comment
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in the end, we all have different ways of dealing with things...i prefer the non-violent way, some don't prefer that method...i have survived a lot of shit on this earth, from drug dealing to djing at some pretty rough clubs to having a porn star wife that gets groped, and never had to throw one punch...but not everyone has that luxury...i prefer the legal system, some prefer the strong arm system
at the end of the day, we are all alive and happy, and that is what matters, right?
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Yeah this is what i was saying.. even without guards a simple non-violent but forceful confrontation sounds like it would have made it very obvious he was unwelcome from the start rather than trying to slip him and have him tag along and think he's part of the gang in the name of being unconfrontational.. but once again not being there.. who can say when people knew of the problem etc. At least it's a good awakening that she needs to be more direct and confrontational to prevent this type of thing escalating.Originally posted by JaceXXXComment
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If someone punches you for no reason you SHOULD call the cops and file charges. I'm mostly concerned with the moments when he's still punching me and not looking to stop.Originally posted by JaceXXXComment
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and thats cool too.Originally posted by Halcyon
i imagine you wouldve walked away immediately or would you have let tassy put up with that shit as long as arika did?
thats the gist of these posts, (when you read between the testosterone) why didnt arikas husband handle the situation immediately and end it instead of letting an asshole harrass his wife for as long as he did and then another guy puts an end to it.
how the hell this went on for as long as it did is absolutly mind boggling.
Haly from reading your posts you seem like a really cool mellow dude but I got a feeling that if a stranger groped tassy, it would cross your mind to lay a hand on him as you were walking away.Last edited by jonesy; 06-16-2005, 08:38 PM..
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damn, never been in that situation...never looking to get there eitherOriginally posted by dig420Comment
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i grew up in the cotton covered world of east side oakland. i don't know if you know what it's like there, but to give you an idea, a hooker was shot dead on my doorstep and i saw it all when i was about 6 years old.Originally posted by chadglni
i *still* disagree that you ever NEED to fight - stick up for yourself yes, tell someone to back off yes, but i never needed to fight when i had the option of walking away & more often than not, getting into a fight causes more trouble than it's worth - sometimes major, sometimes minor - but always more trouble than walking away.
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I don't believe that someone can be a non-violent drug dealer. As soon as your customers find out that they can just take whatever you have with no threat, they most definitely will.Originally posted by JaceXXXComment
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arika ? looks are similar
Often times I wonder why
There's love and hate, theres live or die.
When sickness comes I must decide:
When feelings go, theres suicide.
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It seems that a husband let another man abuse his wife and another man took actions to stop 'whatever'. Sorry for stating this, but the husband brought it to the boards.Originally posted by Halcyon
Yellow, Pink, Blue or whatever color one is into, it is sad that it happened. But one has to ask how it happened? Being naive and drinking on both parties is my guess.
It is really sad that it was posted here. Some things should remain silent on the boards. Anyways, I hope all parties can resolve this issue
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i would rather hug than fight any day. i never really say anything to warrant a beatdown anyhow. sometimes its best when the offending parties etourage crries them off screaming.Comment
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If and when I have to fight-
I will kill
Pretty much why I got rid of my gun
I will always defend a womans honor
as well as my family
Fuck with my family or girl- you'll be in big trouble.
I am the nicest guy on the planet I think- until I am crossed or put in a situation that requires some action.Comment
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Originally posted by Halcyon
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Originally posted by nofxarika ? looks are similar
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None of you were there it seems and have no clue what kinda people arika and newbreed are... I honestly do not think that anyone really knew just how far any of this would go including arika.. She is just a little sweetheart and never would think anyone would really take it that far. Neither did any of us around her that night who may have seen the early signs in hindsight.. (as they say hindsight is REALLY 20-20) The fact that newbreed was not actually watching for the few minutes at the fountain may have opened the chance for Christian to cross the line that Aaron witnessed and took action on. Newbreed DID want at Chris after it happened but it took a few of us to physically hold him back and cooler heads like tassy and hal to let him (and the rest of us) know it was REALLY not worth it.. Newbreed was also more concerned about how upset his lovely wife was since she was crying in tassys arms over the fact that she thought she caused the fight. Arika is a doll like that and did not want to see anyone harmed over her even if they might have deserved it. She would have been even more upset and hurt if anything did continue.
NOW.. if you were not there and do not know the whole story then back off.. its none of your concern who should have done what and when...Comment
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Glad to see i'm not alone in that.Originally posted by JaceXXX
Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent.
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[QUOTE=pimpporn]Unless you like getting punked out like a little kidQUOTE]
Who the fuck cares? People will see who the rmoron is in the situation threatening violence irrationally towards a sensical, calm, rational individual. Oh no! I've been punked by a retard. I'm sure my ego will heal sufficeintly as to allow me to go on living.
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not true at all...i never sold the type of drugs that turned people into crack heads...i sold ecstasy, ghb, etc....designer club drugs....it made everyone very happy....once guns and violence entered our scene from some outsiders is when we stopped, we knew it had gone to a level that no one around wanted it to go to....but it lasted a good 2 years of livin a nice lifeOriginally posted by dig420Last edited by Jace; 06-16-2005, 11:30 PM.Comment
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hahahahahahahahOriginally posted by uno
best quote of the threadComment
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