Right time right place..
Grant and I were at a swingers party and ran into Anna and Bruce of
4RealSwingers. So, we had no idea at the time, just had drinks, and we all fucked our brains out. After the fact we asked what they did for a living.. they said porn. Our site went live a few months later.
More money in paysites, the American dream, the American Day dream, etc
Money always helps motivate us.