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Originally Posted by MikeVega
. this made her feel like she did something wrong ... when kids in school found out they made fun of her and she made herself gain lots of weight so boys wouldn't think she was pretty ... she later started using drugs and even got hooked on heroin. even after battling addiction she still at 25 has low self esteem and a hard time being with men that are nice to her .. she dates guys that use her and treat her like shit. I definitely feel that this will effect how she raises her kids later in life (if she has any) and will trickle down .. stuff like that just doesn't go away and reaches far for many generations in my opinion ..
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1000% spot on Mike - and classic "defense mechanism". It can take a lifetime to change/remove the baggage resulting from an offense. Sad stuff.