MikeVega

I start by saying that i didn't read the entire thread .. I know a girl that had a man break into her home and tie her up with an electrical cord... drag her into her baby brothers room and assault her .. she was 8 and her brother was a baby. I never got into heavy detail of what he did but i know he performed oral on her and forced her to do it to him ...the guy didn't realize that the room he took her to had another door that went to the parents room ...while she was fighting him a bit she kicked that door and the parents woke up .. they grabbed him and the cops came. this effected her entire family .. her father never hit the man and felt such guilt that it happen that he stopped talking to her and never spoke of it .. this made her feel like she did something wrong ... when kids in school found out they made fun of her and she made herself gain lots of weight so boys wouldn't think she was pretty ... she later started using drugs and even got hooked on heroin. even after battling addiction she still at 25 has low self esteem and a hard time being with men that are nice to her .. she dates guys that use her and treat her like shit. I definitely feel that this will effect how she raises her kids later in life (if she has any) and will trickle down .. stuff like that just doesn't go away and reaches far for many generations in my opinion ..

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