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like i said, it would depend on the person.
i know someone who have suffered from abuse when he was kid and became a better person now that he's older.
i know another guy who had to endure god-knows-what to keep himself alive. he worked since he's 8 years old. didn't go to school, ran errands, had to live on the street for a while but told himself this is not gonna happen to my kids and their kids. he worked and worked, read as much as he can in the night to learn cause he cant afford to go to school, he got married (twice) sent his kids to college and are now professional, liscensed people.
on the other hand, i had a classmate back in college who was abused and beat up by her father and became a weaker person as the days go by. cause that was her choice.
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