Disgrunteled cam model tries again

I have been an independent cam model for about a year now. Independent models if u are not famialiar, usually join webcam listings, not large "free cam" sites, as a means to get traffic. When I first started I got listed on as many sites I could find. Did pretty well, and found a great site to work for that lets me have a sub account with ccbill as well as epassporte payment option. As time went on I noticed a large % of independent cam girls have sites that help them promote themselves. Some very simple, others with member areas, some with all out pro sites. A friend gave me access to a free host that he doesnt use, and I used templates to make a simple website to help promote my services (see sig). Because I use this free host I have had a very hard time posting my banner on top lists for cam girls. My customers really liked it, and now I am seeking something a bit more professional. I found a site that looks really nice http: //www dot darcyfoxx dot com, of course it isnt all about looks but is exactly what I want in terms of a site. A few galleries, a blog, schedule, session info etc. I want to keep the site free for customers, maybe add a members area in the future once I have a bundle of content fron updating galleries, blogs etc. I would also like to find a payment processor, so i no longer have to use ccbill sub accounts, but that will take some time.Of course I am full of questions about where I can begin. I am in the process of finding a host as well as purchasing a domain name, but I have found it difficult to do so because I am a victim of identity theft and DO NOT USE CREDIT CARDS. I am in a very difficult spot. Any hosts out there that can send a bill to me, so I can send payment thru the mail. Any opinions about my site or what I can do will be very much appreciated.

Hopefully this will help me actually receive answers to what i am really looking for. Questions about a members only site were just questions..not plans.