Divorced for 1 1/2 yrs...still fucked up

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  • xXxtreme2005
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    • Feb 2005
    • 717

    #1

    Divorced for 1 1/2 yrs...still fucked up

    I've been divorced for about 1 1/2 yrs now and still can't bring myself to date anyone...I was married for 7 yrs and it just doesn't seem right. I get asked out all the time and refuse. I've had my share of one nighters but then I never get with them again. Any suggestions?


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  • BVF
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    • Jan 2002
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    #2
    yeah stop being a pussy. I'm sure your ex-wife has no problem sucking dick and fucking somebody else.

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    • Paraskass
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      • May 2002
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      #3
      man...
      i guess my thread got you started...

      hum. I was not married, but dating for 3 years almost. And I've been single for like a year... it takes time. TIME TIME TIME.

      1 1/2 years after a seven year relationship is not that long. Have you lost faith in women? We're you betrayed?

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      • xXxtreme2005
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        • Feb 2005
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        #4
        neither do I, I just can't bring myself to trust another one


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        • Paraskass
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          • May 2002
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          #5
          Originally posted by xXxtreme2005
          neither do I, I just can't bring myself to trust another one
          figure out how to solve that problem, and you'll be ok.

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          • xXxtreme2005
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            • Feb 2005
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            #6
            I was not cheated on but she just wanted to get out and go her own way..I have custody of our twin 7yr olds...and shes out partying it up


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            • KRL
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              • Oct 2002
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              #7
              I was married and had a son with my ex-wife. We met in '87. I don't think its possible to get over someone you divorce but have a kid with since you continue to interact virtually every day until your kid grows up and gets his own life going.

              So yeh it sucks and dating when you are older sucks. Very hard to find someone special again.

              After a while you get so burned out with the whole dating scene you just kick back and say fuck it when the next relationship is meant to be it will find me.

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              • Paraskass
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                • May 2002
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                #8
                Originally posted by xXxtreme2005
                I was not cheated on but she just wanted to get out and go her own way..I have custody of our twin 7yr olds...and shes out partying it up
                hum... I see.

                kinda hard to move on then... i guess you don't want to introduce the kids to a new family either... tough call man. You'll need to find a single mom that is in the same boat and go on dates and stuff. Reciprocal support system.

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                • FilthyRob
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                  • Feb 2004
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                  #9
                  Just go out and have sex then I guess. Dating is over rated
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                  • xXxtreme2005
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                    #10
                    thanks for all the advice


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                    • directfiesta
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                      • Oct 2002
                      • 30229

                      #11
                      Was married twice, no kids. Never saw them again after the final court day.

                      Been 10 years and the best 10 of my whole life
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                      • xXxtreme2005
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                        • Feb 2005
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                        #12
                        the kids are another problem, they are still confussed and I don't want to bring a bunch of girls around them and confuse them more.


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                        • Spunky
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                          • Jun 2002
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                          #13
                          She has probably moved on and so should you...jump back on that horse

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                          • xXxtreme2005
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                            #14
                            Oh shes jumped back on....how do I do it with the kids....don't wanna run them through like a whore house


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                            • GatorB
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                              • Oct 2001
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by xXxtreme2005
                              I've been divorced for about 1 1/2 yrs now and still can't bring myself to date anyone...I was married for 7 yrs and it just doesn't seem right. I get asked out all the time and refuse. I've had my share of one nighters but then I never get with them again. Any suggestions?
                              Don't get caught up in "having" to date or hell even "having" to get fucked for that matter.

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                              • baddog
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                                • Apr 2001
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by KRL
                                I was married and had a son with my ex-wife. We met in '87. I don't think its possible to get over someone you divorce but have a kid with since you continue to interact virtually every day until your kid grows up and gets his own life going.

                                pfft . . . . . I was over mine the day she moved out

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                                • baddog
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                                  • Apr 2001
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                                  #17
                                  . . . . that is not to say that I would trust another chick enough to get into a serious relationship again

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                                  • xXxtreme2005
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                                    #18
                                    Thanks peeps I needed so reasurance!


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                                    • taibo
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                                      • May 2005
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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by BVF
                                      yeah stop being a pussy. I'm sure your ex-wife has no problem sucking dick and fucking somebody else.

                                      couldn't have said it better

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                                      • chase
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                                        • Jul 2004
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by xXxtreme2005
                                        Oh shes jumped back on....how do I do it with the kids....don't wanna run them through like a whore house
                                        that's a tough one, man. I just separated in Feb and am filing for divorce next month. I have three kids, two of whom are with my ex. It's a lot harder to get out when you have little ones, and you don't want to bring people over when you are just getting to know them and have no idea if it is going anywhere, or what type of person they are.

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                                        • adonthenet
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                                          • Feb 2005
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                                          #21
                                          thats sucks =\ i understand you..
                                          well good luck bro

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                                          • dasexi1
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                                            • Jul 2002
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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by xXxtreme2005
                                            the kids are another problem, they are still confussed and I don't want to bring a bunch of girls around them and confuse them more.
                                            well of course you don't want a bunch of women in and out of your home, just keep your personal life seperate from your home life. If any female can't understand that, then she isn't worth your time anyway.

                                            As far as dating goes, if you aren't ready to get involved then don't, there is no law that says you only have a certain amount of time to get over what you went through. Do whats best for you, if that means having 1 night stands so be it, do it and don't feel bad about it. (I know it's strange to hear a woman say that), but seriously as long as you aren't leading a female on do what you need to do. When you're ready and your daughters are in a better frame of mind you may move beyond 1 night stands, and into something more fullfilling.

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                                            • Terry
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                                              • Jan 2002
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                                              #23
                                              Sorry to hear that guys.. Hats off to you guys for being so honest and open on here!!!
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                                              • SeniorX
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                                                • Jan 2005
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                                                #24
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