Originally Posted by Mickey-AWE

You see, this is exactly what i'm referring to.

"Well, he started it!"
"No, no, it was him!"

We have a saying that goes something like 'the smart one lets it go, the donkey doesn't and keeps suffering.'

while it's a strange saying and i don't know where it originates from, the point is this:
please don't be donkeys.
someone has to man up, take the first step and let it go.
who's it gonna be?