try this
<object id=MediaPlayer name=MediaPlayer classid=CLSID:22D6F312-B0F6-11D0-94AB-0080C74C7E95 standby=standby width=656 height=520><param name=Filename value=http://yoursite.com/yourvideo.wmv><param name=AnimationAtStart value=true><PARAM NAME=AutoStart VALUE=True><PARAM NAME=loop VALUE=True><param name=TransparentAtStart value=false><param name=ShowControls value=true><param name=showstatusbar value=true><embed width=656 height=520 src=http://yoursite.com/yourvideo.wmv controller=true displaysize=4 autoplay=true showstatusbar=1 playeveryframe=false loop=true></object>