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  • DarkJedi
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    #1

    FACT: A man gains NOTHING by getting married

    There is absolutely NO reason for a man to get married. Marriage is a benefit for women, only.

    For men it's a step down in every way...freedom, happiness, wealth, sex, opportunity... It's a losing proposition no matter how you look at it.

    If you're thinking about getting married, DON'T.
  • StuartD
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    #2
    FACT: darkjedi's constant bashing on marriage, children and anything bearing any resemblance to common sense gains man NOTHING
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    • JFK
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      #3
      What do you mean gain Nothing ? I gained about 50 lbs

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      • DarkJedi
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        #4
        Originally posted by NichePay - StuartD
        FACT: darkjedi's constant bashing on marriage, children and anything bearing any resemblance to common sense gains man NOTHING
        Quit stalking me homo.

        If my posts bother you so much, put me on ignore you stupid sigwhore.

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        • eroswebmaster
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          #5
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          • evanmorgan
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            #6
            Originally posted by NichePay - StuartD
            FACT: darkjedi's constant bashing on marriage, children and anything bearing any resemblance to common sense gains man NOTHING
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            • xclusive
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              #7
              I love being married and have done better than ever thanks to my wife

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              • DarkJedi
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                #8
                Originally posted by eroswebmaster
                Darkjedi leads a very lonely existence.
                My social life is quite normal.
                My work life however involves much time staring at a computer screen, killing time.

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                • StuartD
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                  #9
                  Originally posted by DarkJedi
                  Quit stalking me homo.

                  If my posts bother you so much, put me on ignore you stupid sigwhore.
                  Yes, I've replied to around 30 threads today, some multiple times... and one of them was yours. I'm clearly stalking you.

                  Please, don't flatter yourself. I have much better things to do
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                  • DarkJedi
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                    #10
                    Originally posted by xclusive
                    I love being married and have done better than ever thanks to my wife
                    So tell me, what did yo gain by getting married ?


                    Men marry just to make sure the kids don't end up fucked up.

                    Without exception a single mother will fuck up children so bad it will take a decade to fix it.
                    Men are forced to marry to help their offspring.

                    Sad but true.

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                    • ronaldo
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                      #11
                      If you don't gain anything from marriage then you married the wrong woman period.

                      By getting married, I gained a maid, a chef, a babysitter, a gardener/groundskeeper, a snowblower, a sex doll....

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                      • DarkJedi
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                        #12
                        Originally posted by NichePay - StuartD
                        Yes, I've replied to around 30 threads today, some multiple times... and one of them was yours. I'm clearly stalking you.

                        Please, don't flatter yourself. I have much better things to do

                        All your replies in my threads revolve around bitching how you are bothered by my posts.

                        IF YOU DON'T LIKE THEM, STOP FUCKING CLICKING THEM, YOU WORTHLESS TURD.

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                        • CDSmith
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                          #13
                          FACT: none of your posts starting with the word FACT are factual.



                          That's the fact jack.
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                          • tranza
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                            #14
                            That's not truth. There was a study that I've read recently telling that married man live longer.
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                            • DarkJedi
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by ronaldo
                              If you don't gain anything from marriage then you married the wrong woman period.

                              By getting married, I gained a maid, a chef, a babysitter, a gardener/groundskeeper, a snowblower, a sex doll....
                              You could have had all that without getting married.
                              Just find a girlfriend who will do all that.

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                              • StuartD
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                All your replies in my threads revolve around bitching how you are bothered by my posts.

                                IF YOU DON'T LIKE THEM, STOP FUCKING CLICKING THEM, YOU WORTHLESS TURD.
                                All caps, name calling... I'm sorry, I didn't realize that you could be bothered so deeply by negativity on a message board. Seems ironic that all you ever post is negativity and yet can't handle it yourself.
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                                • Mrs. Lenny2
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by ronaldo
                                  If you don't gain anything from marriage then you married the wrong woman period.

                                  By getting married, I gained a maid, a chef, a babysitter, a gardener/groundskeeper, a snowblower, a sex doll....
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                                  • CDSmith
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                                    #18
                                    FACT: dying alone and unloved in a pool of ones own filth is the alternative solution DJ sees as being preferable to marriage.


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                                    • Dirty F
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                                      #19
                                      Just by reading the thread i knew it was posted by Dorkjedi.

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                                      • DarkJedi
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by CDSmith
                                        FACT: none of your posts starting with the word FACT are factual.

                                        FACT: you're too stupid to argue the point.

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                                        • DarkJedi
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                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by CDSmith
                                          FACT: dying alone and unloved in a pool of ones own filth is the alternative solution DJ sees as being preferable to marriage.
                                          Not being married doesn't mean being single and dying alone.

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                                          • DarkJedi
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                                            #22
                                            The only point i can see is children.

                                            That's it. If you don't want kids, dont get married. Period.

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                                            • Elli
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                                              #23
                                              I think marriage is a personal choice. I've never really felt the urge to get married, but if I was to have children, I would marry then to make things easier for them. What do I gain by getting married? Well, I have to change my last name, lose my credit rating, inform every credit card/bank/government institution about my new identity, and have people start calling me Mrs. So-and-so. Ugh. But it's worth it if it would make my children's lives easier, and it would. So there. That's my thoughts on the topic.
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                                              • Mrs. Lenny2
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                                                #24


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                                                • Kimmykim
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                                                  #25
                                                  FACT: Chris Rock said it best.

                                                  You can either be married and miserable, or single and lonely.

                                                  There aren't any other choices lol...

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                                                  • sweetME
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                                                    #26
                                                    OK.....and who's gonna be there next to you when you're old, lonely and dying?


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                                                    • galleryseek
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                                                      #27
                                                      the issue isn't about marriage itself, at all. it's about the person you're with. some couples can make it work, and make it work well. most couples simply can't because most people allow "love" (or that chemical addiction, whatever you want to CALL it) to govern their decisions pertaining to the relationship, and ignore logic.

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                                                      • StuartD
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                        The only point i can see is children.

                                                        That's it. If you don't want kids, dont get married. Period.
                                                        I'm having a child with a woman that I'm not married to, marriage isn't a requirement for a child either.

                                                        1.) If you want to know why to have a kid, then have one... and then ask yourself again.

                                                        2.) If you want to know why you should get married, then find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, someone you can't live without, get married to her and then ask yourself the question again.

                                                        Until then, you'll never know. And that is the FACT.
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                                                        • DarkJedi
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                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by Elli
                                                          I think marriage is a personal choice. I've never really felt the urge to get married, but if I was to have children, I would marry then to make things easier for them. What do I gain by getting married? Well, I have to change my last name, lose my credit rating, inform every credit card/bank/government institution about my new identity, and have people start calling me Mrs. So-and-so. Ugh. But it's worth it if it would make my children's lives easier, and it would. So there. That's my thoughts on the topic.
                                                          Women have EVERYTHING to gain by getting married. It's pretty much the major even of their life.

                                                          Men on the other hand gain nothing. They can have everything without marriage - and still retain most of the freedoms.

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                                                          • Platinumpimp
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by Kimmykim
                                                            FACT: Chris Rock said it best.

                                                            You can either be married and miserable, or single and lonely.

                                                            There aren't any other choices lol...
                                                            Ever heard of the word "Einzelgaenger" ?

                                                            Some people just like it better to be alone (thus single), while they do have a completely normal social life.
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                                                            • Elli
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                              Women have EVERYTHING to gain by getting married. It's pretty much the major even of their life.

                                                              Men on the other hand gain nothing. They can have everything without marriage - and still retain most of the freedoms.
                                                              Ah, so tell me what I gain, then?
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                                                              • Platinumpimp
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                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                                Women have EVERYTHING to gain by getting married. It's pretty much the major even of their life.

                                                                Men on the other hand gain nothing. They can have everything without marriage - and still retain most of the freedoms.
                                                                Unless a man marries a damn rich woman..

                                                                But I agree, it's 99% the other way around
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                                                                • StuartD
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by Elli
                                                                  Ah, so tell me what I gain, then?
                                                                  a paper boy?
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                                                                  • DarkJedi
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by NichePay - StuartD
                                                                    I'm having a child with a woman that I'm not married to, marriage isn't a requirement for a child either.

                                                                    1.) If you want to know why to have a kid, then have one... and then ask yourself again.

                                                                    2.) If you want to know why you should get married, then find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, someone you can't live without, get married to her and then ask yourself the question again.

                                                                    Until then, you'll never know. And that is the FACT.
                                                                    First you say that all my threads are stupid. Then you step into the discussion. Make up your mind already.

                                                                    1. I asked about kids for the sake of the discussion.

                                                                    2. I can find someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, someone I can't live without and still live happily without marrying her.

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                                                                    • galleryseek
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                                      Women have EVERYTHING to gain by getting married. It's pretty much the major even of their life.

                                                                      Men on the other hand gain nothing. They can have everything without marriage - and still retain most of the freedoms.
                                                                      why is your view so lopsided? i think of marriage, in a metophorical nerd sense, much like an SSL Guaranteed Secure Connection Graphic on an order page... it is simply a stamp on something that already exists.

                                                                      if you're with someone, who you've been with for years+, and you're happy / content with them... what is it that you aren't gaining out of marriage? you know, if you're with someone who is really right for you, you won't have urges significant enough to be with another woman to actually act on them. because you would realize that 20 minutes of temporary physical satisfaction is not worth potentially losing something much more important and meaningful.

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                                                                      • Elli
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by NichePay - StuartD
                                                                        a paper boy?
                                                                        Nah, my previous boyfriend didn't even do that. I had to do all the chores for two people instead of for one.
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                                                                        • DarkJedi
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by Elli
                                                                          Ah, so tell me what I gain, then?
                                                                          Cold hard cash.




                                                                          Life cycle of a typical American woman:

                                                                          - Fucks like a crazy slut in college. Gangbangs at frat parties on weekends. Destroys her body by drinking, smoking and lying in the sun to get a nice tan.

                                                                          - Gets a power corporate job, pumps her fist in the air over grrl power, and fucks more men. One night stands during business trips are normal.

                                                                          - Suddenly "oh no, I'm turning 30 and must land a husband".

                                                                          - Contacts every guy from her past, including that guy she rejected in high school, and that Mexican guy she fucked during spring break.

                                                                          - Wonders why no one wants her bitter, angry, wrinkled ass. Watches "Sex and the City" and reads Cosmopolitan magazine for enlightenment.

                                                                          - Eventually gives up, and orders 20 cats. Spends the next 50 years listening to the same old sad songs every night as her cats wail in agony. Keeps pictures of herself from her high school and college days to show people that she was once an attractive, young girl.

                                                                          - Finally dies. Cats rejoice.

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                                                                          • DarkJedi
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by tranza
                                                                            That's not truth. There was a study that I've read recently telling that married man live longer.
                                                                            Typical bullshit statistic; it includes among the numbers of unmarried men the detritus of humanity; fags, drunks, dope addicts, criminals who all live shortened lives thatnks to their high risk lifestyles...

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                                                                            • Elli
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Ah, so you're saying I wouldn't marry for love, I would marry for money. OR I wouldn't be so foolish as to fall in love with a guy who didn't have the money I wanted. Either way, quite silly assumptions. Both times I've fallen in love, the guy has had less money than myself.
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                                                                              • StuartD
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                                                Typical bullshit statistic; it includes among the numbers of unmarried men the detritus of humanity; fags, drunks, dope addicts, criminals who all live shortened lives thatnks to their high risk lifestyles...
                                                                                hahaha... listen to who's talking about statistics... meanwhile you make up stuff on the spot. Your "life cycle of a typical American woman" is entirely fictional, and purely your skepitcal speculation.
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                                                                                • DarkJedi
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by NichePay - StuartD
                                                                                  hahaha... listen to who's talking about statistics...
                                                                                  I wasn't talking about it. Someone brought it up first.

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                                                                                  • Rorschach
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Marriage =

                                                                                    giving half your hard earned stuff and future earnings away.

                                                                                    a life of constant compromise and never being able to do what you really want unless you lie about it.

                                                                                    having to fuck the same pussy, even after the sex gets old and stale.

                                                                                    living with PMS two weeks out of every four.

                                                                                    eventually and inevitably becoming pussy whipped by her constant badgering, and feeling like shit and you've lost control of your life as a result.

                                                                                    just say NO!

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                                                                                    • howard
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      I have been married and divorced twice. I am single but in a relationship for the past year and a half. I believe I am authority on the subject..I have 2 kids that I see 5 days a week.

                                                                                      DarkJedi is correct for some people and incorrect for others.

                                                                                      My 2nd divorce I felt like I got raped. My X bribed me to see my own children. So in that respect I agree..

                                                                                      I disagree that kids get fucked up unless the man marrys the girl he has children with. If the guy wants to be a good dad and put his children first before humself which is what any good parent will do the kids will be fine.

                                                                                      3. If you do want children in MOST cases you have to get married.

                                                                                      4. If you don't want kids I agree there is no reason to get married.

                                                                                      5. In my situation being 42 with a 14 year old son and a 11 year old daughter I ABSOLUTLY HAVE NOTHING TO GAIN BY GETTING MARRIED AGAIN. I would consider bying a house and living with my GF but there simply is no reason to get married.

                                                                                      BOTTOM LINE---when well over 50% of marriges end in divorce and in MOST of the cases us MEN GET ROBBED unless there is a IRON CLAD PERNUPTUAL I would say if you don't want kids don't do it...

                                                                                      They really need to change the divorce laws because in MANY CASES women getting married is like them having a job. My x had nothing. Now because of what she got and what my payments continue to be in child support she has a GREAT life. If she never met me or never got married she would probably be living with her folks.

                                                                                      In my case my X NEVER DEPOSITED 1 DIME into our joint savings or checking accounts yet she leaves the marrige with over 60%..

                                                                                      So inconclusion---LISTEN TO DARK JEDI..He might be a little cold how he presents himself but he is on the right track!!!!
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                                                                                      • Mr. Pat
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                                                        There is absolutely NO reason for a man to get married. Marriage is a benefit for women, only.

                                                                                        For men it's a step down in every way...freedom, happiness, wealth, sex, opportunity... It's a losing proposition no matter how you look at it.

                                                                                        If you're thinking about getting married, DON'T.
                                                                                        thats' a big steaming pile of bullshit if i ever heard of it. i gained in every category above from marriage
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                                                                                        • DarkJedi
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Any woman you marry is going to wither up or get fat.

                                                                                          Then you are stuck.

                                                                                          And married men, please do not go on about your how hot your wither/fat wives are, because no one believes you.

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                                                                                          • BlackCrayon
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            this post doesnt' make sense. you're acting like a child that the man is also responsible for, isn't responsible for that at all. what does a woman gain? nothing more than a man would gain. the pros and cons you see are all perspective and mostly based on your past experiences and observations.
                                                                                            you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                                                                            • DarkJedi
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by Mr. Pat
                                                                                              thats' a big steaming pile of bullshit if i ever heard of it. i gained in every category above from marriage
                                                                                              Thats because you're a beta male.

                                                                                              Real men have access to everything listed there without getting married.

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                                                                                              • Elli
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Every man will also get withered and fat. Such is the beauty of growing old together.
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                                                                                                • alexg
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by JFK
                                                                                                  What do you mean gain Nothing ? I gained about 50 lbs

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                                                                                                  • DarkJedi
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                                                                                                    this post doesnt' make sense. you're acting like a child that the man is also responsible for, isn't responsible for that at all. what does a woman gain? nothing more than a man would gain. the pros and cons you see are all perspective and mostly based on your past experiences and observations.
                                                                                                    When she divorces you on your ass and you pay 1/2 your check to her and childsupport you will sing another tune.

                                                                                                    But seriously, how many men here would you like to fuck 1 women for the rest of their lives ?

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